Here's the situation:
I met this amazing woman where she works and I've been going and talking to her there for a few months now. I don't find many women that I really like the way I like her (only 2 in 5 years; dated/met many more women, but only 2 I'm crazy about including her). I know she likes me and wants me around, but I'm getting a little frustrated because she won't go out with me elsewhere. We talk about it and she says it's because she's "messed up" right now. She has a son and is divorced. Also she broke up with her boyfriend not long before meeting me. I dunno, I get the feeling that she wants to keep me around for when she's ready but god knows when that will be. I'm not going to wait forever. I've already been pretty patient given it's been 3 months and still no "real" date.
Anyway, I'm about to go out of the country for a month and am going to see her before I leave. I figure when I get back, I'll see if anything has changed.... perhaps she'll miss me and realize she should at least give it a try. I was gonna have the DJ play a song to make her think about how she might be missing out on something great, but I can't seem to find one that fits. Any ideas? (a few sarcastic answers, as I'm sure there will be, are welcome for humor... but it is a serious question).
I met this amazing woman where she works and I've been going and talking to her there for a few months now. I don't find many women that I really like the way I like her (only 2 in 5 years; dated/met many more women, but only 2 I'm crazy about including her). I know she likes me and wants me around, but I'm getting a little frustrated because she won't go out with me elsewhere. We talk about it and she says it's because she's "messed up" right now. She has a son and is divorced. Also she broke up with her boyfriend not long before meeting me. I dunno, I get the feeling that she wants to keep me around for when she's ready but god knows when that will be. I'm not going to wait forever. I've already been pretty patient given it's been 3 months and still no "real" date.
Anyway, I'm about to go out of the country for a month and am going to see her before I leave. I figure when I get back, I'll see if anything has changed.... perhaps she'll miss me and realize she should at least give it a try. I was gonna have the DJ play a song to make her think about how she might be missing out on something great, but I can't seem to find one that fits. Any ideas? (a few sarcastic answers, as I'm sure there will be, are welcome for humor... but it is a serious question).