YAGT: Just received an email from my Ex....

[crystal]

Wrote back to her saying how heart broken you were. That you would curle up and cry everytime you talk to her. The reasons you didn't talk to her because you didn't want to breakdown infront of her. She might take pity on you and take you back. We at OT will have one less YAGT to deal with. A win-win situation yes?

 

[jmdeathsquad]

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: jmdeathsquad
fedex her a dead cat

I love cats, but I laughed out loud at that.

I'm going to assume you're saying he should find a cat that's already dead, not kill it himself.

yeah, I was thinking of the festering roadkill variety. Though I'm sure catching her precious Fluffy with a car tire and mailing it back to her would get the point across even better.

 

[Stuxnet]

Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
Fear of loss is a huge motivator for women. When you no longer chase them, this fear creeps up and messes with their minds.

I'd reply with something that has nothing to do with the e-mail she wrote. Just start talking about how great life is, new women you're dating, etc then ask her how she is doing. Completely ignore the break up issue and treat her as a friend while saying in your mind, "How do you like them apples?"

J/K, don't do that. Just ignore her--she just proved herself unworthy.

This is true. She's wondering why you're dealing with the break up so well and it's messing with her self confidence.

That's her problem.

DELETE. MOVE ON.

 

[fisheerman]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Sorry, I am not posting any pics of her but I would rate her a 9/10. She is a very beautiful girl.

If the sex is good, then keep talking to her to keep hitting it. If not, then move on.

I with SP33Demon. one more time around that block and drop her like a bad habit. cold turkey. after that she will love you forever..............

 

[Bryophyte]

Reply with "If you don't quit stalking me, I'm going to file a restraining order." :laugh:

 

[drinkmorejava]

Are any of you people capable of breaking up because you know it won't work in the long run rather then because you two have managed to hate each other? Seriously, grow up, just because the girl can get over emotional doesn't mean you have to rub it in here face. Have some dignity as a human being and see that they?ve do nothing to make you hate them. You're an absolute idiot if you can have a relationship that lasts however long, yet don't think you're personalities are compatible to be life long friends. Because you're so insecure with yourselves, instead of interacting with them and forming a friendship, you decide to hate them.

 

[FoBoT]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Reply with "If you don't quit stalking me, I'm going to file a restraining order." :laugh:

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

 

[Injury]

It's more fun just giving a 3 or 4 word reply basically saying "Whoopidie-do!".

It's like leaving a couple of pennies at a restaurant for horrible service. If there is any doubt in her mind that you are not getting her emails, it'll confirm it and let her know that you really don't want to be a part of her life anymore.

Any emails from here on you can ignore/delete.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

The weird thing about it is I was inlove with this girl. The first few weeks I was actually hoping she would contact me because I missed her. Now, I have been dating and meeting other girls and I couldn't care less now.

Interesting how these things turn out

 

[jlbenedict]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
The weird thing about it is I was inlove with this girl. The first few weeks I was actually hoping she would contact me because I missed her. Now, I have been dating and meeting other girls and I couldn't care less now.

Interesting how these things turn out

BULL$HIT.. you care.. you care just as much now as before..

If you "couldn't care less" then you wouldn't have posted another one of these garbage YAGTs.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: jpeyton
Delete e-mail. Move on.

QFT. The main reason she wants to stay friends is to lessen her guilt. You have no obligation to put yourself in pain to please the girl who dumped you.

I would go the extra step of redirecting her emails directly to the trash, because while you're still hurting each one will just make things worse.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: jmdeathsquad
fedex her a dead cat

I love cats, but I laughed out loud at that.

I'm going to assume you're saying he should find a cat that's already dead, not kill it himself.

Here ya go...

 

[wheresmybacon]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Here is a little backstory for you. My ex girlfriend dumped me about 1 month ago. She really ripped my heart out and stomped the ****** out of it. We both agreed that we would stay friends (stupid idea I know). After that I decided I would never call her or contact her ever again. Fast forward a month to today.

I get an email from her just now saying how disapointed and hurt she is about how I handled the breakup by cutting all communications with her. I am so tired of this girls drama, even after we are broken up she is still trying to start fights with me. What the hell is this girls problem?

ignore her, move on.

 

[mrrman]

tell her to get lost

 

[ryan256]

She's upset you haven't come groveling back to her. Delete email, block her account, move on.

 

[JDMnAR1]

You can always reply to her email with an official-looking "system generated" error 554 stating that her email address has been blocked by the intended recipient or something to that effect.

 

[Kev]

Originally posted by: drinkmorejava
Are any of you people capable of breaking up because you know it won't work in the long run rather then because you two have managed to hate each other? Seriously, grow up, just because the girl can get over emotional doesn't mean you have to rub it in here face. Have some dignity as a human being and see that they?ve do nothing to make you hate them. You're an absolute idiot if you can have a relationship that lasts however long, yet don't think you're personalities are compatible to be life long friends. Because you're so insecure with yourselves, instead of interacting with them and forming a friendship, you decide to hate them.

:thumbsup:

 

[InlineFive]

Originally posted by: iRONic
DIAF, YAGTHOOER

STFU, relationships are hard things to manage and can be very sensitive.

 

[SophalotJack]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: jmdeathsquad
fedex her a dead cat

I love cats, but I laughed out loud at that.

I'm going to assume you're saying he should find a cat that's already dead, not kill it himself.

Here ya go...

Dammit, I always laugh hysterically when I see thta pic.

It always catches me off guard.

 

[Shadowknight]

She's an attention whore/drama queen. The best way to piss her off, as well as to MOVE ON, is just to ignore her and let her stew in her own juices.

 

[iRONic]

Originally posted by: InlineFive

Originally posted by: iRONic
DIAF, YAGTHOOER

STFU, relationships are hard things to manage and can be very sensitive.

Ahahahahahaha!!

Uh huh, a YAGT every other day will manage that quite nicely.

Dumbass...

 

[MaxDepth]

Chicks dig the unavailable. Delete the email and wait for the phone call.

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: ITJunkie

Originally posted by: jpeyton
Delete e-mail. Move on.

Winnar...

yip, i know its very very tempting to hit that reply button but dont do it. ignoring her will be the best thing for you and totally piss her off. what more could you ask for?

 

[Vic]

Originally posted by: ryan256
She's upset you haven't come groveling back to her. Delete email, block her account, move on.

Exactly. In the drama queen's f'ed up mind, the OP is supposed to be broken and lost without her, and come begging back to her with his tail between his legs. But he hasn't played that game, and so she yanking his leash. The absolute best thing the OP can do for himself and to spite that drama queen is to delete the email and move on. Never reward people who treat you like dirt.

 

[beemercer]

Originally posted by: jpeyton
Delete e-mail. Move on.

So simple, but so effective.