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Everybody feels that way at least one time in their lifes.. at least those who are lucky. It is said its better have loved and lost instead of not loved at all. But shes not the only one out there. And you'll have plenty of relationships after. Trust me and all the other saying the same thing. We know this because we have been through it too! Its a PITA but you'll get over it. And then it starts again with another girl. This is reality young man and this will only make you stronger.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
. . . or a 500 Service Unavailable ("Sorry, I'm on my period..")
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Unavailable? Wimp! :evil:

BTW, Astaroth33, I have to say that's one of the nerdiest analogies I've seen in a while. Good job. 😉
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Love and relationships are a lot like, well, like networking... Think of a tcp connection: You send a SYN ("hey, I'd like to go out with you!") and she sends you a SYN ACK ("you'd like to go out with me? Ok, let's go out!") and you send a confirming ACK ("all right, we're going out!"). At which point, you now have an understanding between the two of you that you have a connection. Once the connection is established, that's when you send an http GET request ("let's get it on!"), to which you can get a variety of responses. Hopefully, you'll get a 200 OK response ("OK!"), but sometimes you'll get a 403 Forbidden ("fvck no, you perv!") or a 500 Service Unavailable ("Sorry, I'm on my period..") If she's kinky, you might get a 302 Redirect ("hey, this is my twin sister..")

Relationships end the same way. Sometimes gracefully, like the tcp FIN process: Either one of you sends a tcp FIN ("I don't think we should go out anymore") to which you get a FIN ACK ("You don't want to go out anymore? Ok.. let's end it.") and you send a final ACK ("We're not going out anymore.") At this point, you have an understanding that the relationship is over. Sometimes, however, it's a bit less graceful. Sometimes an error occurs and a tcp RST needs to be sent ("that's it, we over!")

You'll learn, young padewan...
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that's awesome

-=bmacd=-
 
Sorry to say, but you're in for a world of hurt. Go have a chuckle and listen to Weird Al's "Since You've Been Gone" or "You Make Me".
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Love and relationships are a lot like, well, like networking... Think of a tcp connection: You send a SYN ("hey, I'd like to go out with you!") and she sends you a SYN ACK ("you'd like to go out with me? Ok, let's go out!") and you send a confirming ACK ("all right, we're going out!"). At which point, you now have an understanding between the two of you that you have a connection. Once the connection is established, that's when you send an http GET request ("let's get it on!"), to which you can get a variety of responses. Hopefully, you'll get a 200 OK response ("OK!"), but sometimes you'll get a 403 Forbidden ("fvck no, you perv!") or a 500 Service Unavailable ("Sorry, I'm on my period..") If she's kinky, you might get a 302 Redirect ("hey, this is my twin sister..")

Relationships end the same way. Sometimes gracefully, like the tcp FIN process: Either one of you sends a tcp FIN ("I don't think we should go out anymore") to which you get a FIN ACK ("You don't want to go out anymore? Ok.. let's end it.") and you send a final ACK ("We're not going out anymore.") At this point, you have an understanding that the relationship is over. Sometimes, however, it's a bit less graceful. Sometimes an error occurs and a tcp RST needs to be sent ("that's it, we over!")

You'll learn, young padewan...
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you are my hero.
 
Originally posted by: CrackRabbit
She be screwin with you mind boy!

Dont wait, run like hell.
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gotta go with this man. dont waste your time. if she really wanted you, she would take you now.
 
Originally posted by: amdfanboy
4. She said she didn't want a bf right now and for me not to wait for her.
5. She said she loved me too.
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😕


I asked her if she would ever marry me and she did say yes..
I asked if she would answer yes to any other guy that confessed their love to her and she said yes too
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Hahahah .... You are way too young .
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Corrected
 
i know i'm in the minority, but i'm going to say to go after her. i met my g/f when i was 15. i wouldn't say it was love at first sight, but it was damn well pretty close to it. it took me a day to develop strong feelings (other than lust) for her.

the circumstance surrounding our meeting was unique, but i really loved her. i'm 22 now, and we're still together. i expect to be married within 2 years (pending her graduation, and both of us having stables jobs). i can't remember exactly what i felt for her, but i can honestly say that i loved her - or at least, it's the closest thing to love a 15 year old could experience. but although i loved her, what i felt then is not the way i feel now. love starts to mean different things as you get older. anyway, go after her.

oh, and btw: stop using "like" every other sentence.


