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datdamkid

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Okay, well I met this girl about a month or so ago. We've talked and hung out for the last few weeks, and now we both like each other. I told her that I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend, and her responce was I love you to, but I don't want to be your girlfriend right now. This was before the movies, and when we were at the movies I was hugging her and she was hugging me. And then later on after the movie she started making out with me and then I asked the question again. And again I got the same answer....whats wrong with that? She wants to be all over me and make out with me but she doesn't want to be my girlfriend I'm kinda confused here.


Sorry for the grammar ( if anything is wrong )

-dat
 
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boyRacer

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you make it sound like doing all those things while not being in a relationship is a bad thing :p
 
neutralizer

neutralizer

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Originally posted by: datdamkid
Okay, well I met this girl about a month or so ago. We've talked and hung out for the last few weeks, and now we both like each other. I told her that I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend, and her responce was I love you to, but I don't want to be your girlfriend right now. This was before the movies, and when we were at the movies I was hugging her and she was hugging me. And then later on after the movie she started making out with me and then I asked the question again. And again I got the same answer....whats wrong with that? She wants to be all over me and make out with me but she doesn't want to be my girlfriend I'm kinda confused here.


Sorry for the grammer ( if anything is wrong )

-dat
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Shouldn't this have a YAGT title or post in the YAGT forum.
Secondly, it's "grammar" not "grammer."
Anyhow, I think she's leading you on, dood, but there's nothing wrong with it, really. You don't have to be in a relationship to do all those things.
 
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datdamkid

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Originally posted by: neutralizer
Originally posted by: datdamkid
Okay, well I met this girl about a month or so ago. We've talked and hung out for the last few weeks, and now we both like each other. I told her that I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend, and her responce was I love you to, but I don't want to be your girlfriend right now. This was before the movies, and when we were at the movies I was hugging her and she was hugging me. And then later on after the movie she started making out with me and then I asked the question again. And again I got the same answer....whats wrong with that? She wants to be all over me and make out with me but she doesn't want to be my girlfriend I'm kinda confused here.


Sorry for the grammer ( if anything is wrong )

-dat
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Shouldn't this have a YAGT title or post in the YAGT forum.
Secondly, it's "grammar" not "grammer."
Anyhow, I think she's leading you on, dood, but there's nothing wrong with it, really. You don't have to be in a relationship to do all those things.
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Yea, true you don't have to be in but I'm just wondering why she wouldn't want to be in one .... and also I don't know waht YAGT and all the other ones mean (lol I never actually tried to figure it out) but i do know what YGPM means....other than than i don't know any of them...

-dat
 
rudeguy

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: datdamkid
Okay, well I met this girl about a month or so ago. We've talked and hung out for the last few weeks, and now we both like each other. I told her that I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend, and her responce was I love you to, but I don't want to be your girlfriend right now. This was before the movies, and when we were at the movies I was hugging her and she was hugging me. And then later on after the movie she started making out with me and then I asked the question again. And again I got the same answer....whats wrong with that? She wants to be all over me and make out with me but she doesn't want to be my girlfriend I'm kinda confused here.


Sorry for the grammer ( if anything is wrong )

-dat
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dude, take your time. No need to try to rush things. Give her the time and space she needs and you will be well rewarded. If you try rush things you will push her away and wreck everything you have.

Sounds like you have a good thing going, dont ruin it.
 
Linux23

Linux23

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Originally posted by: datdamkid
Originally posted by: Linux23
so why didn't you ask her what the hell she wants to be?
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I don't want to sound like an @ss
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either she is down to be your girl, or not. otherwise you may want to move on to someone else that wants the same thing as you.
 
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TechnoKid

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Put a pancake on your head and do the twist.


My best guess is that she doesn't want a commitment right now. She's just looking for someone to keep her company, spend some time with, not to commit to. But, is not the things you two are doing what GF/BF generally do (Show affection towards each other)?

oh, and if you do put a pancake on your head and do the twist, you must post a pic of that. :p
 
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datdamkid

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Originally posted by: TechnoKid
Put a pancake on your head and do the twist.


My best guess is that she doesn't want a commitment right now. She's just looking for someone to keep her company, spend some time with, not to commit to. But, is not the things you two are doing what GF/BF generally do (Show affection towards each other)?

oh, and if you do put a pancake on your head and do the twist, you must post a pic of that. :p
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"oh, and if you do put a pancake on your head and do the twist, you must post a pic of that. :"

Will do
 
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Pacfanweb

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Start ignoring her and you won't be able to run her off.

Otherwise, just hit it whenever you get the chance.
 
neutralizer

neutralizer

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Originally posted by: datdamkid
Originally posted by: neutralizer
Originally posted by: datdamkid
Okay, well I met this girl about a month or so ago. We've talked and hung out for the last few weeks, and now we both like each other. I told her that I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend, and her responce was I love you to, but I don't want to be your girlfriend right now. This was before the movies, and when we were at the movies I was hugging her and she was hugging me. And then later on after the movie she started making out with me and then I asked the question again. And again I got the same answer....whats wrong with that? She wants to be all over me and make out with me but she doesn't want to be my girlfriend I'm kinda confused here.


Sorry for the grammer ( if anything is wrong )

-dat
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Shouldn't this have a YAGT title or post in the YAGT forum.
Secondly, it's "grammar" not "grammer."
Anyhow, I think she's leading you on, dood, but there's nothing wrong with it, really. You don't have to be in a relationship to do all those things.
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Yea, true you don't have to be in but I'm just wondering why she wouldn't want to be in one .... and also I don't know waht YAGT and all the other ones mean (lol I never actually tried to figure it out) but i do know what YGPM means....other than than i don't know any of them...

-dat
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YAGT = yet another girl thread

and probably bc of commitment or something.
 
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ThisIsMatt

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Why did you tell her you love her? Never tell her you love her until you're ready to get married...lol
 
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AlienCraft

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Originally posted by: rudeguy

dude, take your time. No need to try to rush things. Give her the time and space she needs and you will be well rewarded. If you try rush things you will push her away and wreck everything you have.

Sounds like you have a good thing going, dont ruin it.
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Actaeon

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I can't believe you told her you loved her. What a big lie :p.

Anyway, women have no idea what they want in life. Just wait a while, as long as you're getting some, shes practically yours, unless shes a hoe or something.
 
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labrat25

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the love part seemed a bit quick... don't rush things...

she might be afraid of getting into things too quick (afraid of being hurt)

don't sweat it, just give it time
 
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