YAGT --more of a survey -- How much is control an issue in relationships?

[ajayjuneja]

Wanting peoples takes on this issue... I used to never think about this as an issue, now it's occuring to me that it is an issue.

 

[crumpet19]

It's not an issue as long as the woman is in control.

 

[zCypher]

Some women are very controlive. Luckily I seem to end up with women who aren't starving for control. heh

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Handcuffs.

- M4H

 

[TommyVercetti]

Man wears the pants.

 

[aircooled]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Handcuffs.

- M4H

and duct tape

 

[ajayjuneja]

alright, so who has the control (wears the pants) in your relationships?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: aircooled

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Handcuffs.

- M4H

and duct tape

<Ludacris> Whips and chains, handcuffs, smack a little booty up with my belt </Ludacris>

- M4H

 

[kadajawi]

which relationship?

 

[Kadarin]

It's an issue if things are out of balance in either direction, I think.

 

[fs5]

Originally posted by: ajayjuneja
Wanting peoples takes on this issue... I used to never think about this as an issue, now it's occuring to me that it is an issue.

just let her think she has control and all will be well.

 

[AreaCode707]

control on what?

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It's an issue if things are out of balance in either direction, I think.

 

[psydancerqt]

share the control... hasnt been an issue since i broke up with my bf! he let me wear the pants too much!

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

I don't think there should be control... as in, "Hey, go do this, go do that." As for decisions, both should make them together and understand the point of view for the choice.

 

[Cyberian]

I'm the boss in our house, and I have my wife's permission to say that.

 

[her209]

i only let them think they have it.

 

[BD231]

Don't let someone control you in a relationship, you'll explode at some point then get blamed for the breakup for something that wasn't your fault.

It IS your fault for letting yourself live like that though.