YAGT: Just received an email from my Ex....

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Triforceofcourage

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Here is a little backstory for you. My ex girlfriend dumped me about 1 month ago. She really ripped my heart out and stomped the ****** out of it. We both agreed that we would stay friends (stupid idea I know). After that I decided I would never call her or contact her ever again. Fast forward a month to today.

I get an email from her just now saying how disapointed and hurt she is about how I handled the breakup by cutting all communications with her. I am so tired of this girls drama, even after we are broken up she is still trying to start fights with me. What the hell is this girls problem?

Update:

Just received another email from her saying we have alot of things to talk about and asking me to please call her when I get off from work. WTF?
 
jpeyton

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Delete e-mail. Move on.
 
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michaels

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So that bitch, you are just assking for trouble contacting her again. Basically she is insulted you are not begging at her feet.
 
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michaels

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Want me to have a girl friend of mine email her and give her a line of bs that will really make her jealous?
 
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FP

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This always happens.

She was either dumped by the guy she was cheating on you with or she realized he was an ass and you were better for her.

Either way, follow jpeyton's advice.
 
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krunchykrome

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Why did you open the email if you were really "done" with her crap? I've broken up with girls in the past, and I believe the best thing to do, regardless of who did the breaking up, is to cut off communication with that person. Months later, I've received emails form some of them, and I just dont open them. I might be a little curious as to what it says, but bottom line is it's just best not to open them and open a new can or worms.
 
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zebano

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Excellent job cutting communications for the first month, don't break down now.
 
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slsmnaz

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Originally posted by: FoBoT
delete the email, get the mods to lock this thread and go do something constructive

good luck
Click to expand...

thought these threads were dying but I guess I was wrong
 
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jlbenedict

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1) You're tired of her drama

2) We are tired of your drama and all these lame ass YAGTs

3) Turn in your man-card, immediately

 
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Horus

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Give that chick the verbal bitchslap.

Tell her how you feel. Let the tears flow a little bit. Then she'll feel like you did.

Just like Juliet says, "Parting is such sweet, sweet sorrow". Mind you, it's better when General Chang says it in Star Trek VI...but you get the picture.
 
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DaShen

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Originally posted by: jpeyton
Delete e-mail. Move on.
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Basically.

Or you could say that it is too hard and awkward at the moment to stay "friends", but that you would be willing to be friends after some time apart. Just let her know you don't have any bad feelings about it, or if you do, you need time to really work those feelings out. If she still doesn't understand, then don't respond.
 
ColdFusion718

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Fear of loss is a huge motivator for women. When you no longer chase them, this fear creeps up and messes with their minds.

I'd reply with something that has nothing to do with the e-mail she wrote. Just start talking about how great life is, new women you're dating, etc then ask her how she is doing. Completely ignore the break up issue and treat her as a friend while saying in your mind, "How do you like them apples?"

J/K, don't do that. Just ignore her--she just proved herself unworthy.
 
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