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BeauJangles

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Why not talk to her? *gasp* Don't berate her, just be nice and kind and explain. I had to do the same with my girlfriend and it all worked out fine.
 

illusion88

Lifer
Oct 2, 2001
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Just give her advice on how you like it. Tell her (gently now), almost guide her, in what to do. Can never go wrong with a little teaching ya know?
 

xeno2060

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Nov 8, 2001
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So teach her how to kiss. Tell her what you want and let her tell you what she wants. It's as simple as that, problem solved.
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ohtwell

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Jan 6, 2002
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Kissing isn't trivial! It's an integral part of any relationship and if one of the people isn't a good kisser that can be a problem. I'd suggest giving her some advice on how she can do it better. Don't be mean about it. She'll never know that she's not good if you don't tell her. More than likely she thinks that she's doing fine.


: ) Amanda
 

her209

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Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: ohtwell
Kissing isn't trivial! It's an integral part of any relationship and if one of the people isn't a good kisser that can be a problem. I'd suggest giving her some advice on how she can do it better. Don't be mean about it. She'll never know that she's not good if you don't tell her. More than likely she thinks that she's doing fine.

: ) Amanda
I don't mean to hijack the thread, but, how do you tell someone she wears too much makeup?
 

Spikesoldier

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Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: ohtwell
Kissing isn't trivial! It's an integral part of any relationship and if one of the people isn't a good kisser that can be a problem. I'd suggest giving her some advice on how she can do it better. Don't be mean about it. She'll never know that she's not good if you don't tell her. More than likely she thinks that she's doing fine.

: ) Amanda
I don't mean to hijack the thread, but, how do you tell someone she wears too much makeup?

tell her that she is pretty/beautiful enough that she doesnt need all that makeup.
 

guapo337

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Originally posted by: Spikesoldier
Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: ohtwell
Kissing isn't trivial! It's an integral part of any relationship and if one of the people isn't a good kisser that can be a problem. I'd suggest giving her some advice on how she can do it better. Don't be mean about it. She'll never know that she's not good if you don't tell her. More than likely she thinks that she's doing fine.

: ) Amanda
I don't mean to hijack the thread, but, how do you tell someone she wears too much makeup?

tell her that she is pretty/beautiful enough that she doesnt need all that makeup.

yesyes. good thought

 

Siddhartha

Lifer
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Originally posted by: guapo337
alright i have been involved with someone for about a month or so. anyways, i have a lot of fun with this girl. we have a really good time, etc. it's just a good thing to be in. however, i am like the first guy she's ever been with, and there's one problem. she can't really kiss very well. i know, i know, it's sorta trivial. i'm happy, right? but i see these other guys getting all this action, and the one im with can't even really kiss very well. i'm sure that it'll change over time, right? she just sorta sits there.. i dont know. :eek: advice?

yes, yes, i know this could be seen as a tad bit materialistic. it's just something that annoys me. cuz everything else is fine, but this, for some reason, is making itself an annoyance..

How old are you?

 

guapo337

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Apr 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: Dr Smooth
Originally posted by: guapo337
alright i have been involved with someone for about a month or so. anyways, i have a lot of fun with this girl. we have a really good time, etc. it's just a good thing to be in. however, i am like the first guy she's ever been with, and there's one problem. she can't really kiss very well. i know, i know, it's sorta trivial. i'm happy, right? but i see these other guys getting all this action, and the one im with can't even really kiss very well. i'm sure that it'll change over time, right? she just sorta sits there.. i dont know. :eek: advice?

yes, yes, i know this could be seen as a tad bit materialistic. it's just something that annoys me. cuz everything else is fine, but this, for some reason, is making itself an annoyance..

How old are you?

16

 

ohtwell

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Jan 6, 2002
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Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: ohtwell
Kissing isn't trivial! It's an integral part of any relationship and if one of the people isn't a good kisser that can be a problem. I'd suggest giving her some advice on how she can do it better. Don't be mean about it. She'll never know that she's not good if you don't tell her. More than likely she thinks that she's doing fine.

: ) Amanda
I don't mean to hijack the thread, but, how do you tell someone she wears too much makeup?
Hmmm.... that's a good question. Some women might be offended by you telling them they wear too much. This is something you handle very delicately. If this is the situation where her face is orange but her body is white then suggest that she wear a a little less or possibly a lighter color foundation to bring out her natural beauty. If this is a situation where she wears too much eye makeup then tell her that she has beautiful eyes and that you would love to see what they look like with ligher eye shadow on them. Don't say these things when you are sitting at a resteraunt though. Knives are handy there ;). I'm not sure if that helps any. I hope so. Feel free to take my advice or ignore it. :)


: ) Amanda
 

Alphazero

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May 9, 2002
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The best thing to do is to simply talk to her about it. Give her a couple of tips, and make sure she gets plenty of practice ;)