YAGT: well sorta... Am I gay?

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ElFenix

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if she was drunk then no. if she was trying to give you a hand job and you weren't even getting a stiffy then yes.
 

Mean MrMustard

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Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: rudeguy
after reading the thread...good call on not hitting it...if she was drunk she could charge you with rape...you are however, still gay

well said.

Yes, its a double edged sword. While not hooking up, you probably made the best decision. However, turning down sex is a disgrace to men everywhere. You will be sentenced to many days wondering how it would have been if you did, and since you didn't are you then gay. Best of wishes, I have been there. It sucks but it will then happen again and then you will really question your sexuality. You will think that you are a freak and can't have a normal relationship, then you will join a internet forum and start banging away on keyboard, nearing slamming your head into the wall....

...I mean, nevermind.
 

TrueBlueLS

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Originally posted by: illusion88
No really check it out.

So this girl that I am going to prom with held a rocking party this weekend. After an hour or so we ended up in her bedroom (I was seduced hehe). We started just making out a little but things moved futher. She was drunk so I had to turn her down. Later that night when I went back home to sleep (driving that night, no drink for me) I was thinking to myself. "She had your pants down and you had to say 'i'm sorry, some other time'. Are you gay?" I try to pretned that I have some kind of morals. I was talking with my friends and they where like "WTF? you stopped her? Are you gay you dumb bastard?"

Whats the verdict?

Only do it when you're both able to completely remember what happens. Sex only means something when that is the case. Now whether you're gay... yes you are. You had to ask us if you were gay.
 

You did a good thing - who knows whether she really wanted to do that stuff with you, because she was too drunk to know what she was doing.

The world needs more people like you.
 

Scarpozzi

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Originally posted by: rbloedow
Yea, the prom is the perfect time to get laid, and you passed it up. Too bad.
You shoulda done it.... You'll regret it for the rest of your life. You're not gay though unless you fantasize about men.
 

Scarpozzi

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One more comment. Girls don't get any younger and as you get older, you'll still be able to find younger girls than you and hit it. However, you'll need to keep in mind that your range of fair game will keep getting older as the years roll on. Get as much as you can while there isn't any wrinkles on dat @ss!!! I am not lookin' forward to the days that I'm sittin' up in da nursing home hittin' da cobwebs.

 

TheCorm

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I don't think you are gay....looks like you may really have some morals....good for you....glad i don't!...:D
 

kxy

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You did the right thing. You presented yourself not as a typically sex deprived geek. There are always plenty of other opportunities. Trust me, I think she wants it. She is using I am a drunk as an excuse, so she wont be called a slut afterwards.


yea yea yea, high school and their own politics.