YAGT: Stupid things guys do regarding women.

[ScottyB]

Puts the girl's hand on his package and chants, "Neiner, neiner, neiner. Made you touch my weiner."

 

[stev0]

Originally posted by: notfred
Let's make a list:

1) Thinking she's special. She's probably not. Just because you love her doesn't make her anything more than a regular girl. If you answer the question "Why do you love her?" with something beginning with "hmm..." or "Um..." then there's probably nothing that special about her.

2) Thinking sex is meaningful. Mostly young people do this. Society gets kids to think that there's some special significance to sex, but there's not. Men like sex, women like sex, and just because she'll sleep with you doesn't mean she loves you.

3) ATers add your own... 🙂

LOL! 😀

#) make posts on atot about their girl troubles 😛

 

[Ness]

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: ness1469

The real bull is when they give YOU crap about THEM going to the club with their girls and REFUSE to let you come along.

"I do it because you don't ever want to go out with me!"
Wait, aren't I the one who wanted to come along?

"I go to have a good time, and there aren't guys hitting on us or anything!"
Yes, horny college guys never go to clubs.

Then they complain because they think that SOMEHOW, guys sitting around on guy's night, playing video games, having a few beers and watching sports is somehow a damage to a relationship moreso than the clubbing.

1) Sometimes women want a night out alone. They don't want the one guy tagging along.

2) Since you are already being psycho possesive she is trying to calm you. If she is decent looking she will get hit on, it's part of the fun. If you relationship is secure you shouldn't have to worry about her doing anything wrong. It's fun. If you want someone that other guys don't hit on, date a ugly chick.

They want you to come along for things other than girl's nights out. If you don't have friends of your own you can hang out with, that's your problem. They are not there for your 24/7 entertainment.

However, if they have girl's night, you get guy's night. It's fair. More often that not, both parties are overly possesive because they know the relationship is not right.

Å

Perhaps you aren't reading correctly. There IS a guy's night, and there IS a girls night. It's fine that she wants a night out alone, but when she says that she wants it solely for the fact that I won't go with her.. umm, hello? She wants to go, but won't let me go because I don't want to go? huzzuh? The whole reason I would WANT to go is because she wants me to, but then throws it back at me as me not wanting to go with her. I'm perfectly fine with her going to a club. The problem is that she purposely dresses as if she wants the guys to hit on her and her friends try to get her to act like skank. It's not that I'm possesive, it's that she is acting as if she want guys to be all over her. She's attractive, yes, and I'm not saying she should wear trash to avoid getting attention, but when your reason for going to a club is because I apparently don't care about you, then it's not hard to figure out why it upsets me. I guarantee it isn't because I know guys are hitting on her. Aside from that, when she says that guys don't hit on her and you know they do it's a problem. (because you know she is beautiful and any guy in their right mind would hit on her because it seems as if she's single.) It's not that I'd really care that guys are hitting on her, it's a matter of honesty. Hell, I'd feel a lot better if she said they did, because then I'd know that every guy wants what I have. So if being "psycho possesive" means not having a relationship where you can tell the other person anything and have them still love you, then I guess I'm guilty.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe


I prefer to go to clubs with my SO because I usually have a lot more fun with him but if I were to stop off for a drink after work with co-workers or something he certainly wouldn't go off the hook about it.So some guido talks to me,all that reflects is that I'm looking good and my SO has excellent taste in women.

There is going out to clubs together too. However there is absolutely no reason in a healthy relationship you have to be together 24/7 or not trust someone enough when they hang out with friends in a mixed crowd environment.

Usually the inseparable are that way due to trust issues rather than really wanting to be together all the time.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: ness1469


Perhaps you aren't reading correctly. There IS a guy's night, and there IS a girls night. It's fine that she wants a night out alone, but when she says that she wants it solely for the fact that I won't go with her.. umm, hello? She wants to go, but won't let me go because I don't want to go? huzzuh? The whole reason I would WANT to go is because she wants me to, but then throws it back at me as me not wanting to go with her. I'm perfectly fine with her going to a club. The problem is that she purposely dresses as if she wants the guys to hit on her and her friends try to get her to act like skank. It's not that I'm possesive, it's that she is acting as if she want guys to be all over her. She's attractive, yes, and I'm not saying she should wear trash to avoid getting attention, but when your reason for going to a club is because I apparently don't care about you, then it's not hard to figure out why it upsets me. I guarantee it isn't because I know guys are hitting on her. Aside from that, when she says that guys don't hit on her and you know they do it's a problem. (because you know she is beautiful and any guy in their right mind would hit on her because it seems as if she's single.) It's not that I'd really care that guys are hitting on her, it's a matter of honesty. Hell, I'd feel a lot better if she said they did, because then I'd know that every guy wants what I have. So if being "psycho possesive" means not having a relationship where you can tell the other person anything and have them still love you, then I guess I'm guilty.

