Like most men, I have no fvcking clue what I'm doing. I'm like a deer in headlights when I comes to understanding women. I can talk to them without any problem and asking them out is no big deal. Now, I've had some crappy experiences with girls in the past but I, unlike most teens it seems, actually try to learn from past mistakes and build on what knowledge I have.
That said, I asked a girl to my Senior Ball a few weeks ago (she said yes...). She's a junior and I didn't know her very well at the time. She's a sweet girl, laughs a lot, very attractive, all that good stuff. But I'm getting the feeling that she is just going to Ball and that's the first and last I'll see of her. And I don't think it's that she doesn't like me or anything - I know that she at least likes me as a friend. I don't know what it is. I've seen her outside of school a few times but only in groups which makes getting to know her difficult.
She can go to the dinner, dance, and school sponsored "After the formal informal" (bowling) but her parents are probably not going to let her come to my friends house afterwards. I'm in a group of 10 people - 10 really good people that are all very outgoing and good kids. Bare in mind, his parents will be home too! After her junior prom she went to this big party of like 50 people at some girl's house where like everyone was drunk and all sorts of sh!t was going on - but she was able to go to that!
Although, I can understand why her parents are hesitant - they don't know me or any of my friends. I only wish I could meet her parents though. But apparently I can't. A bunch of our friends went to dinner last night and she couldn't go. She had to study/see her parents or some sh!t. If she could have gone, I would have picked her up, met her mom or something. And she can't do anything today either. I asked her yesterday if she could do something this afternoon and she can't - she has some volunteer thing. So today I asked if she is busy tonight. She said something like, "I'm leaving to volunteer in 10 minutes and then I don't know when I'll be home..." Uh, okay.
So what the fvck?! I'm sure she won't be able to do anything this week if she was studying on a damn Friday night for her finals which are coming up in a few weeks. Basically, I'm going to be stuck as the only one in my group that is dateless after bowling. I'm going to be bored, lonely, and pissed off. I'm really regretting asking her now - what a waste. I'd ask her if she's busy tomorrow, but how desperate would that seem - I've asked her out the last two days already. I saw her last night at a CoffeeHouse where some bands were playing - she came at like 8 with her little group of girls.
Oh yeah, that's another thing that frustrating as hell. She has a group of 3 other girls that are fvcking joined at the hip. It's impossible to steal one of them for a night. Or maybe just her. I used to date one of the other 3 girls last year and we went out a lot.
This is futile. Goddamn. I just needed to rant. If anyone can think of a way I can meet her mom (she doesn't like her dad - her parents are divorced) let me know, but it seems pretty useless at this point. I know that if I meet her mom and talk to her for a little bit she'll let her go to the after party - I really am a good kid and it's not like this is a big party or anything. We'll probably just watch a movie and fall asleep in his basement.
The worst part is, I really would like to get to know this girl better. That makes it all the more frustrating.
That said, I asked a girl to my Senior Ball a few weeks ago (she said yes...). She's a junior and I didn't know her very well at the time. She's a sweet girl, laughs a lot, very attractive, all that good stuff. But I'm getting the feeling that she is just going to Ball and that's the first and last I'll see of her. And I don't think it's that she doesn't like me or anything - I know that she at least likes me as a friend. I don't know what it is. I've seen her outside of school a few times but only in groups which makes getting to know her difficult.
She can go to the dinner, dance, and school sponsored "After the formal informal" (bowling) but her parents are probably not going to let her come to my friends house afterwards. I'm in a group of 10 people - 10 really good people that are all very outgoing and good kids. Bare in mind, his parents will be home too! After her junior prom she went to this big party of like 50 people at some girl's house where like everyone was drunk and all sorts of sh!t was going on - but she was able to go to that!
Although, I can understand why her parents are hesitant - they don't know me or any of my friends. I only wish I could meet her parents though. But apparently I can't. A bunch of our friends went to dinner last night and she couldn't go. She had to study/see her parents or some sh!t. If she could have gone, I would have picked her up, met her mom or something. And she can't do anything today either. I asked her yesterday if she could do something this afternoon and she can't - she has some volunteer thing. So today I asked if she is busy tonight. She said something like, "I'm leaving to volunteer in 10 minutes and then I don't know when I'll be home..." Uh, okay.
So what the fvck?! I'm sure she won't be able to do anything this week if she was studying on a damn Friday night for her finals which are coming up in a few weeks. Basically, I'm going to be stuck as the only one in my group that is dateless after bowling. I'm going to be bored, lonely, and pissed off. I'm really regretting asking her now - what a waste. I'd ask her if she's busy tomorrow, but how desperate would that seem - I've asked her out the last two days already. I saw her last night at a CoffeeHouse where some bands were playing - she came at like 8 with her little group of girls.
Oh yeah, that's another thing that frustrating as hell. She has a group of 3 other girls that are fvcking joined at the hip. It's impossible to steal one of them for a night. Or maybe just her. I used to date one of the other 3 girls last year and we went out a lot.
This is futile. Goddamn. I just needed to rant. If anyone can think of a way I can meet her mom (she doesn't like her dad - her parents are divorced) let me know, but it seems pretty useless at this point. I know that if I meet her mom and talk to her for a little bit she'll let her go to the after party - I really am a good kid and it's not like this is a big party or anything. We'll probably just watch a movie and fall asleep in his basement.
The worst part is, I really would like to get to know this girl better. That makes it all the more frustrating.
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