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YAGT: Online Romance - Doomed to Failure??

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Originally posted by: PanzerIV
Updates, OP???

Well, hmmm. Where to begin?

Of course I should of taken some of the above advice to just run for the hills as soon as I knew the girl was married. At the least, I should of been more honest with the girl as well. I don't feel that I have lied to her about anything, just have been less than truthful. Last week I told her about my Bi-polar illness, and as expected, it was a big shock to her. She has a family member with a similar problem, so of course this made it 10x harder for her to hear my 'news.' But, surprisingly we talked it over, and as of today, she seems to of accepted it.

Of course its insane to of even gotten to this point. Its been almost a month now, ad we still chat passionately, and at length. We tried once to stop, and go our separate ways, though that didn't really pan out. For whatever reason, pure or not, we are so attracted to each other and I still have a deep feeling this isn't going to end well, and it won't surprise me when that happens. So to sum up, I'm a total idiot, and when if this ever blows up in my face, one of you guys can say 'I told ya so' in 6 months from now as I'm not taking the good advice offered here. Though we do genuinely enjoy the time together and time flies when I'm with her chatting. Well for now, I take it for what it is. Que Sera Sera

Thanks guys.

 
Originally posted by: thatsright
[Well for now, I take it for what it is.


no....you dont.


you are talking to some married woman you have never met over the internet and you think you are "in love"


roffles
 
Originally posted by: thatsright
Originally posted by: PanzerIV
Updates, OP???

Well, hmmm. Where to begin?

Of course I should of taken some of the above advice to just run for the hills as soon as I knew the girl was married. At the least, I should of been more honest with the girl as well. I don't feel that I have lied to her about anything, just have been less than truthful. Last week I told her about my Bi-polar illness, and as expected, it was a big shock to her. She has a family member with a similar problem, so of course this made it 10x harder for her to hear my 'news.' But, surprisingly we talked it over, and as of today, she seems to of accepted it.

Of course its insane to of even gotten to this point. Its been almost a month now, ad we still chat passionately, and at length. We tried once to stop, and go our separate ways, though that didn't really pan out. For whatever reason, pure or not, we are so attracted to each other and I still have a deep feeling this isn't going to end well, and it won't surprise me when that happens. So to sum up, I'm a total idiot, and when if this ever blows up in my face, one of you guys can say 'I told ya so' in 6 months from now as I'm not taking the good advice offered here. Though we do genuinely enjoy the time together and time flies when I'm with her chatting. Well for now, I take it for what it is. Que Sera Sera

Thanks guys.


I won't say I told you so because you already realize the end result yourself. Funny how you mention your bi-polar condition and instead of pulling away from you she feels closer! LOL...pretty ironic.

Maybe things will kind of work themselves out when the "honeymoon" phase, if you will, is over.
 
omg this is hilarious. i swear, sometimes i think that there is a competition on these ATOT forums about who can come up with the funniest/geekiest/saddest/ROFL stories. this one has to be up there with skywalkers and waynetek 'put out your hand' thread.
 
You should never mess with a married woman. Would you want someone messing with your wife? That's the only reason to stop. Tell her you can't do it anymore because she's married. It's just wrong. If she ever gets divorced, then you could pick things up again. Do not encourage her to divorce though. Plus if she's willing to do this to this husband, why wouldn't she do it with the next?
 
Call Jerry Springer. I want to see your punk-a$$ get beat on national TV.

Don't mess with married women, its never a good situation. Even if you do get the girl, she'll most likely do the same thing to you once you are in a relationship with her.
 
Bang her and run. Change screen names. Have you told her your last name? If you haven't this plan will work especially well. 😛
 
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