YAGT: well sorta... Am I gay?

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: Electric Amish

What "jail-time" are all you people referring to?

It's different if she's intoxicated and putting the moves on you than when she's passed out and you fskc her.

amish

Consent while intoxicated is not consent. I don't have the time to look up the cases that have set precedent for this, so you'll have to believe me. And he wasn't intoxicated...that doesn't help him any. If she wanted to claim rape, he wouldn't have a leg to stand on.

 

[tweakmm]

If she wants to jump his bones when she is drunk and probably wants to jump them sober, I think the chance of her calling rape if he had hit it would be quite miniscule.

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: tweakmm
If she wants to jump his bones when she is drunk and probably wants to jump them sober, I think the chance of her calling rape if he had hit it would be quite minute.

why take the chance? 1% is too high for me to spend the next 3-5 in prison.

 

[illusion88]

Originally posted by: TheEvil1

not really. if she yeller RAPE he woudl still be fuked.

i have done the same thing you have. its teh right thing to do. Im 21 done it in college also.

just FYI tho. if it ever happens agan at least get a BJ out of it

Ill keep that in mind... lol

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: pyonir

Originally posted by: tweakmm
If she wants to jump his bones when she is drunk and probably wants to jump them sober, I think the chance of her calling rape if he had hit it would be quite minute.

why take the chance? 1% is too high for me to spend the next 3-5 in prison.

I mean really really really small
eh... different strokes for different folks, you gotta do what you feel is right.

 

[Jzero]

You dodged a potential rape bullet. Good job. Smart != Gay.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: pyonir

Originally posted by: Electric Amish

What "jail-time" are all you people referring to?

It's different if she's intoxicated and putting the moves on you than when she's passed out and you fskc her.

amish

Consent while intoxicated is not consent. I don't have the time to look up the cases that have set precedent for this, so you'll have to believe me. And he wasn't intoxicated...that doesn't help him any. If she wanted to claim rape, he wouldn't have a leg to stand on.

No, intoxication does not revoke the ability to give consent. Link me a case or I don't believe it because I have ALWAYS read otherwise.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: illusion88

Originally posted by: Electric Amish

Originally posted by: rudeguy

Originally posted by: conjur

Originally posted by: illusion88
All right, casue danm. Everyone I talked to was saying...

"Dude, you fvcking moron. What the hell where you thinking?"

Well, compare the sources of responses. I'm guessing the responses you were getting were from 16/17 year-old virgins and up here you're getting a wider range of ages, such as myself at 36 who thinks you did the admirable thing.

even young bucks like me (I'm 24) know that getting laid isnt worth the jail time...why do you think they made internet pron???

What "jail-time" are all you people referring to?

It's different if she's intoxicated and putting the moves on you than when she's passed out and you fskc her.

amish

She is intoxicated, it is rape. Even if she is comming on to you.

No bud, you have it wrong. This is not fvcking Hollywood and our justice system isn't based on crap movies or crap urban legends or even crap that people say that don't know what the fvck they are talking about.

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: Millennium

No, intoxication does not revoke the ability to give consent. Link me a case or I don't believe it because I have ALWAYS read otherwise.

Already said i'm not looking up a case. I've read it the way i've stated it. That is what i was taught in college classes as well.

Don't believe it. Doesn't really matter to me.

 

[Ranger X]

YAGT: well sorta... Am I gay?

Flamin'

😛

 

[codeyf]

Originally posted by: ATLien247
She was initiating it all, not you... I'd say it was fair to let her hit it! 😛

I'm gonna have to agree with that. He likes her, she like him, she was ON TOP OF HIM, initiating. Just delayed the inevitable. Because of him turning it down, he has now missed the opportunity to tap it numerous times between now and Prom....

 

[nativesunshine]

I think it's so dumb that a guy is either "gay" or "stupid" for turning down a girl. Don't any of you have morals?? The girl was drunk and most likely wasn't thinking clearly. Imagine if he had gone through with it..and the next morning she decides to press charges for rape? You boys really need to start thinking...

illusion...i applaud you for turning down that girl and not taking advantage of her. Don't listen to anyone who tells you that you are gay/stupid/etc. And YOU especially shouldn't question your sexuality.

