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(YAGT) I'm scared out of my mind *Updated*

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tRaptor

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Well to amke a long story short, The girl that i've been in love with for the past ooooooooooh 4 years, and that i've been friends with for the past year or so, has (decided? asked? told?) that we are going to be going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Now she has known for a long time that i've liked her and she never thought much of it. Well we've been getting closer and closer as friends and basically she asked me if I wanted to do this, i of course said yes, so here we are.

Now we have been "hanging out" and going places together all summer. We are having our first official date tonight, nothing big just a movie with another couple, and then who knows. Pretty much like we've always done.

Shes told her parents and family about all this already, and they like me i guess. I've never been in this serious of a relationship, and i just feel like i'm going to die. Butterfiles in my stomach all day and i've been sweating like a pig at work (i work in a freezer for goodness sake)

Got any advice for me? I dont even know if shes going to let me pay for her, shes kinda one of thoes "I can take care of myself" types.My plan is just to act normal, not do anything out of the ordinary, i dont really see a point. But i just feel like a blabiling idiot. I just keep thinking that this cant be true.
 
what are you like 15 ?

it's someone that you've know pretty well.
those are the type of relationships that usually last.

Remember friends first relationships 2nd.


yea whta the guy below said.. be yourself.
no need to act differently.
 
Advice - put a "YAGT" on the title.

Anyhoo, it's all a per-case scenario, IMO - how the hell would I know what you two are like? Apparently she liked what you were doing so far - keep it up. 😉
 
Actually i'm 19, yeha i'm a computer nerd and not really the relationship kind.

And i think i finally figured out what YAGT means, Yet Another Girl Thread? (dont mock me for that)
 
correct, and you call yourself a nerd
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Originally posted by: Jehovah
Advice - put a "YAGT" on the title.

Anyhoo, it's all a per-case scenario, IMO - how the hell would I know what you two are like? Apparently she liked what you were doing so far - keep it up. 😉
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Exactly man...just keep doing what you are doing and don't change and get all wierd on her. If you change big time and get all wierd and emotional after you start dating seriously, you might want to check if you are a female b/c that would be one tell tale sign.
 
Originally posted by: tRaptor
Well to amke a long story short, The girl that i've been in love with for the past ooooooooooh 4 years, and that i've been friends with for the past year or so, has (decided? asked? told?) that we are going to be going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Now she has known for a long time that i've liked her and she never thought much of it. Well we've been getting closer and closer as friends and basically she asked me if I wanted to do this, i of course said yes, so here we are.

Now we have been "hanging out" and going places together all summer. We are having our first official date tonight, nothing big just a movie with another couple, and then who knows. Pretty much like we've always done.

Shes told her parents and family about all this already, and they like me i guess. I've never been in this serious of a relationship, and i just feel like i'm going to die. Butterfiles in my stomach all day and i've been sweating like a pig at work (i work in a freezer for goodness sake)

Got any advice for me? I dont even know if shes going to let me pay for her, shes kinda one of thoes "I can take care of myself" types.My plan is just to act normal, not do anything out of the ordinary, i dont really see a point. But i just feel like a blabiling idiot. I just keep thinking that this cant be true.
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:Q


As her out. If you want, kiss her at the end of the date so she will know you like her. If you had a good time during the first date, ask her out again and do something she wants to do.
 
Nice name "Dr Smooth"

Anyway i'm not going to make a move to kiss her tongiht. I would however My alergies attacked the hell outta me a few days ago, and i'm not quite all the way recovered.
 
so... she asked you out... shes going to pay for herself on the first date.... WOAH. hold up. i dont think you have anything to worry about. im thinking shes going to open all the doors for you, and maybe pay for you too. :|
 
Originally posted by: tRaptor
Nice name "Dr Smooth"

Anyway i'm not going to make a move to kiss her tongiht. I would however My alergies attacked the hell outta me a few days ago, and i'm not quite all the way recovered.
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Okay, your relationship is dooooomed. You're supposed to be setting the tone for your relationship. You're not setting a very strong tone. Sounds like your date's going to be boring and she's going to push you right back into the friend zone and this time, you're not going to get out.

Sorry about the bad news.
 
It seems like this girl is going to have a strong personality and very controlling. I would watch this and make sure you set the tone. Make sure that she gives into your ideas and stuff. You don't want a dominating girlfriend... just a word of advice.
 
pics? 😀 😛

seriously, though, just be yourself. try to pay, but if she's stubborn, dont get in an argument about it. stay calm, be confident. you're the man. have fun, good luck.
 
Originally posted by: amcdonald
Take a thorough shower, brush your teeth, use mouthwash, and chew gum. thats great advice
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You know, those things are a lot harder to remember than you'd think. 😉 hehe, but good advice.
 
Ok, I'm not at all worried about her dominating at all. Shes not like that. She wants me to make the decisions, BUT i see what your all talking about, and i wont let it happen.

As for her asking me out, she really just asked me if I wanted to goto a movie, nothing big, we do it all the time. And then things got more involved. We always have a great time together, and i'm not at all worried about beeing boring.

As for paying for her, I am going to try, if she dosent want me to then its not like i'm going to force it on her.



Basically, she has know i've liked her for a long time. I asked her out awhile ago, and she turned me down casue she didnt feel the same way, she said that over the summer her mind has changed.


I'm sorry if i sound "dumb" about all this, but i really dont know women.
 
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