ghost recon88
Diamond Member
So I'll try and keep this brief. So this girl dumped me last December, and it was super messy. I eventually got over it, and my life had been going pretty good. During that time, I had remained good friends with one of her friends, who is actually the gf of my best friend.
The way she dumped me was online, not in person, and she was super mean about it, and she pretty much totally cut me off. I told her "just wait until you get burned like this", along with some other choice words. I have not seen her since then.
Just yesterday, I find out from my friend that my ex just got dumped by the guy she picked up 3 weeks after dumping me, and after claiming "I'm just not ready for a relationship". Apparently he dumped her online as well, and refuses to talk to her. Well I'm secretly inside giving him an on-line high-five, I do know what that feels like. They had been together for only 3 months, which as we all know really isn't jack squat.
Her friend tells me that my ex now wants to make things nice between us once again, and become friends again (as our friendship had totally been destroyed because of the things she said). I'm somewhat ok about this, as long as she takes back a lot of the things she said to me like "jesus ****** christ, go ****** die". Her friend knows all about all the things she said, and even agrees with me that she had no right to say any of that stuff. Thing is this yo:
1.) As of now, any friendship we start will have to be built from scratch (as the previous friendship was totally destroyed)
2.) I'm not sure I want to get my ass served to me again by the same person
3.) I'm not sure she's really that sincere about taking back all the things she said, and becoming friends, or if she's just really trying to earn brownie points with our mutual friend.
4.) I'm not sure what all activities she and this other guy did, and so it's kinda hard for me to look at her the same after she just spent the last 3 months with this guy after me.
Mind you now, she's not asking for our relationship back, she just wants to be friends. I really don't want her to shoot me to bits again either. What would be a safe way to handle this, in order to prevent anything bad from happening or being said, and to maybe get all that past crap out of the way?
The way she dumped me was online, not in person, and she was super mean about it, and she pretty much totally cut me off. I told her "just wait until you get burned like this", along with some other choice words. I have not seen her since then.
Just yesterday, I find out from my friend that my ex just got dumped by the guy she picked up 3 weeks after dumping me, and after claiming "I'm just not ready for a relationship". Apparently he dumped her online as well, and refuses to talk to her. Well I'm secretly inside giving him an on-line high-five, I do know what that feels like. They had been together for only 3 months, which as we all know really isn't jack squat.
Her friend tells me that my ex now wants to make things nice between us once again, and become friends again (as our friendship had totally been destroyed because of the things she said). I'm somewhat ok about this, as long as she takes back a lot of the things she said to me like "jesus ****** christ, go ****** die". Her friend knows all about all the things she said, and even agrees with me that she had no right to say any of that stuff. Thing is this yo:
1.) As of now, any friendship we start will have to be built from scratch (as the previous friendship was totally destroyed)
2.) I'm not sure I want to get my ass served to me again by the same person
3.) I'm not sure she's really that sincere about taking back all the things she said, and becoming friends, or if she's just really trying to earn brownie points with our mutual friend.
4.) I'm not sure what all activities she and this other guy did, and so it's kinda hard for me to look at her the same after she just spent the last 3 months with this guy after me.
Mind you now, she's not asking for our relationship back, she just wants to be friends. I really don't want her to shoot me to bits again either. What would be a safe way to handle this, in order to prevent anything bad from happening or being said, and to maybe get all that past crap out of the way?
