YAGT: What does maybe mean?

[Underground727]

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: gopunk

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: gopunk

Originally posted by: Underground727 Girls that like you let you know they like you. Girls that you ask to do things with and they respond with maybe just like to see how much they can control you. She wants you to beg. This is just the beginning. Don't let her hurt you, man.

yea i totally agree... so treat her like sh!t... stand her up and stuff

Are you being serious, or just fvcking around? I really wanna go out with this girl.

if she is the type of girl underground727 described, then yes, i am dead serious, because that is your best shot (but you can't let yourself get attached). if she isn't that type of girl, then just ask her to do whatever and see what happens... if she is but you want to get attached, then you are kind of screwed because you will get hurt.

Put it this way. She has always been nice to me. Always smiles at me first in the hallways. So I know she is nice, but do you think this means nothing? If you really think it's futile, I'll ask her again tomorrow, and see what happens. If she says maybe, I guess that will mean no.

Just because she is nice means nothing. Lots of girls that act nice are actually very shady. Girls don't know how to say no. They don't want to hurt your feelings. And they are afraid if they just say no, you will not be their friend anymore. And then they can't use you to get whatever they are using you for anymore.

Just cut off all communication. You obviously feel differently about her than she feels about you. You think she is talking to her group of friends about you right now? No.

Just find a different girl. You will know if she likes you. And if she is shy her friend will tell you pretty soon after you meet her.

 

[Underground727]

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Aceshigh
If you're attracted to a girl, don't say would you like to hang out with me. That implies friendship only.

I was told by a friend that I should try and become friends first, then build up from there.

Very, very, very, very, very bad advice.

You will never hit it if you make friends with her first. You have to be clear about your intentions with her.

 

[Underground727]

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Aceshigh If you're attracted to a girl, don't say would you like to hang out with me. That implies friendship only.

I was told by a friend that I should try and become friends first, then build up from there.

Your friend is a wise man . If you're friends already, you've got something in common that you can carry over to a "relationship".

That's what I was thinking. If I knew her for a while I would jump right in and ask, but I've only known her for like 6 months, so I thought a friendship would be a better start, so we could see if compatabilities exist.

6 months?!?!?!? Dude, your not going to hook up with this girl.

 

[PowerMacG5]

Originally posted by: Underground727

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Aceshigh If you're attracted to a girl, don't say would you like to hang out with me. That implies friendship only.

I was told by a friend that I should try and become friends first, then build up from there.

Your friend is a wise man . If you're friends already, you've got something in common that you can carry over to a "relationship".

That's what I was thinking. If I knew her for a while I would jump right in and ask, but I've only known her for like 6 months, so I thought a friendship would be a better start, so we could see if compatabilities exist.

6 months?!?!?!? Dude, your not going to hook up with this girl.

Why not? You can know someone for a lifetime (well our short lifetimes) and still hook up with them.

 

[Rayden]

i don't feel i was too negative. i just doubt that she will take the initiative to get back to you. so you gotta take it.

also, hopefully since she's in highschool, young, maybe innocent she isn't playing games with you. i'd give her the benefit of the doubt right now and ask her once more.

once you have dated more women you will hopefully get a feel for when they are trying to be too nice in rejecting you.

 

[Rayden]

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Underground727

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: KraziKid

Originally posted by: Aceshigh If you're attracted to a girl, don't say would you like to hang out with me. That implies friendship only.

I was told by a friend that I should try and become friends first, then build up from there.

Your friend is a wise man . If you're friends already, you've got something in common that you can carry over to a "relationship".

That's what I was thinking. If I knew her for a while I would jump right in and ask, but I've only known her for like 6 months, so I thought a friendship would be a better start, so we could see if compatabilities exist.

6 months?!?!?!? Dude, your not going to hook up with this girl.

Why not? You can know someone for a lifetime (well our short lifetimes) and still hook up with them.

i heard somewhere that the chance that you marry someone you knew as a child are pretty good. dunno where that is from and even what the percentages are. perhaps its a myth.

 

[jdogg]

every woman i have met has a complete inability to be straightforward when first talking to a guy .... you're gonna have to go by the context .. did she seem interested or not? pay attention to body language, its very important ....

 

[geckojohn]

It probably means no. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Next time be more straight up with her. Instead of saying, "wondering"... you should say "let's" hang out.

Take the advice from a PRO!

 

[MithShrike]

Hmmm...

 

[Encryptic]

It means "Why was this thread bumped? It's 5 days old, which is ancient history in Internet time."

 

[AreaCode707]

*laughs at all you guys trying to or think you have figured out a girl*

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: HotChic
*laughs at all you guys trying to or think you have figured out a girl*

Oh we've all figured you women out. We just pretend not to so you'll think you're in charge, while we adjust things to our liking behind your backs.

 

[Toasthead]

YES = No
Maybe = No
No = No

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: HotChic
*laughs at all you guys trying to or think you have figured out a girl*

Oh we've all figured you women out. We just pretend not to so you'll think you're in charge, while we adjust things to our liking behind your backs.

Liar. I'm just laughing cause it's not possible to figure out a girl. Even the girl can't figure herself out.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: HotChic
*laughs at all you guys trying to or think you have figured out a girl*

Oh we've all figured you women out. We just pretend not to so you'll think you're in charge, while we adjust things to our liking behind your backs.

Even the girl can't figure herself out.

At least you're honest about it.