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YAGT : Relationship issues.

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Alright! A YAGT thread going in the right direction

Now the ball is in your court, if you want it take it and run! Whatever you do, don't try playing hard to get at this point. You laid your cards on the table and she called the bet.
If she took the weekend off to spend with you, don't let her down and treat her like she is the only woman on the planet.
 
glad you followed my advice. I had the feeling she really liked you, but you must have appeared too desperate in her eyes (which is understandable given your life situation). Now, you must be able to maintain the relationship which is another story.
 
Well some people have busy lives, but standing someone up 5-6 times in a row is just plain rude. If she had to work that much you should have planned dates with her on the spur of the moment when she had a chance, not planned them knowing that she'd be busy and lucky to be able to make it. If I'm planning a date with someone and they don't show up, I'm going to assume they had a wreck or family emergency of something of that order - if it was something like work I wouldn't take it more than twice.

I say go out for a few weeks, if she keeps making her weekends available and making the effort to spend time with you then stick with it, but if she goes back to working too much and you end up in the same situation, forget it because it just isn't important enough to her.
 
Nice work. Sounds like you played every hand perfectly. As GuitarDaddy said, given that she took the weekend off work for you, REWARD her with your time and attention. That's how it works. She does good, you reward her, she fvcks up, you punish her (by not calling her or acting aloof/apathetic around her, whatever). Go do something fun with her and enjoy the weekend together, just don't revert to your old supplicating ways (calling her all the time and not standing up for yourself). Good luck.
 
You do not realize that once that level of disrespect has been breached, there is no do-over. Things will be better for a few weeks or months at most, and then she'll go back to standing you up and ignoring you.
 
One more thing, if the virgin status does change this weekend, don't forget everything that has been said here just because you got a shot of na-na LOL
 
You wuss. Do her in the anus and then dump her. She's just playing you like a fool. I can't believe you would fall for this crap from her.

Talk about being on a string. Have some balls.

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Originally posted by: bennylong
You wuss. Do her in the anus and then dump her. She's just playing you like a fool. I can't believe you would fall for this crap from her.

Talk about being on a string. Have some balls.
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STFU dude... You are the last person I am taking any advice from. 😀
 
Looks like you got things going in the right direction. Make sure you keep standing up for yourself, or she's going to go and start trying to pull the same stuff again. Have some good fun this weekend 🙂
 
Originally posted by: maximus maximus

At that point of time, she leaned forward and kissed me. We must have kissed for like 10 minutes. (Boy, I am getting an erection even thinking about it 🙂). We had never kissed like that before.
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Oh... my... god...

From kissing?😕
 
"At that point of time, she leaned forward and kissed me. We must have kissed for like 10 minutes. (Boy, I am getting an erection even thinking about it 🙂 ). We had never kissed like that before."

Well at least you didn't say boner.
 
I was in this very position not too long ago. According to my notes, you should not treat her like a queen all weekend like previously advised. She'll know you were putting on an act if you do. What you should do is maintain a slight indifferent and noncommittal attitude. When you go out this weekend, don't get all dressed up and stuff, at least not all weekend. You should show up in a t-shirt and jeans for at least one of the dates (a Halo 2 T-shirt is preferable...it's all about attitude). Also, if you're lucky enough to score, don't get all excited and sh!t. Tell her "Meh, it was alright." This will make her bang your brains out the next go round to prove to you that she is all woman. If you were stupid enough to tell her that you were a virgin and she brings that up after you give her the line above, tell her you were lying so that she wouldn't think you were only after her for the coochie. Stop with the long and drawn out kisses. That's so virginy.

This advice will work, at least for the weekend. That may be all you want by the time it's over anyway.
 
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