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YAGT: I'm going to lose my mind.

Kroze

Kroze

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Been with this girl for 4 years, my first love since high school. She's the nicest person you'll ever meet, never curse, love little kids, etc....Anyway, I went away for the Marines for almost 2 years including 8 months in Iraq. Eversince I came back, things gotten rocky. I don't know what.

We argue a lot more than usual.

I took her to the Bahamas and everything was going great. We had a great time. But like a month after we got back, she started acting weird.

She's the type of girlfriend who is always with you 24/7. Any free time that she got, she stay at my house. That goes on for 4 years.


Problems:

But for a whole week, i didn't see her.


We argue over that.

One night, i picked her up from her house to see her because i haven't see her at all lately. When she's over my house, she's all acting bored and interested. Looks like she wanted to go home.

I was pissed because i haven't seen her for a week and now she's acting like this. I took her home and just leave.

So anyway, we talk later that night and she keep saying she needed space and sh!t.

A week passed.

I was down and my friends took me out to hang with them trying to cheer me up. As we went into this diner. Who do i see?

Her, some guy, and another girl that she's friend with. As soon as we got in, they pick up and started leaving.

As she were leaving, i was at the entrance. She look guilty as h3ll, all she could do was look at me and gave me a smirk and then just leave.

I was so shocked! i feel betrayed! i couldn't believe my own freaking eyes! she's the last person on earth i would expect to do anything like this.

My friends was like. Yo Bao, wtf! you going to do something about that sh!t? I just stood there frozen.

They all gang up on her saying that is f#ck up, at least you coulda said hi to him. anyway, they follow her and threaten to send the other kid to the hospital.

They left the diner.......I was still frozen. Still trying to recollect what just happened.

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I couldn't sleep at all for days from that.

Next morning, i packed everything that we ever have together and gave it back to her. Her mom was all up on my face saying sh!t like i have no right to threaten her and her friends etc....

Yea...she claim that was her friend.

I didn't say anything and just gave all of the stuff back and leave.

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The whole 4 years relation ship end at that.


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Anyway, now everytime we see each other, she act all nice and like nothing ever happen. She act like i'm just a really nice friend of her for a long time.

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Presentabout 3 months after the breakup....I was fine now and was beginning to live my normal life and try not to think about her even though she pop up everyday in my head.

She email me the other day asking if i can fix her laptop, i said sure. She also IM me...i looked at her profile and she's now with some a-hole! she got her own page on "myspace" and his pics too. OMFG, i was so shocked again and hurt. I just still can't believe it.

Not only that, she leave msgs on myspace hinting that she'll show him her PJs and sh1T like thye're going to f#ck. OMG! i couldn't believe that either. From a person who never said a curse word, not even during sex, etc...

She's the last person on earth i woulda expected to do that to me.

Because of this, she just now reopened my old wound. I'm going to cry.


I was all fine too until she email & im me. Now i found out she's with some a-hole and turn slutty?







 
I have no idea what you are talking about but a hot bath followed by hanging is probably your best solution.
 
Damn, that's tough.. I can sympathize her a little bit though. You were gone for almost two years. She should've just come out with it. You should be mad but after you've cooled down think about what she had to go through.
 
Originally posted by: Yossarian
still gonna fix her computer?
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yes, i told her i would. I keep my words.

I just wanted her to be out of my life. Everytime i see her, hear her, just make me mad like hell. I feel betrayed and cheated and used.

like she's using me right now.
 
Um....why are you fixing her laptop? Unless you're gonna put some keystroke monitoring stuff or a vnc client to get back at her, dont fix her computer. Can't you see she's walking all over you? She obviously can't see that you're hurt, or is just plain stupid. If she gives you her laptop, smash it.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
sorry dude, she's moved on.

I suggest you do the same and never speak with her again.
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I was moving on till she email/im me and now i found out all this crap about this a-hole she's with.


I was calming down b4, but now everytime i see her, i feel betrayal even more and i don't think she can even look at me in the eye.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
sorry dude, she's moved on.

I suggest you do the same and never speak with her again.
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The best advice ever. Seriously. It'll be tough, but hang in there, be strong, and you will get over her.

 
Originally posted by: Merlyn3D
Um....why are you fixing her laptop? Unless you're gonna put some keystroke monitoring stuff or a vnc client to get back at her, dont fix her computer. Can't you see she's walking all over you? She obviously can't see that you're hurt, or is just plain stupid. If she gives you her laptop, smash it.
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That's why i feel used man. i sold all of my videogames stuff not too long ago but i keep the gamecube because she gave it to me a while ago.

Instead of selling it, i gave it back to her telling her to give it to her brother.


i got a chance to talk to him online a while back and said that she's using it instead of giving it to him.....

i feel so used now that she asked me to fix her laptop...
 
First, thanks for your service in the Marines.

It's pretty clear that you should not be fixing her laptop because of how you felt when she contacted you. It's perfectly OK to politely decline and avoid future contact. Quit checking out her myspace page, don't respond to IMs. It's not doing you any good. You said yourself that you want her out of your life.

It's OK to change your mind about fixing her laptop. Don't feel like you're not keeping your word. There are plenty of times in life when you can change your mind and not feel badly about it.
 
Originally posted by: Kroze
Originally posted by: Zanix
Been there man. Sucks.

"she got her own page on "myspace"
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Link?
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no..



it makes it even worst is that the picture of her on their is a picture of the 2 of us in the bahamas, she cut me out.
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She could have at least not included the pic. Cold. Figurative and literal cutting out. I'd kill her. Or at least think about it.
 
In all seriousness tho, she wasn't good enough for ya dude. Its good that you found out she was like this before you got married. There's lots of fish in the sea who I'm sure wouldn't mind having a Marine for a bf. Oh ya, and Semper Fi!
 
Bao, brother, you are better off. I see that trifling look in her eyes. Only bad things come from those with that look. SEMPER FI! You need to cut it clean, no other way will work. You need to cut off ALL contact, and after a few weeks, you'll have completely forgotten about her, and you'll feel much better and you won't be sorry. I've been there. I know how it feels. Thank you for your service to our great country. It says a lot when someone of a different nationality fights for their country. Thank you.
 
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