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Locke

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The timeline/cliffs notes..

Tuesday: I call her and ask her out ("to get drinks or food"), she says "sure, why not?".

Wed/Thurs: Short "hi, how are you phone conversations".

Friday: We meet at a party, smoke(^_^) and drink a bit, chat, we leave together, hug. Later that night she calls to say "goodnight".

Sat: Phone conversation planning a "date on monday".

Monday: Date goes well, we chat a lot, end up watching a movie, get closer and closer etc. Kissing is involved. She says "We definately need to do this again"

Tuesday: We plan to meet thursday.

Thursday: She has gone home form work sick(odd time to call me), we reschedule for sat/sun.

Friday: several text messages are exchanged(she initiated), then she called me to chat again and seemed in a good mood. She said she would get a hold of me on Sat or Sun.

Sunday at noon: I sent a txt message "How's it going".

Monday night: I l eft a phone message "Hi"


So, it's been a week since last contact and up until last friday, things were looking good. I was really starting to like this girl, but I figure the silence = not interested. However.. I couldn't resist asking. Should I give her a ring tonight as a last shot?
 
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Ryan

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A call can't hurt I guess. If she hasn't contacted you back - I'd take it as a sign that she's not interested.
 
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Nikamichi

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Originally posted by: Locke
Why? =)
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Two consecutive telephone calls and you're already choking the sh*t outta her. She needs some time to figure out if she wants to f*ck with you or not, if you call again so soon, you'll make her decision much easier.

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zerocool84

zerocool84

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ALWAYS let the girl call cus if u call too much, they will get the impression that ur desperate. let them call u. if they call that means they're interested, if they dont, no pvssy for u, just the way it goes, and if a girl likes you and talks to u a lot, just ignore her calls and dont pick up for a few days, it drives girls crazy, they crave attention
 
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shimsham

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May 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: shimsham
this is a test
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this is only a test
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had you had a snowballs chance in hell, you wouldve been laid right now. you many now return to your regularly scheduled fapping.
 

Originally posted by: Locke
The timeline/cliffs notes..

Tuesday: I call her and ask her out ("to get drinks or food"), she says "sure, why not?".

Wed/Thurs: Short "hi, how are you phone conversations".

Friday: We meet at a party, smoke(^_^) and drink a bit, chat, we leave together, hug. Later that night she calls to say "goodnight".

Sat: Phone conversation planning a "date on monday".

Monday: Date goes well, we chat a lot, end up watching a movie, get closer and closer etc. Kissing is involved. She says "We definately need to do this again"

Tuesday: We plan to meet thursday.

Thursday: She has gone home form work sick(odd time to call me), we reschedule for sat/sun.

Friday: several text messages are exchanged(she initiated), then she called me to chat again and seemed in a good mood. She said she would get a hold of me on Sat or Sun.

Sunday at noon: I sent a txt message "How's it going".

Monday night: I l eft a phone message "Hi"


So, it's been a week since last contact and up until last friday, things were looking good. I was really starting to like this girl, but I figure the silence = not interested. However.. I couldn't resist asking. Should I give her a ring tonight as a last shot?
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It appears the excitement was mutual, so it isn't suffocating ... yet. Chances are that she got caught up in something that weekend or is sick. Calling Sunday was enough. However, calling Monday too could also be excused. However, calling after Monday if you didn't get a response would be beyond frantic.

I think you should take a chill pill. Although it is possible that she had someone else, I don't think it's likely. It's also possible that she lost the excitement, but that it was less likely at the time. So, relax and wait to hear from her. However, you can call her once again since it's been a week. And if you do hear from her again, which I expect, please slow down a bit ... not completely; just a bit. She too would have slowed down by then. If neither of you does by then, you can forget it!

If, on the other hand, she indeed wasn't interested, then she has a boyfriend (ex or current) she was trying to get at or back with; or she had a guy she was really interested in and used you to get him. Sorry in the event that you were used.
 
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redly

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ignoe ignore ignore, and then kiss a little ass and reap the benefits...or move on
 
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Ophir

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Mar 29, 2001
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Don't call. Women like a guy with confidence and who lives his own life.

You're like this big bear with claws and fangs...and big fvckin' teeth ... And she's like this little bunny cowering in the corner...shivering... And you're just looking at your claws like "How do I kill this bunny?"...You're just poking at it ... Yeah. You're just gently batting it around... and the rabbit's all scared... and you got big claws and fangs... and you're like "I don't know what to do. How do I kill this bunny?" ... you're like a big bear ?

Now when you talk to her, I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie that everyone's pulling for. I want you to be the guy in the rated R movie who you're not sure if you like.
 
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MrMaster

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Originally posted by: DearQT
Originally posted by: Locke
The timeline/cliffs notes..

Tuesday: I call her and ask her out ("to get drinks or food"), she says "sure, why not?".

Wed/Thurs: Short "hi, how are you phone conversations".

Friday: We meet at a party, smoke(^_^) and drink a bit, chat, we leave together, hug. Later that night she calls to say "goodnight".

Sat: Phone conversation planning a "date on monday".

Monday: Date goes well, we chat a lot, end up watching a movie, get closer and closer etc. Kissing is involved. She says "We definately need to do this again"

Tuesday: We plan to meet thursday.

Thursday: She has gone home form work sick(odd time to call me), we reschedule for sat/sun.

Friday: several text messages are exchanged(she initiated), then she called me to chat again and seemed in a good mood. She said she would get a hold of me on Sat or Sun.

Sunday at noon: I sent a txt message "How's it going".

Monday night: I l eft a phone message "Hi"


So, it's been a week since last contact and up until last friday, things were looking good. I was really starting to like this girl, but I figure the silence = not interested. However.. I couldn't resist asking. Should I give her a ring tonight as a last shot?
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It appears the excitement was mutual, so it isn't suffocating ... yet. Chances are that she got caught up in something that weekend or is sick. Calling Sunday was enough. However, calling Monday too could also be excused. However, calling after Monday if you didn't get a response would be beyond frantic.

I think you should take a chill pill. Although it is possible that she had someone else, I don't think it's likely. It's also possible that she lost the excitement, but that it was less likely at the time. So, relax and wait to hear from her. However, you can call her once again since it's been a week. And if you do hear from her again, which I expect, please slow down a bit ... not completely; just a bit. She too would have slowed down by then. If neither of you does by then, you can forget it!

If, on the other hand, she indeed wasn't interested, then she has a boyfriend (ex or current) she was trying to get at or back with; or she had a guy she was really interested in and used you to get him. Sorry in the event that you were used.
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I think this is the best advice so far. Depending on how u came across with your messages(not what you said but how u said it) will determine if u have a chance yet. My gut says she has a bf or u went to fast.
 
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