I ran into a girl last night whom I had not seen in a while. I have never found myself terribly attracted to her, but we share some common interests. One of those is a love for the land of Israel. I am planning on moving back there in August, and she will be moving there as soon as possible. We talked most of the night, and I really found myself enjoying my time with her (more than usual). We even went out to my car to smoke a cigarrette, and if I hadnt started feeling a little tipsy from the alcohol I probably would have kissed her. At the end of the night she gets my numbers and tells me that she wants me to "sleep over" on Monday night. It is a seemingly innocent offer, given that she is staying in a ver very large house, with many bedrooms, and actually happens to be a house that was once owned by one of my best friends (a place I spent a lot of time as a young high-schooler) .
I wonder though....what do you think she expects from me ? I am trying to avoid casual sex all together, these days. It has been a cause for many failed realtionships, and I am trying to save that step for more serious realtionships.
Do you think this girl will be expecting sex ? Am I better off just finding an excuse NOT to go, so as to avoid the uncomfortableness of saying "no" ?
Am I just flattering myself ? Maybe she really just wants to have a fun, old-school, sleep over ?
Do girls understand a guy who wants to wait ?
I wonder though....what do you think she expects from me ? I am trying to avoid casual sex all together, these days. It has been a cause for many failed realtionships, and I am trying to save that step for more serious realtionships.
Do you think this girl will be expecting sex ? Am I better off just finding an excuse NOT to go, so as to avoid the uncomfortableness of saying "no" ?
Am I just flattering myself ? Maybe she really just wants to have a fun, old-school, sleep over ?
Do girls understand a guy who wants to wait ?
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