YAGT = What should I and my GF do about her ex-bf who is a total loser? (UDATED) - he is coming today again!

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pinion9

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May 5, 2005
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Have you thought of getting together, the three of you, and then getting your girlfriend into a Wobbly-H? Nothing like Chinese fingercuffs to cure the dude. Make him be in front though. If you can, pull an access denied OR, if you have the set to do it, give him a Stinkhook or better yet, a Jelly Donut.

Don't forget :camera:
 

JS80

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Oct 24, 2005
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you sure your gf wasn't a lesbian in her past relationship? that doesn't sound like a man.
 

mpitts

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Be supportive. Remember that this is your girlfriend's problem, not yours. She is going to need to deal with him.

She should probably start by ignoring his phone calls or rejecting calls from his number(s). Any attention from her to him is going to be misconstrued by him. She needs to cut off all communication. If he shows up where she works, she will need to ignore him or have the manager tell him to leave. If he shows up at her place, she should tell him to leave and that she is not interested in talking to him.

This is the ONLY way he is going to get the message.
 

Aquaman

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Dec 17, 1999
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You should take the opportunity to meet up with this guy since he is coming to visit your girl. Tell him how it is and to piss off :p

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

Iron Addict

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if he's doing that knowing ur her current bf, that's a total disrespect and you should show him that you dont appreciate that kind of actions.
if he doesn't kno she's taken by you, then she should make clear of the situation.
 

huberm

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Dec 17, 2004
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warm him first - ask him nicely to stop bothering both of you. If that doesn't solve the problem, get a restraining order at the local police station.
 

y2kc

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he's coming back? you should have a word with him... protect your woman, he sounds a bit crazy.