YAGT I got dumped via AIM.

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Lazy8s

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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: nitrousninja
Did she have any idea you were sick? Why don't you pick up a phone and talk to her?

I've tried calling her. If she answered I could talk to her. Yes she knew I was sick. We had to cancel plans because I got so bad. At that point I didnt know what I had and didnt want to get her sick. She's in the middle of a job search and has no insurance right now.

She might just be using this as a convient excuse to blow you off. That way she can blame you for her failings.

Ditch the b!tch, if she's using this to get you to apologize she's not worth it, and if she's not then she's gone anyways.

*opens front door*
Bye bye good riddance see ya later thx for stopping bye see you in another life don't come back and please never call again!
 

JoPh

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Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
You don't have a phone? What kind of relationship is this anyway? When you say that you all 'hang out' on Friday and Saturday is it via web cam?

haah
 

Chronoshock

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Heh in the future use messageserver to send a message to her while ur offline (IM messageserver in the following format: theirusername; message) you shouldn't have to do this since what she did was dumb, but it can prevent miscommunication in the future
 

CraigRT

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heh, at least you can laugh about it :)
yeah that's pretty weird.

think of a fun message to send back to her.. something like... "yay, just in time for Doom3... later beyotch!"... har har
 

Encryptic

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This chick sounds like she's still stuck in high school. I wouldn't even bother trying to connect with her again if she's that immature. Take the time you now have and spend it on Doom III. :D
 

Kipper

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Congratulations on your a.) newfound freedom b.) computer that can run Doom III and c.) on getting dumped by a girl with the emotional maturity and intelligence of a six year old.

At least you don't have any notions of guilt.
 

kranky

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Originally posted by: Chronoshock
Heh in the future use messageserver to send a message to her while ur offline (IM messageserver in the following format: theirusername; message) you shouldn't have to do this since what she did was dumb, but it can prevent miscommunication in the future

Oh, the irony of using the same technology for the solution as the one that caused the problem.
 

Doboji

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You dumb foolish idiot... all you have to do is call her, and explain the situation... You're actually dumping her by not calling her... if you want to continue seeing her, all you have to do is call...

SHEESH!!!! :disgust:

-Max
 

Chronoshock

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Originally posted by: Doboji
You dumb foolish idiot... all you have to do is call her, and explain the situation... You're actually dumping her by not calling her... if you want to continue seeing her, all you have to do is call...

SHEESH!!!! :disgust:

-Max

I think Doom III has already convinced him otherwise lol
 
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She is using your lack of communication and implied threat of breaking up as a test. She wants you to apologize and plead with her. She wants the attention and affirmation that you still care.
 

SP33Demon

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Sorry for stealing your girl, but she said she didn't have a b/f and wants bang bang bang.
 

bobbybe01

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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Sorry for stealing your girl, but she said she didn't have a b/f and wants bang bang bang.
Reminds me of something like this (you could probably learn a few things from it, Doom III boy). Just like the name of the game, that's how you're relationship will be if you don't fix it.
think of a fun message to send back to her.. something like... "yay, just in time for Doom3... later beyotch!"... har har
Are you a pirate? :)
 

Lazy8s

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OOh!! You should post her SN so we can all tell her how immature she is and harass her about dumping you, it might not work but ti could be kinda fun for us...
 

jyates

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Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
She is using your lack of communication and implied threat of breaking up as a test. She wants you to apologize and plead with her. She wants the attention and affirmation that you still care.


Or she may have hooked up with William Hung and is helping him with his
singing career.
 

PowderBB3D

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Like so many people said, she's most likely using this as some kind of a test. She probably felt that since you guys weren't seeing each other that often there was a chance that you stopped caring about her (which, by the nature of your posts in this thread seems to be the case after all). The idea of "breaking up" with you probably came to her as a means to prove to her that you still want her - simply asking you isn't enough because you might lie or something lame.

I say forget her. If it was a test and she still wants to be together she'll be the one who crawls back. Then you can step on her hands and say "too bad, you screwed up." Let it back fire on her, because from the looks of it you don't care either way and she needs to learn some maturity - it would certainly help her and she'd learn not to "test" her boyfriends in the future.
 

Orsorum

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I tend to take women like that at their word. You want to create artificial drama? Fine. Don't expect me to play along. If you're upset with me, call me and explain that you're upset, then I can either apologize or not and we'll fight further. But don't play games.