YAGT: Questions of women who already have boyfriends

[Cpt Cupcake]

This girl that I know wants to go for a ride to a country bar and have a few drinks. She says that her boyfriend doesn't want to go with. I've met her boyfriend a few times and he seems cool but I am afraid of him thinking I'm trying to steal his girl. Does it look inappropriate to go out with her?

 

[veggz]

It does seem a little weird.. but if you ask and her bf doesn't mind, then why not?

 

[moshquerade]

unless you want to your life to imitate every sad, drunken, he-stole-my-girl, country song there is i wouldn't do it.

 

[Cpt Cupcake]

Originally posted by: veggz
It does seem a little weird.. but if you ask and her bf doesn't mind, then why not?

*She* says he's cool with it, but I didn't ask him personally. I don't really know him that well.

 

[Wonderful Pork]

if you were friends with her before she started dating the BF then its totally cool, if not, then its a bit hairier. Are you going with a bunch of people?

 

[Dr. Detroit]

I'm a guy but............

if its a group then its not weird. If it's just you 2, then yes, it becomes weird.

 

[Cpt Cupcake]

Originally posted by: Wonderful Pork
if you were friends with her before she started dating the BF then its totally cool, if not, then its a bit hairier. Are you going with a bunch of people?

That's kind of what I'm feeling like. It was supposed to be the three of us, the dude changed his mind for some reason. (I think he decided he would be out too late.) The chick still wants to go out, and I'm looking for something to kill my boredom. I'm pretty tempted to go just to kill a Sunday evening.

 

[SpanishFry]

bring a friend or 2.

edit: actually keep it an odd number.

 

[quakefiend420]

i'd go...but i'm also the type to bang other people's gf's

 

[Cpt Cupcake]

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i'd go...but i'm also the type to bang other people's gf's

heh, I wouldn't mind doing that

 

[imported_LoKe]

Just go and hit it. That way you don't have to be worried about him thinking you're stealing his girl, because you are stealing his girl.

 

[RGN]

Originally posted by: Cpt Cupcake

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i'd go...but i'm also the type to bang other people's gf's

heh, I wouldn't mind doing that

well... then what is the point of this thread?

 

[chickadee]

if he says its okay, then go for it. if he doesnt want to go but is still saying she can go, he obviously trusts her then.

 

[Cpt Cupcake]

Originally posted by: RGN

Originally posted by: Cpt Cupcake

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i'd go...but i'm also the type to bang other people's gf's

heh, I wouldn't mind doing that

well... then what is the point of this thread?

Maybe I know I shouldn't do it.

 

[pulse8]

Originally posted by: Cpt Cupcake

Originally posted by: RGN

Originally posted by: Cpt Cupcake

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i'd go...but i'm also the type to bang other people's gf's

heh, I wouldn't mind doing that

well... then what is the point of this thread?

Maybe I know I shouldn't do it.

That's not your problem. That's her and her boyfriend's problem.

 

[jagec]

Originally posted by: chickadee
if he says its okay, then go for it. if he doesnt want to go but is still saying she can go, he obviously trusts her then.

How do you know she told him she's going with or without him?

It looks suspicious if just the two of you go...so either go as a group, or don't go. It's true that if she's thinking about cheating, she'll find someone willing, but don't be that guy.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

if you want to get with the chick in any way, than it is inappropriate

 

[Wonderful Pork]

if there were previous plans and the bf bailed then I''d still go. however, if you want something more with the girl then DO NOT GO.

 

[Baked]

As long as she's not married, it's fair game.

 

[her209]

SLAM!

^^^ That's the sound of the door of opportunity.

 

[Cpt Cupcake]

didn't go...conscience got the best of me :\

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Cpt Cupcake
didn't go...conscience got the best of me :\

What a shame. I don't see how she could possibly have resisted the likes of Captain Cupcake...

 

[Cpt Cupcake]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Cpt Cupcake
didn't go...conscience got the best of me :\

What a shame. I don't see how she could possibly have resisted the likes of Captain Cupcake...

Dude, I wanted to, but I knew that I was looking for more than she was and I felt guilty hoping for something that she would most likely be shocked about.

 

[dug777]

Originally posted by: Baked
As long as she's not married, it's fair game.

:roll:

This is clearly coming from someone who has never actually touched a woman other than his mother, and likely never will, unless she's a hooker.

Gotta love ATOT. I suppose if they were just engaged she'd be fair game too? :roll:

 

[T9D]

Should have gone. After a few times you get totally used to it and realize it's not a problem at all.

I go out with other peoples girl friends and wives all the time. Women love to go out and drink and dance and have a blast. Most guys dont want to dance. Even if they are there they tell me to go dance with their Gf or wife. Honestly most of the guys just want to let their S.O go out and have fun while they go do their thing or chill at home and relax. If you can trust yourself and you can trust them and their guys know you are a good guy it should never be a problem.

However that being said I've had my fair share of other guys being really jealous of me. But they still know that I'm a good guy and never say anything to my face.