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YAGT: So. she just ended up, 1 day after the Winter Ball

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Originally posted by: ghost recon88
Originally posted by: Aimster
jerk off u wownt care for her anymore

cause it sounds like all u cared for was the touching

Go screw yourself, you really have no clue.

calm the hell down .

you just said there was no communication so what the hell do you like her for?

You wanted to do it and you didnt and you are mad some other guy might.

I already screwed myself today. keeps me from going crazy like you. ...
 
Originally posted by: ghost recon88
Originally posted by: Aimster
jerk off u wownt care for her anymore

cause it sounds like all u cared for was the touching

Go screw yourself, you really have no clue.

Jerking off is the best advice I've seen yet posted in this thread. I mean... come on.. check out the benefits:

1) You get off
2) No back talk
3) No emotional baggage
4) Safest form of sex known to exist
5) Doesn't cost you a an arm & a leg for a movie & dinner date
6) Is readily available to use at any given moment
7) Once you get yours, you don't have to worry about any cuddling afterwards




 
Originally posted by: ghost recon88
Originally posted by: Fenixgoon
"a lot of things going on" is BS imo. if you want to be with someone, you'll make the time.

so OP, screw the ex and go find some other womenz. plenty o' fish in the sea (and the sea only gets bigger)

Well, a lot of things going on, as in, her sister has been insanely sick, and as mentioned before, her parents are on the verge of splitting. I mean, what I really want to know, is it worth it to wait a while, and ask her if there can ever be anything there again, or should I just consider it all a bad dream?

You may want to try YAGT.org for more serious advice. Around here, you're liable to get the type of response you're seeing in this thread; slightly callous, at the least.

In answer to your question, it may be worth it to wait a while, if you like her. Sounds like she's got a lot going on in her life right now, and girls really are apt to change (or not know their own) minds a lot. Depends on whether you want a girlfriend in general or this girl in particular. Know that, in waiting, you may possibly be waiting for something that won't happen, so set a deadline for yourself on how long you think it's worth it to wait for the possibility.
 
ok advice round #2.

You didnt like my go jerk off advice

so advice #2:
Ignore her and act like you dont care.
Live an interesting life and make sure she sees it. If you dont have an interesting life put up fake away msgs on AIM so she can see it.

Youll get her back in a month
 
well it's a mistake to post on atot if you want some serious answers

but honestly waiting seems like the best and greatest thing you can do for her.

but if it were REALLY meant to be man, she would have had you to come to and not remove you out of her life.
 
Originally posted by: Ronstang
Considering your age you are lucky to learn a valuable lesson so young. Women will be messing with your head and heart all your life....IF YOU LET THEM.

Listen to this man.
 
Originally posted by: Aimster
ok advice round #2.

You didnt like my go jerk off advice

so advice #2:
Ignore her and act like you dont care.
Live an interesting life and make sure she sees it. If you dont have an interesting life put up fake away msgs on AIM so she can see it.

Youll get her back in a month
Fake away messages are really the way to go.
 
first thing, stop asking about relationships on a computer oriented forum. Second and final thing, do do your thing and learn from your experiences. Live it up or give it up.
 
You can't use english correctly and you're asking for relationship advice on a geek forum. You've not thought about anything.

Rogo
 
Originally posted by: Pippy
Originally posted by: VenomXTF
Pippy, no offense but you're not even in the real world yet. Not only that, but you you got married after dating for 6 months in HS? Come back after being married for another 10 years. Good luck to you though.

Sure thing 😛 We may not be in the "real world" according to you but to us juggling rent, utilities, tuition, loans, her job, my job, and school seems to be VERY real. All without any parental help since we married.


props to you, pippy. :thumbsup: keep it up. we need more stories like this these days.
 
Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Originally posted by: ghost recon88
Originally posted by: Aimster
jerk off u wownt care for her anymore

cause it sounds like all u cared for was the touching

Go screw yourself, you really have no clue.

Jerking off is the best advice I've seen yet posted in this thread. I mean... come on.. check out the benefits:

1) You get off
2) No back talk
3) No emotional baggage
4) Safest form of sex known to exist
5) Doesn't cost you a an arm & a leg for a movie & dinner date
6) Is readily available to use at any given moment
7) Once you get yours, you don't have to worry about any cuddling afterwards

On the contrary, I would think it would cost you an arm for some period of time 😛
 
Originally posted by: LongCoolMother
Originally posted by: Pippy
Originally posted by: VenomXTF
Pippy, no offense but you're not even in the real world yet. Not only that, but you you got married after dating for 6 months in HS? Come back after being married for another 10 years. Good luck to you though.

Sure thing 😛 We may not be in the "real world" according to you but to us juggling rent, utilities, tuition, loans, her job, my job, and school seems to be VERY real. All without any parental help since we married.


props to you, pippy. :thumbsup: keep it up. we need more stories like this these days.

Definitely props. Most people don't consider you to have been in the "real world" if you skipped the "screwing up" part and made it straight to the adult world. It's easier for you than them in both the short and the long run though.
 
Give her space enough though that might be hard for you. If she comes back and everything turns out ok, then that's good. If not, the world isn't over. You're young... don't worry dude.
 
mail a perfectly photoshopped picture of ****** with her face to her parents and grandparents.
 
OP: you told her online? Goodness. What has this world come to? Even I've never told girls things like that on AIM. Last time we seemed to be drifting down that path, I told her I would call her and we would talk on the phone at least..
 
Walk it off and get involved with things that interest you. Happy people are addictive. Desperate clingy people not so much.
 
if you love her let her go and if it was meant to be she'll totally screw your best friend.


or something like that 😕

 
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