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YAGT: I just broke up with my girlfriend. UPDATED!

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Well every time you get in a fight, take a second to step back and figure out how it started and why it didn't dissipate.

Usually one of these things is the problem. Think hard about this. Are / do ONE or BOTH of you:

1) too stubborn, prideful, or thick headed to admit your mistakes
2) think you always know what's best / is always right
3) don't listen / think before you talk
4) can be unreasonable, demanding, or bossy and piss the other off
5) too sullen / moody / touchy / sensitive about little comments?
6) passive-aggressive

Often you might find that you are unconsciously starting an argument by having to have the last word or being too unflexible. See if that helps. It could also be that you might think you're listening but not being constructive in your suggestions or efforts to appease her. Some girls require more feedback and attention than others.


Of course, there's always the obvious answer:

7) She's fvcking insane

If that's the case, tag it, stamp it and send it back, and then do her sister in the pooper. You have nothing more to gain out of the relationship.
 
Hehe, thanks for the advice guys. Looks don't really matter that much to me... i mean, it's great when the girl is good looking, but in the long run, that doesn't really matter too much. You'll see if you get involved in a long-term relationship.
 
Originally posted by: geckojohn
Hehe, thanks for the advice guys. Looks don't really matter that much to me... i mean, it's great when the girl is good looking, but in the long run, that doesn't really matter too much. You'll see if you get involved in a long-term relationship.
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Paper bags start to get expensive after a while. Better find a girl that can at least not make mister winky fall asleep by looking at it.
 
You're right about that... I can be too stubborn, to admit my mistakes... but then she gets really aggressive with me and won't back off. So, in order to stand up for myself, I sometimes have to not admit my mistakes... or else i feel she'll walk all over me.
 
Yeah, unfortunately i think you're right. We just have different thoughts and opionions on too many different things... and neither one of us are really trying to compromise.
 
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