No I am following you correctly. You are dictating what her girl's night is. What is purposely dressing to get hit on? Are you her father now too? That is possessive and untrustworthy. If you don't like her style then don't date her, it's that simple.

I wouldn't put all the reason they are hitting on her as equally being beautiful as you are painfully being redundant on...most guys see a rack and tail and figure it's doable....that's par for the course in a club. It's fun to be noticed though and many go planning to be hit on and saying no....however most make it a bit of bittersweet torture first for the other party.

You can give advice, your opinion, an idea...but never ever tell another what they can and cannot do. You can only say in a non-threatening way what you can accept and not accept. Then it's up to you to follow through.

For some the swingers lifestyle is part of life and for other's it's a total impossibility. You mix up those two pairs and although they may get along perfectly in 99% of the rest of the relationship, that 1% is enough to kill the deal.

Å

 

[DannyBoy]

Originally posted by: ness1469

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: ness1469

The real bull is when they give YOU crap about THEM going to the club with their girls and REFUSE to let you come along.

"I do it because you don't ever want to go out with me!"
Wait, aren't I the one who wanted to come along?

"I go to have a good time, and there aren't guys hitting on us or anything!"
Yes, horny college guys never go to clubs.

Then they complain because they think that SOMEHOW, guys sitting around on guy's night, playing video games, having a few beers and watching sports is somehow a damage to a relationship moreso than the clubbing.

1) Sometimes women want a night out alone. They don't want the one guy tagging along.

2) Since you are already being psycho possesive she is trying to calm you. If she is decent looking she will get hit on, it's part of the fun. If you relationship is secure you shouldn't have to worry about her doing anything wrong. It's fun. If you want someone that other guys don't hit on, date a ugly chick.

They want you to come along for things other than girl's nights out. If you don't have friends of your own you can hang out with, that's your problem. They are not there for your 24/7 entertainment.

However, if they have girl's night, you get guy's night. It's fair. More often that not, both parties are overly possesive because they know the relationship is not right.

Å

Perhaps you aren't reading correctly. There IS a guy's night, and there IS a girls night. It's fine that she wants a night out alone, but when she says that she wants it solely for the fact that I won't go with her.. umm, hello? She wants to go, but won't let me go because I don't want to go? huzzuh? The whole reason I would WANT to go is because she wants me to, but then throws it back at me as me not wanting to go with her. I'm perfectly fine with her going to a club. The problem is that she purposely dresses as if she wants the guys to hit on her and her friends try to get her to act like skank. It's not that I'm possesive, it's that she is acting as if she want guys to be all over her. She's attractive, yes, and I'm not saying she should wear trash to avoid getting attention, but when your reason for going to a club is because I apparently don't care about you, then it's not hard to figure out why it upsets me. I guarantee it isn't because I know guys are hitting on her. Aside from that, when she says that guys don't hit on her and you know they do it's a problem. (because you know she is beautiful and any guy in their right mind would hit on her because it seems as if she's single.) It's not that I'd really care that guys are hitting on her, it's a matter of honesty. Hell, I'd feel a lot better if she said they did, because then I'd know that every guy wants what I have. So if being "psycho possesive" means not having a relationship where you can tell the other person anything and have them still love you, then I guess I'm guilty.

Number 432) Forget to use paragraphs and punctuation when typing some crap in a YAGT on ATOT and make themselves look like an irritating bastard.

 

[Ness]

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: ness1469


Perhaps you aren't reading correctly. There IS a guy's night, and there IS a girls night. It's fine that she wants a night out alone, but when she says that she wants it solely for the fact that I won't go with her.. umm, hello? She wants to go, but won't let me go because I don't want to go? huzzuh? The whole reason I would WANT to go is because she wants me to, but then throws it back at me as me not wanting to go with her. I'm perfectly fine with her going to a club. The problem is that she purposely dresses as if she wants the guys to hit on her and her friends try to get her to act like skank. It's not that I'm possesive, it's that she is acting as if she want guys to be all over her. She's attractive, yes, and I'm not saying she should wear trash to avoid getting attention, but when your reason for going to a club is because I apparently don't care about you, then it's not hard to figure out why it upsets me. I guarantee it isn't because I know guys are hitting on her. Aside from that, when she says that guys don't hit on her and you know they do it's a problem. (because you know she is beautiful and any guy in their right mind would hit on her because it seems as if she's single.) It's not that I'd really care that guys are hitting on her, it's a matter of honesty. Hell, I'd feel a lot better if she said they did, because then I'd know that every guy wants what I have. So if being "psycho possesive" means not having a relationship where you can tell the other person anything and have them still love you, then I guess I'm guilty.

