YAGT: i dont know

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

alright i have been involved with someone for about a month or so. anyways, i have a lot of fun with this girl. we have a really good time, etc. it's just a good thing to be in. however, i am like the first guy she's ever been with, and there's one problem. she can't really kiss very well. i know, i know, it's sorta trivial. i'm happy, right? but i see these other guys getting all this action, and the one im with can't even really kiss very well. i'm sure that it'll change over time, right? she just sorta sits there.. i dont know.

advice?

yes, yes, i know this could be seen as a tad bit materialistic. it's just something that annoys me. cuz everything else is fine, but this, for some reason, is making itself an annoyance..

murphy55d · May 4, 2003

Yeah..better dump her quick.

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: murphy55d
Yeah..better dump her quick.

no honestly, thats the point! i definitely dont wanna dump her, i'm just sorting whining..

Yossarian · May 4, 2003

may as well tell her what you like (and by implication, what you don't). otherwise the only way she'll get better is if she's with other guys

i was once seeing this girl who opened her mouth as much as humanly possible every time she smooched me, it really hurt my cheeks after a while to reciprocate! we put her skill to use though

murphy55d · May 4, 2003

So...exactly what advice are you looking for?

Spac3d · May 4, 2003

Get another girl she they can practice their kissing while you observe

Yossarian · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: Spac3d
Get another girl she they can practice their kissing while you observe

WINNAR!!!

TuffGirl · May 4, 2003

First off I don't think you are bringing up a trivial point. Kissing among other things is such an important part of intimacy and feeling close and connected with your partner. It's definitely not a materialistic issue either. I don't know where you got that from.

Anyway, I can't help you with kissing tips since I'm a girl and I've never gotten any complaints.

I'll have you know though that if a guy I'm with isn't satisfied with my kisses, I would like to know and not be left in the dark and the guy be "nice" about it.

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: PipBoy
may as well tell her what you like (and by implication, what you don't). otherwise the only way she'll get better is if she's with other guys

i was once seeing this girl who opened her mouth as much as humanly possible every time she smooched me, it really hurt my cheeks after a while to reciprocate! we put her skill to use though

hahaha. i'd feel sorta awkward critiquing her though.. i mean, wouldnt you? anyways, my problem is the opposite. she just sorta sits there, and barely opens her mouth.

anyways, i dont really know what advice im looking for? is there anyway i can change this?

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: klee58
First off I don't think you are bringing up a trivial point. Kissing among other things is such an important part of intimacy and feeling close and connected with your partner. It's definitely not a materialistic issue either. I don't know where you got that from.

Anyway, I can't help you with kissing tips since I'm a girl and I've never gotten any complaints. I'll have you know though that if a guy I'm with isn't satisfied with my kisses, I would like to know and not be left in the dark and the guy be "nice" about it.

that advice is comforting.

any more ideas?

Yossarian · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: guapo337
hahaha. i'd feel sorta awkward critiquing her though.. i mean, wouldnt you?

nah I don't know her, I'd have no problem coming over and telling her to stop being such a cold dead fish

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: PipBoy

Originally posted by: guapo337
hahaha. i'd feel sorta awkward critiquing her though.. i mean, wouldnt you?

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nah I don't know her, I'd have no problem coming over and telling her to stop being such a cold dead fish

hahahahaha. will you do it for me then?

does anyone honestly have any ideas about how to approach this?

TuffGirl · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: klee58
First off I don't think you are bringing up a trivial point. Kissing among other things is such an important part of intimacy and feeling close and connected with your partner. It's definitely not a materialistic issue either. I don't know where you got that from.

Anyway, I can't help you with kissing tips since I'm a girl and I've never gotten any complaints. I'll have you know though that if a guy I'm with isn't satisfied with my kisses, I would like to know and not be left in the dark and the guy be "nice" about it.

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that advice is comforting. any more ideas?

guapo337, I just noticed that your post count/rejoin date are

Posts: 304
Joined: Apr 2003

Haven't you been around for much longer than that? Did your account get reset or something? Or am I just confusing you with another guy who often starts YAGT's?

acidvoodoo · May 4, 2003

i remember my first kiss, i was amazed at how much tongue the girl used.

Maybe just say "i completely understand that you havent been with many guys, but i would love to give you lots of practice"

it really depends on the girl. She may get really nervous. How about go drinking or something, that's how i learned

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: klee58

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: klee58
First off I don't think you are bringing up a trivial point. Kissing among other things is such an important part of intimacy and feeling close and connected with your partner. It's definitely not a materialistic issue either. I don't know where you got that from.

Anyway, I can't help you with kissing tips since I'm a girl and I've never gotten any complaints. I'll have you know though that if a guy I'm with isn't satisfied with my kisses, I would like to know and not be left in the dark and the guy be "nice" about it.

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that advice is comforting. any more ideas?

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guapo337, I just noticed that your post count/rejoin date are

Posts: 304
Joined: Apr 2003

Haven't you been around for much longer than that? Did your account get reset or something? Or am I just confusing you with another guy who often starts YAGT's?

*tear* im so glad that someone remembers me! yeah, my account got deleted. my ISP re-assigns IPs every now and then, and i got re-assigned the IP of someone who was a troll. so i got their IP, i was thought to be a troll, my account was BA-LEETED

and it took me a while to get everything straightened out. but i'm back.

acidvoodoo · May 4, 2003

were you the guy with the "sad" face as your avatar? cause i thought he was really old

Lonyo · May 4, 2003

I agree with the drink idea. Get her ever so slightly drunk, then she'll be less inhibited, and you'll find she's more open to kissing, and that might lead to some improvement.

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

Originally posted by: Lonyo
I agree with the drink idea. Get her ever so slightly drunk, then she'll be less inhibited, and you'll find she's more open to kissing, and that might lead to some improvement.

once i can drive her around, that wont be a problem. but right now, because of this damn DMV 90 day rule (cant drive people for 90 days) i am unable to do that.

acidvoodoo: i had the asian man as my avatar, near the end of my first life. i never used the sad face.

GoingUp · May 4, 2003

Offer to show her a few things, or try some new things with kissing and see what she does

acidvoodoo · May 4, 2003

oh right, who the hell am i tihnking of then lol

what was yer old user name

guapo337 · May 4, 2003

acidvoodoo: guapo337

acidvoodoo · May 4, 2003

ohhhhhhhhh, so it just got reset?

that sucks

4Lclovergirl · May 4, 2003

When I first started dating my ex, he was a really weird kisser, not bad, just weird from his old gf. Instead of being like do this or do that, you say you know, I really like it when you do this, and give her confidence in what she does. Or be like i have never had someone do this to me, do you want to try it. Or even I relaly like it when someone does this to me. Even if it's in casual conversation and not when you are making out. This way she has ideas without you telling her she's doing a bad job.

ajayjuneja · May 4, 2003

teach her

May 4, 2003

Teach her - the only thing that'll make her better is practice

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