Originally posted by: BoldAsLove
Okay, so me and my girlfriend had been going out for a little over a year and a half last summer. About half way through the summer my girlfriend decided that she didnt "love" me anymore so she broke up with me. I got her to admit at the time that she liked this other guy who she met when we were in washington dc together. I saw her flirting with him right in front of my face, which I of course took as nothing. So we both kind of went our separate ways for about 3 months...dating different people. She dated the guy we met in DC (he lived in California like us though) for about 2 months, before deciding that she still loved me and that she made a huge mistake (of course I still loved her). So we got back together and everything was going just fine until about a month ago. About a month ago, my friend was over and he accidentally slipped that she had done sexual deeds with him but not intercourse. Now, for some reason I have a VERY hard time dealing with this sort of thing. It stays in the back of my head and I can never get it out. I just picture the gross guy all over her in my head and I hate it. But I was going to live with it up until today. Today 2 of my friends, my girlfriend, and I were walking along the beach when somehow we got into the topic of the blabber mouth guy mentioned above. She then found out that he told me something but didn't think it pertained to her ex boyfriend. I refused to speak of what I knew, and so I had her go off with my other friend up ahead as I said I would tell my other friend (whom is a girl), about what I knew. I basically told her I knew what her and the guy did, and she took that as if I knew they had had sex. My heart literally dropped for a second. That was probably the worst feeling I have ever had. It felt almost as if everything in my body shattered. You are now probably going to think im a pussy or whatever, but if this ever happened to you and you loved someone as much as I love her, than you would feel the same exact way. She ended up taking me directly home wondering wtf was happening, but I think she figured it out cuz she started crying when she was letting me out the door.
The thing that ticks me off the most is that she never told me at all. Now granted, we have had sex many times since we have gotten back together. She had told me she never had sex with anybody else about a month ago. We were both virgins before we ever had sex together. For all I know, that guy had a disease and now I have chlamydia. Now i know Im going to get bashed here but whatever, I just needed to let this all out. Ohh and one more thing to add...on friday we were walking home with one of my frinds and we got on the topic of my ex girlfriend..these are the words out of her mouth, "oh yea if he had ever done anything with her, i probably wouldnt be able to touch him again"
fudging hypocrite.
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1. girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago
2. we dated other people in between then
3.we got back together about 3 months ago, and she told me she did nothing sexually with the other guy she dated
4. her friend just told me today that they had sex (they saw each other a total of about 5 times)
5. I could have an STD right now, as she never told me any of this.
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