No I am following you correctly. You are dictating what her girl's night is. What is purposely dressing to get hit on? Are you her father now too? That is possessive and untrustworthy. If you don't like her style then don't date her, it's that simple.

I wouldn't put all the reason they are hitting on her as equally being beautiful as you are painfully being redundant on...most guys see a rack and tail and figure it's doable....that's par for the course in a club. It's fun to be noticed though and many go planning to be hit on and saying no....however most make it a bit of bittersweet torture first for the other party.

You can give advice, your opinion, an idea...but never ever tell another what they can and cannot do. You can only say in a non-threatening way what you can accept and not accept. Then it's up to you to follow through.

For some the swingers lifestyle is part of life and for other's it's a total impossibility. You mix up those two pairs and although they may get along perfectly in 99% of the rest of the relationship, that 1% is enough to kill the deal.

Å

I like it how you are putting words in my mouth and trying to tell everyone how I act. There is a STRONG difference between thinking that she's dressed to provacatively and starting an argument over it, which I don't do. I don't like it, but I keep my mouth shut. Thanks for ASSuming that I'm creating some big argument over it.

Like I said to begin with, the SOLE problem that I get angry at (for the last time) is that SHE is getting angry at ME, because SHE is deciding for ME that I don't want to go to the club without ANY input from ME.

I don't care if she has a girls night because I have my guys night. I don't care what she does on her girls night so long as she respects the fact that we are in a committed relationship. I don't care if guys hit on her, I don't care if guys check her out, I don't care if she dances with them, I DO care if they start playing grab-ass (which I know, isn't her fault).. So thank you, once again for ASSuming that I'm dictacting what she does and that I'm trying to be controlling, because if that's controlling... once again, guilty.

We have an honest relationship. If something happens there, I would like to know about it, because it's healthy in a relationship to not keep secrets from each other. This is NOT to say that if something does happen I'm gonna "put my foot down" and tell her she can't go, or that I'm going to hunt down whoever did it and beat them... I really don't care that it happens, so much as I would like to KNOW it happened. I don't see how you consider that controlling.

Don't DARE tell me what I can and can't find acceptable in my relationship because you are not me, you are not my close friends, you have never met me or the girl, and you don't know a DAMN THING ABOUT THE SITUATION other than what you've read here, so stop trying to play Dr. Phil (or the male version of Luvly) and making some big argument out of something I originally found the dumb humor in in the first place, you retard. If I saw it as that much of a problem I would keep it between me and her, and not give it up as humor in a place like this. Most of all though, stop trying to tell me and everyone else here how they should behave because I seriously doubt that you have any more expertise than the next person here.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: ness1469


I like it how you are putting words in my mouth and trying to tell everyone how I act. There is a STRONG difference between thinking that she's dressed to provacatively and starting an argument over it, which I don't do. I don't like it, but I keep my mouth shut. Thanks for ASSuming that I'm creating some big argument over it.

First...it's clear who the problem in your relationship is. There was no assumption on my part, I can guarantee you have brought it up just on your stance in these few paragraphs. How the HELL did she come to tell you that guys are not hitting on her, if you didn't get / were not all psycho possessive in the first place. There should have been nothing more said than 'The girls and I are going to 'clubwhatever' next thursday for ladies night'.

Like I said to begin with, the SOLE problem that I get angry at (for the last time) is that SHE is getting angry at ME, because SHE is deciding for ME that I don't want to go to the club without ANY input from ME.

That's not what you said earlier...you said things regarding non-clubs. When you only want to tag along to the club/ladies night out functions you are possessive/psycho. She wants you to come along for things like dress shopping, looking at 'girl stuff', etc. I love you ultimatums also for the last time hehehe. You know this is a truly disfunctional relationship built on jealousy and insecurity (if not more).

A girlfriend or wife is free to do what they want. You are only free to accept or not accept it. That acceptance = staying in the relationship or getting out of it. It has absolutely nothing to do with telling the other party you FORBID them to do anything.

