YAGT: What does this mean and what should I do

[Chabs39]

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[rezinn]

Call her. If she gave you her number, she doesn't care much about her boyfriend and you will be doing him a favor.

 

[hysperion]

Originally posted by: rezinn
Call her. If she gave you her number, she doesn't care much about her boyfriend and you will be doing him a favor.

+1

 

[Chabs39]

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[Baked]

LMAO, she's on facebook.

 

[Chabs39]

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[j00fek]

Originally posted by: hysperion

Originally posted by: rezinn
Call her. If she gave you her number, she doesn't care much about her boyfriend and you will be doing him a favor.

+1

+2

 

[yobarman]

If she gave you her number you should persue that. Boyfriend shmoyfriend

 

[iRONic]

Originally posted by: rezinn
Call her. If she gave you her number, she doesn't care much about her boyfriend and you will be doing him a favor.

Yes, do that. Then the OP can be her bf and eventually he can have the next shmuck she gives her number to do him the same 'favor.'

 

[Cal166]

Originally posted by: Chabs39
Yeah but the reason she didn't want to go out after work, because I wanted to go out to dinner or something was that she had a boyfriend. Why would she change her mind if I called her?

Giver her enough attention and show her you care enough, you will eventually win her over.

 

[Ika]

Originally posted by: Cal166

Originally posted by: Chabs39
Yeah but the reason she didn't want to go out after work, because I wanted to go out to dinner or something was that she had a boyfriend. Why would she change her mind if I called her?

Giver her enough attention and show her you care enough, you will eventually win her over.

depends on the girl.

 

[Brutuskend]

Originally posted by: Chabs39
So I asked out this girl at work, now before you start in with how coworkers shouldn't date we are not actually coworkers. She is an intern for a law firm that was doing some work with us. She was only going to be there for a couple days, she is already gone now since she left on Wednesday. Anyways I asked her out and it turns out that she has a boyfriend, but she still gives me her number. I looked her up on facebook and it looks like they are at least semi-seriously dating. So my question is what does it mean that she still gave me her number, and should I call her or just let it go.

She's still looking around to find the guy with the biggest pud.

 

[Cal166]

Originally posted by: guoziming

Originally posted by: Cal166

Originally posted by: Chabs39
Yeah but the reason she didn't want to go out after work, because I wanted to go out to dinner or something was that she had a boyfriend. Why would she change her mind if I called her?

Giver her enough attention and show her you care enough, you will eventually win her over.

depends on the girl.

Let's see, she has Facebook...semi-dating some guy...gives out her phone number...

 

[dainthomas]

Originally posted by: Cal166

Originally posted by: Chabs39
Yeah but the reason she didn't want to go out after work, because I wanted to go out to dinner or something was that she had a boyfriend. Why would she change her mind if I called her?

Giver her enough attention and show her you care enough, you will eventually win her over.

Or treat her like crap and ignore her. That works for a lot of chicks.

 

[swtethan]

Originally posted by: iRONic

Originally posted by: rezinn
Call her. If she gave you her number, she doesn't care much about her boyfriend and you will be doing him a favor.

Yes, do that. Then the OP can be her bf and eventually he can have the next shmuck she gives her number to do him the same 'favor.'

karma train is just chugging along

 

[Cal166]

Originally posted by: dainthomas

Originally posted by: Cal166

Originally posted by: Chabs39
Yeah but the reason she didn't want to go out after work, because I wanted to go out to dinner or something was that she had a boyfriend. Why would she change her mind if I called her?

Giver her enough attention and show her you care enough, you will eventually win her over.

Or treat her like crap and ignore her. That works for a lot of chicks.

QFT

 

[altonb1]

maybe she is semi-serious but doesn't see a long-term future? Call her...maybe you can gain a "friend with benefits" out of it if it doesn't go further. FACT: MOST girls will stick with a guy until another comes along to replace him.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: Chabs39
Yeah but the reason she didn't want to go out after work, because I wanted to go out to dinner or something was that she had a boyfriend. Why would she change her mind if I called her?

Call her and find out.

/thread

 

[Chabs39]

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[Whisper]

Originally posted by: altonb1
maybe she is semi-serious but doesn't see a long-term future? Call her...maybe you can gain a "friend with benefits" out of it if it doesn't go further. FACT: MOST girls will stick with a guy until another comes along to replace him.

This does happen a lot, and while I'm not sure I'd go so far as to say most girls do it, many will stay with someone with whom they don't see a future or are only mildly happy simply for the sake of "security" (i.e. not being single).

She gave you her number, you might as well call. After the first conversation or so, you'll probably be able to get a good idea of what exactly it is she's looking for.

 

[imported_Pablo]

Originally posted by: Baked
LMAO, she's on facebook.

laughing your ass off? what's funny about facebook?

 

[ahurtt]

It means she will probably cheat on her boyfriend with you if she likes you. Which also means that you shouldn't get seriously involved with her because you already know she is a cheater. If she did it to him, she'll do it to you. So by all means, yeah, knock the bottom out of her. Then ditch her.

 

[KarenMarie]

So my question is what does it mean that she still gave me her number, and should I call her or just let it go.

It means she cannot be trusted.

/thread.

 

[imported_Phil]

Originally posted by: ahurtt
It means she will probably cheat on her boyfriend with you if she likes you. Which also means that you shouldn't get seriously involved with her because you already know she is a cheater. If she did it to him, she'll do it to you. So by all means, yeah, knock the bottom out of her. Then ditch her.

Beat me to it. Hit it, quit it.

 

[DannyLove]

Originally posted by: Chabs39
So I asked out this girl at work, now before you start in with how coworkers shouldn't date we are not actually coworkers. She is an intern for a law firm that was doing some work with us. She was only going to be there for a couple days, she is already gone now since she left on Wednesday. Anyways I asked her out and it turns out that she has a boyfriend, but she still gives me her number. I looked her up on facebook and it looks like they are at least semi-seriously dating. So my question is what does it mean that she still gave me her number, and should I call her or just let it go.

simple. Booty Call.

It means she is still down to party and if don't blow it, you can get her to come out one night and you can screw her, because that is what she wants.

First of all, don't call her. Let a good week pass or so. Call her late, or possibly early evening during the week and ask her about the weekend. Have her meet you at a bar somewhere, or arrange to meet you AFTER dinner somewhere. Don't call her in the weekend, and don't call her too often. If she flakes on you, do not call her again or even bother with girls like that; normally those are the attention wh0res and they like to know they have guys constantly calling them to build up their self-esteem.

btw, boyfriends don't mean sh|t. Hell, even husbands don't mean sh|t. If their needs aren't met, they will look elsewhere, and let's hope you are that elsewhere.

good luck

danny~!