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[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: Nitemare
Threesome?

My GF has suggested we try that possibly. But she just doesn't know with who. I don't know if she'd want our friend involved

 

[IBuyUFO]

Quit letting your dick think for you.

 

[Jzero]

You ain't married. You are free to leave. I bailed on a 3 year relationship. It was a very good thing for me.
For me it, was a matter of this: I was not convinced that this was someone I could marry and the fact that someone else was able to turn my head so easily and make me seriously consider leaving her meant that my heart just wasn't in it enough. I moved on. One of the best decisions I ever made, looking back. I thought I was happy, but I really wasn't.

So if you're that serious, jump. Jump now before you waste any more of your precious college years on a relationship that you may not be serious about continuing further.

But the others are right - you and this other girl, it's just not gonna happen. It will be a disaster. If you feel the need to get out, get out. But go elsewhere.

 

[Encryptic]

If you ditch your 3.5 years GF for something that you don't even know will work, you are a Grade-A assmaster. 'Nuff said. Keep your dick in your pants and be happy that you've been with your GF for that long. If you're not happy with your GF, then leave. Just don't leave so you can try to hook up with her friend. That's a one-way ticket to Hell right there.

Remember, you can LOOK at the menu, you just can't order from it while you've got another entree on your plate. 😀

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: Encryptic
If you ditch your 3.5 years GF for something that you don't even know will work, you are a Grade-A assmaster. 'Nuff said. Keep your dick in your pants and be happy that you've been with your GF for that long.

Remember, you can LOOK at the menu, you just can't order from it while you've got another entree on your plate. 😀

I guess it depends if you are a gambling man or not. But if you're not married, you have no real obligation to cling to a relationship that you aren't 100% dedicated to.

 

[xirtam]

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Nitemare
Threesome?

My GF has suggested we try that possibly. But she just doesn't know with who. I don't know if she'd want our friend involved

I call BS.

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: Encryptic
If you ditch your 3.5 years GF for something that you don't even know will work, you are a Grade-A assmaster. 'Nuff said. Keep your dick in your pants and be happy that you've been with your GF for that long.

Remember, you can LOOK at the menu, you just can't order from it while you've got another entree on your plate. 😀

I love how everyone is calling me names even though I haven't said I was going to do anything 🙂


but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Nitemare
Threesome?

My GF has suggested we try that possibly. But she just doesn't know with who. I don't know if she'd want our friend involved

I call BS.

Trust me, it's not BS 🙂 I was in total shock at that too. But I guess some girls are freaky. 🙂

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Encryptic
If you ditch your 3.5 years GF for something that you don't even know will work, you are a Grade-A assmaster. 'Nuff said. Keep your dick in your pants and be happy that you've been with your GF for that long.

Remember, you can LOOK at the menu, you just can't order from it while you've got another entree on your plate. 😀

I love how everyone is calling me names even though I haven't said I was going to do anything 🙂


but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

I didn't say you WERE an assmaster, I said you WOULD be one if you left your GF for this chick. Capisce? 😀

Edit: I say forget the threesome. Ever see "Chasing Amy"? If not, rent it and pay attention to the scene near the end for a clue as to why this could possibly be a bad idea.

 

[Zrom999]

Run her friend over with a car so you won't have this problem.

 

[xirtam]

No need to get defensive.

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Encryptic
If you ditch your 3.5 years GF for something that you don't even know will work, you are a Grade-A assmaster. 'Nuff said. Keep your dick in your pants and be happy that you've been with your GF for that long.

Remember, you can LOOK at the menu, you just can't order from it while you've got another entree on your plate. 😀

I love how everyone is calling me names even though I haven't said I was going to do anything 🙂


but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

I didn't say you WERE an assmaster, I said you WOULD be one if you left your GF for this chick. Capisce? 😀

heh, Capisce

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Encryptic
If you ditch your 3.5 years GF for something that you don't even know will work, you are a Grade-A assmaster. 'Nuff said. Keep your dick in your pants and be happy that you've been with your GF for that long.

Remember, you can LOOK at the menu, you just can't order from it while you've got another entree on your plate. 😀

I love how everyone is calling me names even though I haven't said I was going to do anything 🙂


but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

I didn't say you WERE an assmaster, I said you WOULD be one if you left your GF for this chick. Capisce? 😀

heh, Capisce

I just edited my original post to comment on the threesome, BTW.

 

[Jzero]

but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

If you are 100% certain then your best course of action is to SHUT IT 😀
If the 3-way possibility comes up, maybe you can spin the friend as a potential partner b/c of her already being close to the both of you instead of shacking up with a stranger, but it's risky.

