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YAGT: Messing with someone in my company

BobDaMenkey

Diamond Member
So, I bring forth my situation to ATOT, because I'm fairly certain some of you would love to hear about it, and I'd love to get your guys's 2 cents on the ordeal.

I work for a small chain of game stores in my state. We have 7 stores total(they're all in malls). I've been working there for the past year, and will be quitting after Christmas(sticking around for fatty bonus) and then leaving. I'm the third key right now, and would have been the assistant manager if my availability was better. I'm quitting after the holiday season because my schedule for college isn't really going to leave me time for a job.

I've started talking to a chick at another store in our company on the other side of town. A friend of mine was over at her store while we were on the phone. She asked what I looked like over speaker phone, and my buddy butts in and gives a description of me. He says I'm 6 foot tall, 180lbs, six pack, ect ect whole nine yards. Chick gets alot more interested in me, and starts getting alot more flirty. She won't stop mentioning her D-sized boobs, ect.

Obviously, I'm not anything near what my friend described me as. I'm 5 foot 7, 215lbs, with a nice gut. I have no intentions of ever meeting this chick, or trying to start any sort of relationship with her. She has a boyfriend already, but that seemed to be forgotten once she heard about me.

She also seems like one of those incredibly stuck up high maintinence bvtches. She never wants me to get off the phone to help customers, or deal with things in my store. I called her after getting out of work(I got off the phone to count down my $1000 drawer, and she whined and wanted me to stay on the phone) and she was in a car with someone, probably her boyfriend. She said to the person driving "I'm hungery let's go get something to eat. None of that fast food junk either, I want to go to a nice place, and sit down to eat".

So, I want to mess with her. I want to lead her on and on over the rest of this month as much as I can. And before I quit, I'll call her up and say "Oh by the way, I'm going out with dude now. He's really cute blah blah blah".

Am I evil for wanting to do this to her? Keep in mind, I had NO involvement in making up what she thinks I look like. That was ALL on my buddy, I just went along with it.
 
Sounds like you deserve each other...

Obviously I don't know the whole situation, but wanting to go to a real restaurant instead of eating crappy fast food hardly makes someone "high-maintenance". Maybe if she wants to do it every day...but avoiding fast food is GOOD in my book.
 
Originally posted by: jagec
Sounds like you deserve each other...

Obviously I don't know the whole situation, but wanting to go to a real restaurant instead of eating crappy fast food hardly makes someone "high-maintenance". Maybe if she wants to do it every day...but avoiding fast food is GOOD in my book.

She sounds like the type of girl that wants it every day. She was complaining about how her side of town is all "Ghetto" and how everyone acts like 'thugs' ect. I've been to that side of town, and it's far from being anything like she describes it.

She called me on my day off and asked what I was doing. I said "Homework, study for finals, wash my truck, and putting up christmas lights".
She was like "So that means you'll have time to come and hang out with me right? The guy I was going too hang out with today cancelled plans with me, so now I have nothing to doo".
"Nope, I've gotta get this stuff done. I need to get good grades on these tests coming up, and my dad'll have a cow if I don't help him, and don't wash my truck."

She texted me back later asking again if I could come and hang out with her. And called again in the evening. I didn't bother picking up.


Yeah, I'm an ass for doing it. I'm just a little jaded from some of my past dealing with women.
 
Just tell her that your friend was generous with your description. If she stops calling, great. If she doesn't, sucks to be you.
 
Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
Originally posted by: jagec
Sounds like you deserve each other...

Obviously I don't know the whole situation, but wanting to go to a real restaurant instead of eating crappy fast food hardly makes someone "high-maintenance". Maybe if she wants to do it every day...but avoiding fast food is GOOD in my book.

She sounds like the type of girl that wants it every day. She was complaining about how her side of town is all "Ghetto" and how everyone acts like 'thugs' ect. I've been to that side of town, and it's far from being anything like she describes it.

She called me on my day off and asked what I was doing. I said "Homework, study for finals, wash my truck, and putting up christmas lights".
She was like "So that means you'll have time to come and hang out with me right? The guy I was going too hang out with today cancelled plans with me, so now I have nothing to doo".
"Nope, I've gotta get this stuff done. I need to get good grades on these tests coming up, and my dad'll have a cow if I don't help him, and don't wash my truck."

She texted me back later asking again if I could come and hang out with her. And called again in the evening. I didn't bother picking up.


Yeah, I'm an ass for doing it. I'm just a little jaded from some of my past dealing with women.


just show up and see what she does....odds are she'll rock your jock anyhow
 
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
I'm just a little jaded from some of my past dealing with women.
:Q the plot thickens.

Last year around this time my 9 month relationship with my ex fiance ended. She ended up cheating on me 3 times, lied to me about a LOT of different things(I had an abortion. No I didn't. Yes I had 3, wait none). She started going out with a co-worker of mine, and sold our engagement ring to pay for his rent. Then she came back a month later and tried to be all buddy buddy with me as if nothing had ever happened. I told her to shove it.

She IMs me from time to time, wanting to complain about how hard her life is now. She's going to community college, working 2 jobs, and has a baby due in early january. I've told her I'm the wrong person to come to for symapthy, and that she'll never get any from me.
 
Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
I'm just a little jaded from some of my past dealing with women.
:Q the plot thickens.

Last year around this time my 9 month relationship with my ex fiance ended. She ended up cheating on me 3 times, lied to me about a LOT of different things(I had an abortion. No I didn't. Yes I had 3, wait none). She started going out with a co-worker of mine, and sold our engagement ring to pay for his rent. Then she came back a month later and tried to be all buddy buddy with me as if nothing had ever happened. I told her to shove it.

She IMs me from time to time, wanting to complain about how hard her life is now. She's going to community college, working 2 jobs, and has a baby due in early january. I've told her I'm the wrong person to come to for symapthy, and that she'll never get any from me.
:Q damn!
 
Put all your pent up emotional energy into something constructive, like losing weight.
 
Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
I'm just a little jaded from some of my past dealing with women.
:Q the plot thickens.

Last year around this time my 9 month relationship with my ex fiance ended. She ended up cheating on me 3 times, lied to me about a LOT of different things(I had an abortion. No I didn't. Yes I had 3, wait none). She started going out with a co-worker of mine, and sold our engagement ring to pay for his rent. Then she came back a month later and tried to be all buddy buddy with me as if nothing had ever happened. I told her to shove it.

She IMs me from time to time, wanting to complain about how hard her life is now. She's going to community college, working 2 jobs, and has a baby due in early january. I've told her I'm the wrong person to come to for symapthy, and that she'll never get any from me.

This has nothing to do with the other girl. It's not your job to teach every woman in the world that they need to be faithful to their guy or whatever reason you have to be angry at the other girl. Just tell the other girl you're not interested in her, and stop talking to her.

though it sounds like you do want to meet that girl, but you're afraid she's not going to let you touch her double-Ds when she sees you.
 
Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
So, I bring forth my situation to ATOT, because I'm fairly certain some of you would love to hear about it, and I'd love to get your guys's 2 cents on the ordeal.

🙁 what is ATOT coming to?
 
Originally posted by: jaedaliu

This has nothing to do with the other girl. It's not your job to teach every woman in the world that they need to be faithful to their guy or whatever reason you have to be angry at the other girl. Just tell the other girl you're not interested in her, and stop talking to her.

though it sounds like you do want to meet that girl, but you're afraid she's not going to let you touch her double-Ds when she sees you.

:thumbsup:

 
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