I don't care if she has a girls night because I have my guys night. I don't care what she does on her girls night so long as she respects the fact that we are in a committed relationship. I don't care if guys hit on her, I don't care if guys check her out, I don't care if she dances with them, I DO care if they start playing grab-ass (which I know, isn't her fault).. So thank you, once again for ASSuming that I'm dictacting what she does and that I'm trying to be controlling, because if that's controlling... once again, guilty.

See that line as long as she respects the fact .... That is possessive behavior. She is an adult, if she goes out to a club and ALLOWS a guy to grab her then that is not your concern other than if you can't handle it then she is the wrong girl for you. She can say NO. If she doesn't then that still doesn't mean that she is looking for sex elsewhere, but it could. That doesn't mean she is not commited to you. This is where alternative lifestyles come into play.

Regardless, it's obvious she is probably not in the realm of who you should be dating. You couldn't even add in some of the things you like about her in the above, which is what anyone that truly had feelings for someone would have done. What you have is possession of someone...that is the basis of the relationship.

We have an honest relationship. If something happens there, I would like to know about it, because it's healthy in a relationship to not keep secrets from each other. This is NOT to say that if something does happen I'm gonna "put my foot down" and tell her she can't go, or that I'm going to hunt down whoever did it and beat them... I really don't care that it happens, so much as I would like to KNOW it happened. I don't see how you consider that controlling.

No you are very wrong on a HEALTHY relationship. In a HEALTHY relationship there will be secrets that are none of your concern. As long as they are not secrets to cause you harm, then all is good. Your version of HEALTHY is one that makes a possessive person feel at ease knowing all the things their mate has done or seen in their day.

However, your contradiction is a common one, textbook in fact. Saying you don't care, but want to know, is caring....there is no way around it. Like all the rest of your defensiveness you are merely rehashing words and phrases to 'sound' differently. It's a possessive relationship. That's common. There are also major control issues going on. You dropping lines like 'I am not going to put my foot down' or 'beat' anyone are said to imply that you have the option too. That is not normal and those phrases are threatening.

Don't DARE tell me what I can and can't find acceptable in my relationship because you are not me, you are not my close friends, you have never met me or the girl, and you don't know a DAMN THING ABOUT THE SITUATION other than what you've read here, so stop trying to play Dr. Phil (or the male version of Luvly) and making some big argument out of something I originally found the dumb humor in in the first place, you retard. If I saw it as that much of a problem I would keep it between me and her, and not give it up as humor in a place like this. Most of all though, stop trying to tell me and everyone else here how they should behave because I seriously doubt that you have any more expertise than the next person here.

Again with threats. I never said what you CAN do. It's all about should and what is the NORMAL thing. There is no reason anyone would have to know you, your girl or your friends to comment on what a healthy relationship is. It's obvious 'teh healthy is not found'...

You realize you made this the big argument, I could care less about being compared to luvly (oh the agony)...

I can guarantee I have far more expertise than the AVERAGE person here. There are some old timers that may have more than me. I have a lot of experiences that are unique because I lived a big business life as well as walked in some major grey and totally red areas of life for a long time. I also volunteered as a counselor for a couple years. That alone you hear the same story, different day over and over again.

I guarantee also if you were to see a counselor they'd identify possessive and control issues, and possible obsessive/compulsive ones as well.

Å

 

[Ness]

"You realize you made this the big argument,"
No, I'm absolutely positive that you were the first one to post an argument about my post. Thanks for being an idiot.

blah blah blah, I don't care what you have to say. You are not worth my time.


THE END.

 

[hans007]

guys also, become jealous of other guys and sta b friends in the back since they have no chance in hell with the girl.


the silverlining, is at least you learn who your friends are.


(whoa STA B is a banned word when all together)

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
...If my memory serves me correctly notfred used to revel in all the attention posting that pic of his g/friend's ass got him from dudes here...

Also,if my mind isn't totally gone here I do believe recalling notfred not having much empathy for the Yagt's of others.

oh N03S: 404 - The Brianna Not Found!

🙂 Too irresistable to pass up

hehe the scary thing is he looks exactly like an old friend of mine who I lost touch with. If he says he used to live in Texas, I'll be freaked out.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: ness1469
"You realize you made this the big argument,"
No, I'm absolutely positive that you were the first one to post an argument about my post. Thanks for being an idiot.

blah blah blah, I don't care what you have to say. You are not worth my time.


THE END.

What the hell do you mean by crapping in my newly taken over thread, this argument is over when I say it's over.

It'll be the end when I say it is.

It's all about me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me...

(mumbles & puts ness1469 on sh1t list)