 

[nativesunshine]

i just gotta say something...


If you decide to NOT ditch the gf..but also get w/ the friend WITHOUT telling the gf....just think: a pair of really DULL sissors and.....you know the rest.



i'm so angry.... 🙁

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: nativesunshine
i just gotta say something...


If you decide to NOT ditch the gf..but also get w/ the friend WITHOUT telling the gf....just think: a pair of really DULL sissors and.....you know the rest.



i'm so angry.... 🙁

oh no, I wouldn't go THAT far.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: nativesunshine
i just gotta say something...


If you decide to NOT ditch the gf..but also get w/ the friend WITHOUT telling the gf....just think: a pair of really DULL sissors and.....you know the rest.



i'm so angry.... 🙁

/licks nativesunshine

😕

Yup. Bitter.

- M4H

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: Jzero

but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

If you are 100% certain then your best course of action is to SHUT IT 😀
If the 3-way possibility comes up, maybe you can spin the friend as a potential partner b/c of her already being close to the both of you instead of shacking up with a stranger, but it's risky.

That's what we talked about previously actually. Cause a stranger would just seem to "weird".

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Jzero

but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

If you are 100% certain then your best course of action is to SHUT IT 😀
If the 3-way possibility comes up, maybe you can spin the friend as a potential partner b/c of her already being close to the both of you instead of shacking up with a stranger, but it's risky.

That's what we talked about previously actually. Cause a stranger would just seem to "weird".

:Q

Holy crap. You mean it's actually a possibility?

Someone start a Paypal fund - get this man a webcam! 😀

- M4H

 

[Yax]

3-somes? Bad idea. Don't ever bring it up. If the chicks talk about it, don't say anything to encourage it. Let it be thier idea and theirs alone. You can participate once they've worked out all the details. Never hint that you're interested.

Afterwards, the relationship will fail. It always does. But you're young anyway so you'll find someone else.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
3-somes? Bad idea. Don't ever bring it up. If the chicks talk about it, don't say anything to encourage it. Let it be thier idea and theirs alone. You can participate once they've worked out all the details. Never hint that you're interested.

Afterwards, the relationship will fail. It always does. But you're young anyway so you'll find someone else.

Speaking from experience in this regard? :Q

 

[kenshorin]

OK First off... if these girls really ARE friends, that means they've talked about how much you suck as a b/f when you aren't around. Sorry, but that's how it is. G/fs love to tell the world their problems, but never tell anyone about the new car you just bought them, and all the backrubs and stuff. Its the Scare Away The World technique, because you are her property, no one elses. By going over 6 months and knocking her up, you signed your life to her on the dotted line. To get away is gotta be ugly, you ain't just hooking up with some other broad.

#2... You are looking for relationship advise on the AT forums? Are you nuts? Now, I know there are some decent people here, but there's likely to be a few Comic Book Guy's on this forum, who don't know what to do with their own dick, never mind yours! Get a life, and figure this out for yourself! And I agree, if these girls are hot, you can send them my way... I know what to do with my dick and would be more than willing to show them both.

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
3-somes? Bad idea. Don't ever bring it up. If the chicks talk about it, don't say anything to encourage it. Let it be thier idea and theirs alone. You can participate once they've worked out all the details. Never hint that you're interested.

Afterwards, the relationship will fail. It always does. But you're young anyway so you'll find someone else.

It was her idea to start man. Of course, I am a guy, therefore I've had it in my head since day 1. But like I said, she started it by telling me, so I can counter it without any harm being done. 🙂

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: NoSkillz

Originally posted by: Jzero

but I guess they have the right to. I am 100% sure I will probably stay with my GF either way, I just wanted to know really if I should say something or try and bring up the possibility of a 3-some with our friend (If our friend is interested, which I feel she's been hinting)

If you are 100% certain then your best course of action is to SHUT IT 😀
If the 3-way possibility comes up, maybe you can spin the friend as a potential partner b/c of her already being close to the both of you instead of shacking up with a stranger, but it's risky.

That's what we talked about previously actually. Cause a stranger would just seem to "weird".

Your girlfriend might already be sampling the forbidden fruit, bring up the 3some again while both of you have been drinking and both of your inhibitions are down and ask her who she had in mind...

then again it might be a sweaty 300 lb bisexual linebacker that might DYITB 😀

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

then again it might be a sweaty 300 lb bisexual linebacker that might DYITB 😀

Too much info
:disgust: