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randomlinh

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Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: Drakkon
...I start taking her back home and shes like "where do you wanna go now", I'm like fvck, I just want to take her home but can't come up with a good excuse, so i just take her to a movie. So give her the ultimate "I dont want to be your bf treatment" even asking her if she would pay for her own ticket (which of course she didnt bring ANY cash)....
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It's time for you to man up. You can't tell her you're taking her home, and you went ahead and paid for her ticket anyway, instead of walking out the door? You need a spine, and you're not going to get rid of her until you find one.

Answer her e-mail: "I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't think we have enough in common, so I won't be calling you again." Don't give her anything to argue with, and answer any future e-mails with "Please don't contact me again". If you're man enough.

I'm sorry this sounds so harsh, but I'm convinced you need to hear it. And you did ask...
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damn, that last line is a little harsh.. heh. don't want to crush the poor woman after the first date :p
 
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bwnv

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Feb 3, 2004
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Sorry, someone was gonna say it ;)
Call / e-mail her and let her know you are not interested. Do it now.
 
sixone

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: lnguyen
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: Drakkon
...I start taking her back home and shes like "where do you wanna go now", I'm like fvck, I just want to take her home but can't come up with a good excuse, so i just take her to a movie. So give her the ultimate "I dont want to be your bf treatment" even asking her if she would pay for her own ticket (which of course she didnt bring ANY cash)....
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It's time for you to man up. You can't tell her you're taking her home, and you went ahead and paid for her ticket anyway, instead of walking out the door? You need a spine, and you're not going to get rid of her until you find one.

Answer her e-mail: "I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't think we have enough in common, so I won't be calling you again." Don't give her anything to argue with, and answer any future e-mails with "Please don't contact me again". If you're man enough.

I'm sorry this sounds so harsh, but I'm convinced you need to hear it. And you did ask...
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damn, that last line is a little harsh.. heh. don't want to crush the poor woman after the first date :p
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If he's going to hurt her feelings, better to do it quick instead of dragging it out.
 
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effee

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I wouldnt be too harsh. if you're too direct, she might just think 'is it cos i'm fat?' (and judging by the sample pics she is)
 
Drakkon

Drakkon

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to me there is being a man with a spine then theres outright hurting someone and being an ass...after talking to someone for a week I know i would've been hurt even more if the other person didn't want to spend at least an hour around me so thats why i took her to the movie, and to me paying for a movie is no big deal.
Oh well sent her the "dont want to hurt your feelings" email...done and done...
 
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Tea Bag

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Sep 11, 2004
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Originally posted by: silverpig
Dear baby,

Welcome to dumpville. Population: You.

PS: I am gay
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dammit. I was gonna say that..

append this -

P.S.S - Crocodiles bit off my face.
 
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PHiuR

Diamond Member
Apr 24, 2001
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simple, just tell her youre not interested. and don't feel attracted to her to keep seeing her.

now where is my $100?
 
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Cooler

Diamond Member
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You need to post the email pics and Real Life pics. So we can see how badly she tricked you.
Rule #1 NEVER go on a blind date Without PICS that are real.

Also if you say your gay that might not work if she really does look like a dude.....
 
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Xycl0ne

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Sep 17, 2005
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Just dump her now, because the more you wait, the harder it's going to be for both of you.
 
Fritzo

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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On your next date, start farting as much as possible. End each fart by proclaiming "Oooo...that was a GOOD one!"

She'll break up with you, and her feelings will be saved.
 
EvilYoda

EvilYoda

Lifer
Apr 1, 2001
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You're too nice...you have no obligation to her. If it's bad enough, just "go to the bathroom" and never go back.
 
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