What do you guys make of this situation:
*Girlfriend of 2.5 years starts to hang around a new crowd of people. They are much different from her traditional group of friends.
*A month or two after that the girlfriend tells the boyfriend that she wants to break-up and that this is it. The boyfriend blames it on the new group of friends.
-Reason for breaking up? Her grades in school are slipping and she wants to do good. Her excuse was that the boyfriend was taking up too much of her time. She also said the chemistry was just not there the last 3-days (they were fighting over her friends).
*After about a couple hours discussing the situation, the girlfriend says she just wants to be single. She didn't say what that meant.
*Then after more time discussing the situation she mentions she wants to explore her options. She wants to be hurt/loved by others. She wants to see if she really loves the boyfriend.
She is 19 and feels she is trapped and wants to experience everything. After some more talking the boyfriend, he told her that he does not wish to be friends if it ends. She starts to cry and tells him that she thinks she is making a mistake about breaking up but she must do it. She kept insisting a 2 month break until school is finished, but the boyfriend told her he doesn't believe that is the reason and if she leaves it is over for good.
They come to a conclusion that the girlfriend is going to think about it and she is NOT to contact him until she has an answer of yes or no on wether they will stay together. It could be a day, week, or months. If it is NO the boyfriend is going to change his number and stop contacting her, if it is a yes they will work out the "problems".
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Another guy? Most def.
*Girlfriend of 2.5 years starts to hang around a new crowd of people. They are much different from her traditional group of friends.
*A month or two after that the girlfriend tells the boyfriend that she wants to break-up and that this is it. The boyfriend blames it on the new group of friends.
-Reason for breaking up? Her grades in school are slipping and she wants to do good. Her excuse was that the boyfriend was taking up too much of her time. She also said the chemistry was just not there the last 3-days (they were fighting over her friends).
*After about a couple hours discussing the situation, the girlfriend says she just wants to be single. She didn't say what that meant.
*Then after more time discussing the situation she mentions she wants to explore her options. She wants to be hurt/loved by others. She wants to see if she really loves the boyfriend.
She is 19 and feels she is trapped and wants to experience everything. After some more talking the boyfriend, he told her that he does not wish to be friends if it ends. She starts to cry and tells him that she thinks she is making a mistake about breaking up but she must do it. She kept insisting a 2 month break until school is finished, but the boyfriend told her he doesn't believe that is the reason and if she leaves it is over for good.
They come to a conclusion that the girlfriend is going to think about it and she is NOT to contact him until she has an answer of yes or no on wether they will stay together. It could be a day, week, or months. If it is NO the boyfriend is going to change his number and stop contacting her, if it is a yes they will work out the "problems".
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Another guy? Most def.
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