YAGT: This girl is pushing me to my limit.

[npoe1]

I'm 24 years and we work for the same company, she is still in college.

 

[wheresmybacon]

It's been a week and she's already being a C U Next Tuesday. Dump her. Easy call.

 

[MisterJackson]

You sound young (I mean no disrespect by that, just observing) so use this as a life lesson. She's not into you. If she were then she'd treat you better. Are you two having sex? If so, that might be the only reason she's hanging around. If that's the case she'll likely leave you the first chance she gets to be with someone she likes more.

Best to cut your losses NOW. If she whines and complains, begging you to stay tell her you can be a peice of meat to her and nothing more. Then enjoy the free ride while it lasts.

Also, it sounds like she's a party girl and you're not going to these parties with her. Is that correct? If so, big red flag. Run for the border! (sorry, bad Mexican joke)

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: SViper
Don't put up with her crap. You have to set the tone at the beginning of the relationship if you want it to last any amount of time. Show a little backbone and tell her about it. If you don't say anything, she will just walk all over you for the rest of the relationship.

Agreed. You should never consider yourself obligated to take her sh!t.

 

[Saulbadguy]

******

 

[npoe1]

Yes, english is my "second" language, I only attend to public school,so any corrections is welcome.

 

[KarmaPolice]

that was hard to read.

 

[Kev]

You don't want to throw this relationship away. You've invested too much time to let something so trivial as being an annoying worthless cvnt to get in the way of you two kids being happy together.

 

[npoe1]

I actually was with her the Monday and Tuesday, but the last was too much party to me, my work requires more attention than hers, so I declined.

 

[ElFenix]

if you've only been seeing her a week she is not your girlfriend.

 

[npoe1]

We dated for a month and a week, the last week I asked her to be my girlfriend, she warmed me about her mood changes, I told her that I was ok with that, but?. She never discerned about who was the person in front of her, since yesterday, when it happen to be me, she is mean.

 

[ViviTheMage]

bAHAhahaHA your English is hilarious.

"she is new"

"I?m not a bag in which discharge her fury. "

I need to start making quote pages for these YAGT and quotes

 

[warcrow]

"non-nice"?

roflmao

 

[deerslayer]

I would dump her. If she's that much trouble now, it's only going to get worse.

 

[RallyMaster]

Originally posted by: MustISO
Bang her silly and dump her.

DHIT...(fill in)

 

[DaiShan]

I?m not a bag in which discharge her fury.

Whoa whoa whoa, there's discharge going on? Yeah I'd break up with her, you don't wanna catch that.

 

[npoe1]

Yes, I know, I have only a technical level with english, I could have used other expressions but I'm not of mood to think in different ways to say something, but I will try? you do not have to pay for this problem.

 

[preCRT]

For the OP, you've barely gone out, a month isn't much. If things are already going badly, time to end the relationship & look for someone more stable.

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
bAHAhahaHA your English is hilarious.

"she is new"

"I?m not a bag in which discharge her fury. "

I need to start making quote pages for these YAGT and quotes

You are a jackass; ban this idiot.

 

[Ameesh]

Originally posted by: npoe1
Ok, may be it is only about me, but why the f*** my girlfriend behave like a non-nice person with me and with every body else she is nice, she said that she have a headache and hasn?t sleep well since like 4 days, something like 4 hrs daily, the thing about the sleeping it?s true but it?s mostly because she have been at parties since Monday.

We have been together for about a week, she is brand new and actually I only know her for about one month and a half, she said to me twice that she like to be with me because she can be what she is and things like that, I could say that she is bipolar, but why she is being bad with me and not the others.

I?m considering breaking up, I?m not a bag in which discharge her fury.

Does any of you had this problem before?

dont put up with the nonsense so early on. it will probably only get worse

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: npoe1
We dated for a month and a week, the last week I asked her to be my girlfriend, she warmed me about her mood changes, I told her that I was ok with that, but?. She never discerned about who was the person in front of her, since yesterday, when it happen to be me, she is mean.

You need to ask yourself if this girl is the best girlfriend you can get, and does she satisfy all of your needs. If the answer is "no", dump her and find a different girlfriend. If the answer is "yes", work on making yourself a better person so you can get a better girlfriend.

 

[psteng19]

lol, are you dating my ex?

 

[npoe1]

Originally posted by: psteng19
lol, are you dating my ex?

Maybe, it could be. :Q

 

[Sex Smurf]

lesson learned. say goodbye and move on. You need more dating experience before you get a girlfriend anyway.

 

[Lonyo]

Originally posted by: npoe1
Yes, I know, I have only a technical level with english, I could have used other expressions but I'm not of mood to think in different ways to say something, but I will try? you do not have to pay for this problem.

It's barely any worse than others on here who claim to be from the US and have "English" as their first language.
If I were Mexican, and if I went to the US, I probably wouldn't bother to learn their language at all, since they don't bother either.

 

[voodoochylde]

Just ditch her. I can darn near guarantee she's screwin' around on you. Been there, done that, refuse to do it again.

Treat yourself with some respect, then respect her. Do NOT modify that sequence.