YAGT: I think I may have gotten a date...

[Conky]

Make sure to "unload your weapon" before the date, if you know what I mean.

 

[drinkmorejava]

seriously, people, anyone that's not totaly screwed up and has any amount of social skills can blow the ladder theory apart.

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: timosyy
"Hanging out" seems really informal. I call up girls (both single & already seeing someone) to "hang out" or "grab lunch" or "catch dinner" all the damn time and I never consider them "dates" of any sort (18-20 range).

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ya

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: drinkmorejava
seriously, people, anyone that's not totaly screwed up and has any amount of social skills can blow the ladder theory apart.

i can't imagine ppl take these things seriously.

they're overgeneralizations for the purpose of being funny

 

[pcnerd37]

The way you asked makes it sound like a friends thing. I have made this mistake on multiple occasions and it only got me futher into the friend zone, of which i am now the mayor. If you want to date her, you need to say so. Women are alot like men in that they have no clue what you are thinking unless you say exactly what you mean.

 

[apac]

Could go either way. She could just want to hang out as a friend, or she might be as excited and worried as you are. If there's chemistry you'll know...stuff just sort of happens.

 

[T9D]

If she's single then you have a chance so dont worry about it. Girls are ALWAYS open to a new relationship. You just have to play your cards right.

 

[pcnerd37]

Originally posted by: tk109
If she's single then you have a chance so dont worry about it. Girls are ALWAYS open to a new relationship. You just have to play your cards right.

If you look into the research, that is typically not true. Personally, i believe David Deangello's theories when it comes to women and dating. He is behind the Double Your Dating stuff.

 

[alien42]

i would say dont over analyze everything but its probably to late for that.

 

[saymyname]

Unless you want to be friends with her and nothing more you better establish that you're interested in her when you meet her. Touch her. Look her in the eyes. Compliment her. Go skinny dipping.

Then bone her until she calls you big daddy.