YAGT: Should i ask my neighbor out? UPDATE

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hdeck

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why not? it isn't as if you are going to go over there and confess your undying love for her. a simple rejection of an offer to take her out shouldn't change much, if anything, in whatever relationship you may have now.
 

ReiAyanami

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first propose to her, when she rejects bargain it down to a date

make sure u buy a ring just in case
 

WinkOsmosis

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Lol you really ask your neighbor for eggs and sugar? I would try that if I had a hot female neighbor...
 

Siddhartha

Lifer
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Originally posted by: bobcpg
Originally posted by: WinstonSmith
Don't be a puss, go for it!

I know this is being a puss, but what if, and i do mean "if", it doesn't go well and i'm stuck living really close together.

If she says no or it does not go well, let it go. Behave in the same manner towards her as you di before you asked her out.
 

dirtboy

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Next time you see her ask her if she has a bf and if she doesn't, ask her out on a date.
 

amnesiac

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Dr Smooth
Originally posted by: bobcpg
Originally posted by: WinstonSmith
Don't be a puss, go for it!

I know this is being a puss, but what if, and i do mean "if", it doesn't go well and i'm stuck living really close together.

If she says no or it does not go well, let it go. Behave in the same manner towards her as you di before you asked her out.

Exactly why you should think really, really hard about it.

I asked out my upstairs neighbor when I lived in an apartment a couple years ago, and she shot me down.

It was weird after that. We kept semi-avoiding each other.
 

Walleye

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Originally posted by: bobcpg
Originally posted by: WinstonSmith
Don't be a puss, go for it!

I know this is being a puss, but what if, and i do mean "if", it doesn't go well and i'm stuck living really close together.

then make it a joke to ask her every few times you see her.

eventually, she might say yes.

if not, then hey, it's a joke.
 

GagHalfrunt

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It's the perfect relationship. When things inevitably go bad and you turn into an angry, frustrated stalker, just imagine how convenient it'll be to have her right across the hall. Most guys need to drive across town and lurk in the bushes, but you can stalk right from the comfort of your own apartment.
 

Jeff7181

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You could be cheesy and be like "where's your boyfriend?" and hopefully she'll say "I don't have one" ... then you get to say "wow, pretty girl like you doesn't have a boyfriend?" and make her blush.
 

beer

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Originally posted by: Jeff7181
You could be cheesy and be like "where's your boyfriend?" and hopefully she'll say "I don't have one" ... then you get to say "wow, pretty girl like you doesn't have a boyfriend?" and make her blush.

you = teh sux0rs at teh flirting
 

WinkOsmosis

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Originally posted by: Elemental007
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
You could be cheesy and be like "where's your boyfriend?" and hopefully she'll say "I don't have one" ... then you get to say "wow, pretty girl like you doesn't have a boyfriend?" and make her blush.

you = teh sux0rs at teh flirting

He never said it works.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: bobcpg
UPDATE

I ended up asking her out that next day. We went out this saturday, to dinner and a movie at my place. Stayed up past the movie and talked til about 4am. Everything went great, second date comming up.

Now aren't you glad you did?
 

drum

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Feb 1, 2003
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: bobcpg
UPDATE

I ended up asking her out that next day. We went out this saturday, to dinner and a movie at my place. Stayed up past the movie and talked til about 4am. Everything went great, second date comming up.

Now aren't you glad you did?

I won't be glad he did unless I see teh :camera:s :D