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Cuda1447

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Ok so Im curious, whats to much to spend on a girl for X-mas? Now I figure it depends on how serious/length of relationship so we will go with a 2 month relationship that is looking very optimistic. Age group - College freshman.
 

KGB1

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Tell her you're muslim and don't relate in anyway to the celebration of christmas.
 

Cuda1447

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Originally posted by: KGB
Tell her you're muslim and don't relate in anyway to the celebration of christmas.

Heh naw its not like that... see I don't really care about money. As long as I have enough to pay the bills Im happy, so the extra money I have I don't mind spending on her. There were a few things I wanted to get her/started to get her already, but it kinda adds up. So Im wondering if I might spend to much on her and freak her out or something. Well I know it won't freak her out, but... I dunno... bah!

 

Metalloid

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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: KGB
Tell her you're muslim and don't relate in anyway to the celebration of christmas.

Heh naw its not like that... see I don't really care about money. As long as I have enough to pay the bills Im happy, so the extra money I have I don't mind spending on her. There were a few things I wanted to get her/started to get her already, but it kinda adds up. So Im wondering if I might spend to much on her and freak her out or something. Well I know it won't freak her out, but... I dunno... bah!

You won't freak her out, but you might give her the impression that you are loaded, and she will never stop asking for money.

My GF and I have been dating for about 3 months, and I am spending around $50 on her. Hope that helps....
 

KGB1

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You won't freak her out, but you might give her the impression that you are loaded, and she will never stop asking for money.
My GF and I have been dating for about 3 months, and I am spending around $50 on her. Hope that helps

Good idea, I was browsing for a winter cap in Kings Plaza mall in Brooklyn over the weekend. While I was there I noticed a new Victoria's Secret store. Cuda, get her something from a lingerie store. It's a Win-Win situation for you both. ;)
 

HappyPuppy

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2 months is not a relationship, it is pure unadulterated lust. There is nothing wrong with lust, but be aware that lust does not equal a relationship.:p


As to how much to spend on her for X-mas, as you call it, just drop two quarters in one of those gumball looking machines at the local arcade, twist the handle and give her the plastic bauble that falls out.:D
 

KGB1

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
2 months is not a relationship, it is pure unadulterated lust. There is nothing wrong with lust, but be aware that lust does not equal a relationship.:p


As to how much to spend on her for X-mas, as you call it, just drop two quarters in one of those gumball looking machines at the local arcade, twist the handle and give her the plastic bauble that falls out.:D


You really like treating us (younger atot'ers) as if we're little children. We need to take our naps, know when to keep quiet and when to suck on our sickle. You excruciatingly describe the situation as in which we should solve all our problems. Tell me old man....what makes you so right? :p
 

bleeb

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Don't spend too much unless the girl has a ring on her finger from you. Like Snoop Doggy Dogg says, "keep yo hand on yo grip" (trans: don't let the girls take all your money)
 

KGB1

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
YAGT.org

- M4H

WTH is walleye doing in that forum? I thought the prerequistic to register was to name an actual girl you know and have had physical contact with. How did he do that? :confused:

 

HappyPuppy

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Originally posted by: KGB
Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
2 months is not a relationship, it is pure unadulterated lust. There is nothing wrong with lust, but be aware that lust does not equal a relationship.:p


As to how much to spend on her for X-mas, as you call it, just drop two quarters in one of those gumball looking machines at the local arcade, twist the handle and give her the plastic bauble that falls out.:D


You really like treating us (younger atot'ers) as if we're little children. We need to take our naps, know when to keep quiet and when to suck on our sickle. You excruciatingly describe the situation as in which we should solve all our problems. Tell me old man....what makes you so right? :p



If I were perfect I would be walking on water, turning water into wine and making milions on PPV TV.