=|
 
Work like you don't need the money
Love like it's never going to hurt
Dance like nobody's watching
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Screw these guys who say 'you're just 15'. The only way you're going to learn is by doing it. Instead of talking to her, think up something romantic. Girls don't respond to talk, they respond to feelings, so shut your trap and do some stuff to show her how you feel! Buy her flowers, set up a surprise picnic somewhere, ask your parents to go out and do something for a night and then invite her over for a candlelit dinner... have your mom cook it first if you cant cook, then just warm it up before she gets there. Use your imiagination, thats what its there for 🙂 You shouldn't have to pressure her with words, your actions should be enough to make her your girl without ever bringing it up.

Oh, and shush with the marriage stuff, before you make her think you're some obsessed creep.
 
She said she doesn't want a boyfriend, and not to wait for her.

The funny thing - well it's not funny - but the tragic thing here is that you'll make the same mistake millions of guys before you have made, which is get all caught up over a zero prospect. You're wasting time with her. That's something people outside of the situation can see with crystal clarity. The thing is, you asked the question of what you should do, and there was only one answer that will satisfy you, which is "wait for her". You could have 1000 responses to your question and everybody could tell you to run, but blinded by teenage desire (I've been there, so I'm not knocking you for it), you'll just swat aside all advice that doesn't go along with your hopes.

So, I could tell you to stop wasting time and it's the best thing to do, but you'll ignore it anyway, so do what you were going to do before you made the thread, which is continue to waste time on this.
 
Do whatever makes you happy. Ultimately, you're a better person for it in the end. Yes, you may get dragged through months of emotional anguish but it is all part of life - you can't saunter through life without some hardship, because it is the hardship (mostly) which molds you into a person.
 
aren't <18yr olds not suppose to post in OT? :disgust:

Anyways, stay friends and see what happens. If she says not to wait, don't wait. She probably knows that there will be other boys
 
Originally posted by: PatboyX
Originally posted by: CrackRabbit
She be screwin with you mind boy!

Dont wait, run like hell.
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oh come on, those are the best kind of chicks...especially at 15.
go with it!
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Yeah...YEAH! They teach you valueable lessons about yourself...like...um...how to be a shell of a man who only can express himself in a bitter rage! And how when you think you've hit rock bottom...you can still drink yourself a little further down! Important stuff like that. Stuff you NEED to know.
 
Originally posted by: datdamkid
Ok, well I don't know how to start....but in Febuary I met this girl...shes probably the greatest thing that has ever happen to me in my life. When I met her we talked for about 2 hrs...then we had to go...because we met at my parents friends superbowl party. Well now I've known her for 6 months. But before I knew her too. Like when we were 5 we use to play w/each other....but then we stopped and now we just found each other again. Well in the past 6 months, we've talked alot .... since we are still only 15 we have nothing to do during the summer but talk. Well I work but thats at my parents place and I talk and work there. But I talk to her about 3-5hrs a day. Mostly at night from 11-1 and also when she wakes up she calls me and wakes me up...ect But with that all being said. I told her I loved her which I really do...Like I would do anything for her...I know you may think that I'm only 15 I don't know what love is. But I really think that I love her. And I told her this. She said that she loved me too. And she feels the same way that I do. But like I asked her out and she said no. I don't understand. Like she said before that she wanted to but at that time I didn't relize that I loved her so much...But now I don't know should I wait for her to want a bf. Because she said she doesn't want one right now...Like I want to wait for her because I care for her so much and that I really want us to be together....now the question is should I wait for her to want a bf? I really want to but she tells me not to...


Cliffnotes
1. Met beautiful girl that I haven't seen in 10 years. At a superbowl party in Febuary
2. We talk alot 3-5hrs a day ever since I met her.
3. I told her I loved her
4. She said she didn't want a bf right now and for me not to wait for her.
5. She said she loved me too.
6. The question is should I wait for her?
7. I want to but she says not to...
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argh...go die.
 
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