My boyfriend started that thread about questioning his apartment-mate's sexuality b/c he pretty much did the same thing you did...and would "rather sit in front of his computer and chat w/ girls". Maybe that second part sounds weird...but why should he sleep with the girl just because she wants him? Maybe he had his own reasons for not wanting to sleep with her. It is not right for someone else to judge him and question him for his decisions. At least he MAKES decisions. Bleh.

/rant

 

[Looney]

I'd say you were dumb. You obviously didn't pursue it, so i'll say she liked you, and just needed alcohol to loosen her inhibition to act on her desires. Imagine how she feels getting rejected.

 

[Sid59]

never ever have sex with a drunk or stoned chick.

 

[TallBill]

Maybe not gay.. but theres NO way i'd pass up on a situation like that assuming she was hot.

 

[Dacalo]

you are trying to:

1. Brag that you had a chance to have sex with a girl
2. Be complimented that you did the right thing

your thread is gay

 

[Electric Amish]

So, anytime you have sex with someone that's intoxicated it's rape?

Damn! Rape cases are like an hourly occurance (on average) then.

Even the world's crappiest lawyer should be able to get you outta this...

amish

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: pyonir

Originally posted by: Millennium

No, intoxication does not revoke the ability to give consent. Link me a case or I don't believe it because I have ALWAYS read otherwise.

Already said i'm not looking up a case. I've read it the way i've stated it. That is what i was taught in college classes as well.

Don't believe it. Doesn't really matter to me.

So is this one of those we have to take your word for it type of deals?

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: Millennium

So is this one of those we have to take your word for it type of deals?

Did you read my first post about this? obviously not. Prove me wrong then...show me a case where i'm wrong. I can admit i'm wrong. What i've stated is how i remember it being told me in college.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: pyonir

Originally posted by: Millennium

So is this one of those we have to take your word for it type of deals?

Did you read my first post about this? obviously not. Prove me wrong then...show me a case where i'm wrong. I can admit i'm wrong. What i've stated is how i remember it being told me in college.

Yes, I read ALL of your posts. What you "read" in college is simply the guidelines that most colleges say are the truth. A majority of schools have information posted on the Residential living site that says any sex under the influence of alcohol is rape. It says a person cannot give consent unless sober. That is a load of crap and the actual idea is anyone INCAPACITATED(i.e. falling over drunk, drugged out of their mind, etc). If they give you verbal consent then it will come down the VICTIM proving the case in court. Rape is one of the hardest crimes to prove bar-none. It is one of the only crimes in which the victim is on trial just as much as the attacker. It is essential to prove the attack was FORCED and that the victim did not give voluntary consent to her attacker. In a sense, the burden of proof is on the victim to show that her character is beyond question and in no way did she encourage, entice, or mislead the accused.

That last 3 or so sentences was taken directly out of Criminology: Theories, Patterns, and Typologies by Larry J. Siegal UMASS.

 

[spp]

if you had rubber and turned her down, then you are

 

[pyonir]

Feel better?

BTW: when i said what i was taught in college, i was talking about criminal justice classes, not a dorm flyer.

 

[ajayjuneja]

give the girl a call, and see if you can get together with in private, with no alcohol 🙂

then see if she still likes you.. if so, then pursue shagging her.

 

[Feldenak]

Good job. You may have even earned brownie points with this girl for not taking advantage of the drunk situation. 😀

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: pyonir
Feel better?

BTW: when i said what i was taught in college, i was talking about criminal justice classes, not a dorm flyer.

Why are you jumping my sh!t when all I did was ask for proof? Hey, I learned a lot different than you in my CJ classes. That is why if there is a case you know of please link it. If I am wrong I will GLADLY admit it and amend my opinion. You must be having a bad day because normally you don't respond like this. I apologize if I offended you by asking for proof. I wasn't doing it to prove you wrong, but rather to get a link so I could change my opinion if need be.