This is an internet forum and I am here to have fun, give friendly advice and, on rare occasions, be sarcastic as hell!:D

If you don't like my postings you can disregard them, attack me, or question them, which you did.
rolleye.gif





 
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Originally posted by: KGB
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
YAGT.org

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WTH is walleye doing in that forum? I thought the prerequistic to register was to name an actual girl you know and have had physical contact with. How did he do that? :confused:

That gets you Elite. Qualifications are just that you want to have physical contact with said girl. :D

- M4H
 

KGB1

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
Originally posted by: KGB
Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
2 months is not a relationship, it is pure unadulterated lust. There is nothing wrong with lust, but be aware that lust does not equal a relationship.:p


As to how much to spend on her for X-mas, as you call it, just drop two quarters in one of those gumball looking machines at the local arcade, twist the handle and give her the plastic bauble that falls out.:D


You really like treating us (younger atot'ers) as if we're little children. We need to take our naps, know when to keep quiet and when to suck on our sickle. You excruciatingly describe the situation as in which we should solve all our problems. Tell me old man....what makes you so right? :p


If I were perfect I would be walking on water, turning water into wine and making milions on PPV TV.

This is an internet forum and I am here to have fun, give friendly advice and, on rare occasions, be sarcastic as hell!:D

If you don't like my postings you can disregard them, attack me, or question them, which you did.
rolleye.gif

Umm.. chill man, this is the OT... not the News and Politics forums. I'm not "personally" attacking you. Guess my sense of humor wasn't set forth in a very fashionable demeanor. Well I apologize for my prior statements, I hope you don't think ill of me and I never wanted to hurt your feelings (not that you would care now anyhow :( )

/but the whole "I'm Jesus" on PPV for $49.99 might work ;)

 

amnesiac

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What's your budget? Are you official or just casually dating?


Ideas:

- Jewelry is out of the question. Really. Too early IMO unless you find a nice silver chain or earrings.
- Flowers are ALWAYS nice.
- Gift cert to a spa for a facial or massage or something to pamper her will get you major points and hopeless romantic++
- Big Xmas teddy bear
 

AnyMal

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Get hera couple of CD's or DVD's, don't spend more then that. She may feel "obligated" and that can make her uncomfortable.
 

Cuda1447

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Originally posted by: AnyMal
Get hera couple of CD's or DVD's, don't spend more then that. She may feel "obligated" and that can make her uncomfortable.

See I don't want her to feel obligated. Thats the one thing Im worried bout...

 

DaviDaVinci

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Originally posted by: KGB
You won't freak her out, but you might give her the impression that you are loaded, and she will never stop asking for money.
My GF and I have been dating for about 3 months, and I am spending around $50 on her. Hope that helps

Good idea, I was browsing for a winter cap in Kings Plaza mall in Brooklyn over the weekend. While I was there I noticed a new Victoria's Secret store. Cuda, get her something from a lingerie store. It's a Win-Win situation for you both. ;)

That's what i'm doing, plus she's already sorta hinted what she would like to have but don't expect. Going to da mall tomorrow to check out the price tags. Any Victoria Secret's sales goin?

We put up a X'mas tree at her place recently. I would hate for there to be nothing under on X'mas day for her. I was at first thinking a tv since her's needs a beating or 2 to work and goes bad again in the middle of a movie.

Then I thought, I rather have her put undergarments on and then think of me. More sensual.sexual.

By the way, you can't go wrong with Bath and Body Works stuff either.

Just make sure she doesn't hate the scent and get the right size if going to VS. Limit would be around $60 for me ($5 for uncle Sam). I've been goin one month, and we're getting very close.
 

Cuda1447

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haha once again ATOT sucks for girl advice. I just talked with my g/f last night and we were on the topic, turns out she spent more then I did, quite a bit more too. And no we aren't weird people or anything, we just care for each other. Normal college kids.


Whoever said that a relationship of a few months isnt a relationship should be eliminated from the gene pool, fvckin idiot!
 

conjur

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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
haha once again ATOT sucks for girl advice. I just talked with my g/f last night and we were on the topic, turns out she spent more then I did, quite a bit more too. And no we aren't weird people or anything, we just care for each other. Normal college kids.


Whoever said that a relationship of a few months isnt a relationship should be eliminated from the gene pool, fvckin idiot!

Exactly why I created yagt.org. These buffoons up here know nothing!!

:p
 

huesmann

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No more than $50, ideally less. You could go to Overstock and get a cheap pearl necklace (or just give her one you "make" yourself for free :D).