YAGT: Is the cycle repeating itself...or not? Update...

Scarpozzi

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UPDATE: So I was hanging out with the new gal and my ex came over to talk. She basically is accusing me of cheating on her for the last month or so just because I was losing interest in her. I mean, obviously if I broke up with her, it was because I didn't want to be with her. It's just that she's trying to use the fact that I'm even talking to another girl as an excuse for me to leave her. Drama Drama Drama. It's sad really...

As for the girl I've been hanging out with. We went walking a couple of times this weekend. She likes to exercise and loves to walk, so it's really good. My ex never wanted to do anything active because she always complained about it or made excuses. I believe I'll actually get back in shape by dating this girl. The other thing is that she likes beer, baseball, and loves to clean. Plus, she wants to be a doctor and is about to graduate with her undergrad in 2 weeks.

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So I broke up with my gf of 2 years the other day and I've already met someone. (the fact that she was against me having wallpaper with chicks on it was only part of the problem) It's weird cause I wanted to be by myself for a while and not have any pressure of a relationship and I meet this girl.

She's outspoken and knows how to take charge. I like that in a woman. The only thing is that she wanted to get pictures of me to send her mom and cousins, etc through email and we've not rally even gone out yet. I don't think she's the clingy type...she broke up with her last b.f. because he wanted to get married. She's 22 and I'm 24. Any thoughts or comments?
 

MrChad

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Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
So I broke up with my gf of 2 years the other day and I've already met someone. (the fact that she was against me having wallpaper with chicks on it was only part of the problem) It's weird cause I wanted to be by myself for a while and not have any pressure of a relationship and I meet this girl.

She's outspoken and knows how to take charge. I like that in a woman. The only thing is that she wanted to get pictures of me to send her mom and cousins, etc through email and we've not rally even gone out yet. I don't think she's the clingy type...she broke up with her last b.f. because he wanted to get married. She's 22 and I'm 24. Any thoughts or comments?

DANGER WILL ROBINSON! DANGER!
 

Kadarin

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No thoughts or comments, because you don't explain why you broke up with your first g/f, nor how long you guys were together in the first place. Generally speaking, getting together with someone right after breaking off an old relationship is not a good thing if you want long-term stability.
 

Scarpozzi

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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
where do you meet these women?
I met the first one online...but we had a lot in common.

The second one I met at school...She's pre-med. :thumbsup:
 

rgwalt

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The new girl could be the perfect thing to get back on your feet again, so to speak.

Give it a shot.

R
 

Scarpozzi

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
No thoughts or comments, because you don't explain why you broke up with your first g/f, nor how long you guys were together in the first place. Generally speaking, getting together with someone right after breaking off an old relationship is not a good thing if you want long-term stability.
My exgf was a great person. She was sweet kind, etc. The problem was that she wanted a key to my house and we argued many times over this. She talked about marraige almost every day and I'm 24...I'm not ready for that yet. I explained this to her and she continued to push me. I don't consider me meeting this other girl "hooking up". We're just talking...but she's impressed me.

I guess her wanting to show me off to her family that's about 200 miles away made me wonder what to think. I usually don't send pictures of the people I date to anyone....that's all.
 

maziwanka

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Originally posted by: MrChad
Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
So I broke up with my gf of 2 years the other day and I've already met someone. (the fact that she was against me having wallpaper with chicks on it was only part of the problem) It's weird cause I wanted to be by myself for a while and not have any pressure of a relationship and I meet this girl.

She's outspoken and knows how to take charge. I like that in a woman. The only thing is that she wanted to get pictures of me to send her mom and cousins, etc through email and we've not rally even gone out yet. I don't think she's the clingy type...she broke up with her last b.f. because he wanted to get married. She's 22 and I'm 24. Any thoughts or comments?

DANGER WILL ROBINSON! DANGER!

x10.12151 billion
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
No thoughts or comments, because you don't explain why you broke up with your first g/f, nor how long you guys were together in the first place. Generally speaking, getting together with someone right after breaking off an old relationship is not a good thing if you want long-term stability.
My exgf was a great person. She was sweet kind, etc. The problem was that she wanted a key to my house and we argued many times over this. She talked about marraige almost every day and I'm 24...I'm not ready for that yet. I explained this to her and she continued to push me. I don't consider me meeting this other girl "hooking up". We're just talking...but she's impressed me.

I guess her wanting to show me off to her family that's about 200 miles away made me wonder what to think. I usually don't send pictures of the people I date to anyone....that's all.

I dunno...you can make it really clear that you aren't looking for anything serious...but sometimes people don't want to hear that.
 

jjones

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Originally posted by: mercanucaribe
Um.. What's the problem here?
Yeah, my thoughts as well. If she gets annoying, you can always leave her at a Walmart in Sequoyah, Oklahoma.

 

Sex Smurf

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PSYCHO! GROUPIE! COCAINE! CRAZY!

Sorry, listening to System of a Down now. . .but it seemed appropriate.