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YAGT: What does this girl want? Update if anyone cares

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Originally posted by: sygyzy
Originally posted by: mwtgg
Originally posted by: sygyzy
I like that she is intelligent and can type. It makes things reading much better. I say forgive her and hook up. A smart girl is a keeper.
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Wut r u talking about?

On a more serious note, move on.
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You really don't know, do you?
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I do know. You obviously didn't get it. Oh well...

 
kinda odd a girl that you havnt spoken to for a month checks your profile... maybe she liked you

but SHES FREAKING NUTCASE!!! BLOCK HER NOW!

 
My take:

You two both allegedly share similar intellectual interests and as a result began a friendship.
You, a likely socially-inept and semi-awkward individual, grew feelings for the girl, but knew not how to act upon them.
You, being observant, surmised the feelings were not reciprocated.
Yet you remained friends; she continued to seek conversation.
You grew resentful and typically assumed she was "leading you on."
You, childishly, cut off all communication in a bid to both "forget her" and the way she made you feel, and to also attempt to gain her attention and make her ask, "What's wrong?"

You still have feelings for her, and she still wants to be your friend.
 
glowbaby: there was no trouble, you're just overdramatic and oversensitive etc
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Wow she called you on it. You're the one beating around the bush by putting stupid quotes in your profile in hopes she'll talk toyou about them. You're the one who's a chump who doesn't know how to get your point across to girls. Judging by what i've read so far, this girl is too smart for you and you're really coming off as the clingy pansy type that girls don't really want.
 
Here's a question, why did you put those quotes in your profile?

If you really didn't want a relationship with her, I'd assume you'd just act normally, not asking for attention from her.
 
Originally posted by: waylman
JESUS man, I can't read all of this. Why do things have to be so complicated? Do you like her? If yes, ask her if she likes you? If yes, date her. END OF STORY!
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My thoughts exactly.
 
Originally posted by: bootymac
Here's a question, why did you put those quotes in your profile?

If you really didn't want a relationship with her, I'd assume you'd just act normally, not asking for attention from her.
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Well the one about the cycle was about her.
The one that was in it today was not about her. It can be related to her, but it wasn't.

I honestly do not want to be her friend or anything. I deleted her from my buddy list when I stopped talking to her because of my feelings for her.. Feelings I want to get rid of.
 
Originally posted by: yobarman
glowbaby: there was no trouble, you're just overdramatic and oversensitive etc
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Wow she called you on it. You're the one beating around the bush by putting stupid quotes in your profile in hopes she'll talk toyou about them. You're the one who's a chump who doesn't know how to get your point across to girls. Judging by what i've read so far, this girl is too smart for you and you're really coming off as the clingy pansy type that girls don't really want.
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I don't put quotes in my profile hoping she will IM me about them. I swear, I didn't even think she read my profile, especially not after a month.
 
Originally posted by: brigden
My take:

You two both allegedly share similar intellectual interests and as a result began a friendship.
You, a likely socially-inept and semi-awkward individual, grew feelings for the girl, but knew not how to act upon them.
You, being observant, surmised the feelings were not reciprocated.
Yet you remained friends; she continued to seek conversation.
You grew resentful and typically assumed she was "leading you on."
You, childishly, cut off all communication in a bid to both "forget her" and the way she made you feel, and to also attempt to gain her attention and make her ask, "What's wrong?"

You still have feelings for her, and she still wants to be your friend.
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No, she definately lead me on. I assumed from the beginning that she wasn't interested in me. The reality was she was confused and didn't know what she wanted. I never knew what was going on. I got tired of that.
 
say that you like her, ask if she likes you, if yes, go gangbang, if not walk away... else, she will suck you up.
 
It seems she likes to talk to you, but feels you want to Do er so she pushes you away. Then she wants to talk to you again, but feels you're crazy for not liking her just because she doesn't find you attractive. She then tries to blame you for the friendship not working out and cuts you off before you can reply.

Well one of you is crazy. Since I've only heard your side of the story, and from your posted conversation, it seems she's the crazy one so I'll side with you. Don't waste your time with her. She won't give it up to you. Just move on and if she wants to still be friends, you can be friends, but don't develop any more feelings for her. When you have a gf down the line, she'll start to find you attractive (always seem to happen that way).

Cliff note: DUMP THE B.tch and move on.

Edit: She's crazy and if she says she's confused, it means you're not her type.
 
I forgot to mention that one of the reasons I liked her the second time was her flirting with me and screwing with my head. You know how it goes. 🙁
 
you know, if you really don't want anything to do with her, why are you even bothering with this post? she im'ed you, so what? it doesn't matter why she did it, what matters is it doesn't mean crap to you.

if you truly want to move on, then do it, stop thinking about this.



 
She sounds kinda mean there and overall not considerate...if you can't get along with her and it ends up turning out like this, you gotta back off from this person.
 
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Originally posted by: brigden
My take:

You two both allegedly share similar intellectual interests and as a result began a friendship.
You, a likely socially-inept and semi-awkward individual, grew feelings for the girl, but knew not how to act upon them.
You, being observant, surmised the feelings were not reciprocated.
Yet you remained friends; she continued to seek conversation.
You grew resentful and typically assumed she was "leading you on."
You, childishly, cut off all communication in a bid to both "forget her" and the way she made you feel, and to also attempt to gain her attention and make her ask, "What's wrong?"

You still have feelings for her, and she still wants to be your friend.
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No, she definately lead me on. I assumed from the beginning that she wasn't interested in me. The reality was she was confused and didn't know what she wanted. I never knew what was going on. I got tired of that.
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I think by confused you mean unsure. Sounds to me like this girl appreciates you as a friend and conversationalist, but isn't attracted to you enough to commit to a romantic relationship. It's common for men to interpret many feminine gestures and idiosyncrasies as desire.

After re-reading your message history it is also clear that this girl is enjoying the attention and feelings she stirs in you, despite not being attracted to you.
 
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