YAGT: I did something i am embarassed of... MAJOR UPDATE!

[BMdoobieW]

you're messed up

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Dump her and tell her to come to grips with her life. She needs to not date anyone anfd find herself.

So, what happened to her when she was young? Dependency issues seem to be a problem.

:thumbsup: she also seems to have classic "daddy issues." just stop talking to her. let someone else deal with this mess (i.e: a professional).

 

[jdini76]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

-update - 1-9-07
I got a txt message this morning from her saying "friends fvck up and friends forgive crazy acts.... so friends?"
=\ and after i txt back "yeah" she txts "so what are you getting me for my birthday "
WTF man.

I find it funny that after what you did, she doesn't get that you want to be more than friends. I would have said no. Because now you are stuck in the friends zone.

 

[zephyrprime]

What's to be embarrassed of? You had every reason to be suspicious. The only embarassing part is that you were still with this chick even though the warning signs were everywhere.

 

[iroast]

She's hinting to you that she's only interested in friendship.

 

[Leejai]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

Originally posted by: TehMac
She's got a nice rack. +105 Mac Points.

you aren't the first one to mention her rack. wtf? you cna't even see them!

i think the question you should be asking yourself is whether or not TehMac has seen her rack, also likes her like you and crazy ex, also bought her a bottle of alcohol and maybe you have more competition than you think....

 

[BillyBatson]

huge huge huge update!

 

[DeadByDawn]

Wait, so karma pays a visit and you help her clean up.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahah

 

[yllus]

In your place I'd abandon her to her fate. Psycho girls pick psycho boyfriends, and yllus don't want none o' dat.

 

[Patt]

So much drama ... wow.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
are you a masochist or do you feel you need to save her? either way you are mentally deficient in all categories if you continue any sort of relationship/communication with this broad. she is scrap metal-used and abused trash.[/]

***OFFICIAL AND CONFIRMED****

 

[jdini76]

Originally posted by: yllus
In your place I'd abandon her to her fate. Psycho girls pick psycho boyfriends, and yllus don't want none o' dat.

If what yllus says is true, and yllus isn't psyhco, then yllus won't have to worry about that.

 

[letdown427]

Awesome update. Except for the tidying up bit.

9/10 for concept.
5/10 for execution.

 

[kevnich2]

Sorry but I have no sympathy for you. It's your choice to stay and "help" her out, she's not forcing you. You won't be anything to her but someone to fall back on as a friend when things with her ex isn't going well. She'll keep going back to him no matter what he does to her. I'd say leave her alone, don't call her, don't accept calls and make sure she knows you want nothing more to do with her but I doubt you'll won't listen. Good luck though!!

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: DeadByDawn
Wait, so karma pays a visit and you help her clean up.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahah

well according to her she never went back to him they were tryign to be friends and he kept showing up drunk and would sleep on her couch. either way even if she did sleep with him and want him there etc we were not officailly together so she could do whats he wanted but seeing as she is seeing help cuz of him it was stupid to have him over espeically when your friends and family hate him and tell you to stay away. I don't think she got whats he deserved that sucks to have someone keep you hostage in your own home, destory every means you have to contact help, be physically injured, fear for your life, and have to stab somoene. She called for help I have no other choice but to go, I would have shown up made sure she was ok, bash his face in, and called the cops. Of all people it was him in his druken state who called the cops to report her for stabbing him lol. I was worried about her especially since the cops didn't know if she was ok and were asking me if i had been able to get a hold of her since her las call which i hasn't and the ex standing there covered in blood.
I had to help i wouldn't have been able to live with myself if someone asked me for help and i just went back to bed and later found out something happened to them.

 

[bennylong]

In the famous Gauntlet Voice,

"BILLY BATESON IS ABOUT TO DIE."

That drunk ex is going to kill you! Remember Ronnie Goldman and OJ!

 

[BKLounger]

it is nice to be there for the person in a situation like this like you did but personally i would run as far as possible from this. Unless you are certain in your mind this girl is the one you are going to spend your life with and she is worth possibly dying for then I would say put as much distance between the two of you as possible.

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: kevnich2
Sorry but I have no sympathy for you. It's your choice to stay and "help" her out, she's not forcing you. You won't be anything to her but someone to fall back on as a friend when things with her ex isn't going well. She'll keep going back to him no matter what he does to her. I'd say leave her alone, don't call her, don't accept calls and make sure she knows you want nothing more to do with her but I doubt you'll won't listen. Good luck though!!

I don't want a relationship anymore.w e even talked about it because she started explaining to me how she never slept with him when he was over and he was slepeing ont he couch etc and i told her to stop cuz it didn't matter. She started telling me she does have feelings for me and i said i did too but she isn't healthy for me and i was there to help her cuz she asked for it and it was clear she was in danger but that was it. I tried not to spend the night i told her no but she begged scared so i did. her place was a MESS with glass, blood, and food all over, it has to be cleaned it couldn't wait for morning the smell along would have been horrible and since i was gonna stay i didn't want to be gagging all night lol

 

[D1gger]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

Originally posted by: DeadByDawn
Wait, so karma pays a visit and you help her clean up.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahah

well according to her she never went back to him they were tryign to be friends and he kept showing up drunk and would sleep on her couch. either way even if she did sleep with him and want him there etc we were not officailly together so she could do whats he wanted but seeing as she is seeing help cuz of him it was stupid to have him over espeically when your friends and family hate him and tell you to stay away. I don't think she got whats he deserved that sucks to have someone keep you hostage in your own home, destory every means you have to contact help, be physically injured, fear for your life, and have to stab somoene. She called for help I have no other choice but to go, I would have shown up made sure she was ok, bash his face in, and called the cops. Of all people it was him in his druken state who called the cops to report her for stabbing him lol. I was worried about her especially since the cops didn't know if she was ok and were asking me if i had been able to get a hold of her since her las call which i hasn't and the ex standing there covered in blood.
I had to help i wouldn't have been able to live with myself if someone asked me for help and i just went back to bed and later found out something happened to them.

I would have dialled 911 after the first call for help, and then rolled over and gone back to sleep. You do not want this psycho girl and her ex in your life. No good can come of this.

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: BKLounger
it is nice to be there for the person in a situation like this like you did but personally i would run as far as possible from this. Unless you are certain in your mind this girl is the one you are going to spend your life with and she is worth possibly dying for then I would say put as much distance between the two of you as possible.

HAHAHA no no like i said, i have no intention of seeing her romantically. I know her and i know how she is with her ex, i know he has done stupid things before and she still went back, but if she went ouf of her way to call me for help rather than her sister than i knew it had to be big and she has never cried wolf before. I show up to 14 cops and a stabbed ex, so she didn't dissapoint lol.
I ran out of my house so fast, but i did up up an away message on AIM that read "if i am dead in the morning, i loved you all" LOL, took me 31 hours to come back home so i was idle all that time, a bunch of ppl started calling me worried lol

 

[ngvepforever2]

dude.....just way too much drama.

ng

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: D1gger

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

Originally posted by: DeadByDawn
Wait, so karma pays a visit and you help her clean up.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahah

well according to her she never went back to him they were tryign to be friends and he kept showing up drunk and would sleep on her couch. either way even if she did sleep with him and want him there etc we were not officailly together so she could do whats he wanted but seeing as she is seeing help cuz of him it was stupid to have him over espeically when your friends and family hate him and tell you to stay away. I don't think she got whats he deserved that sucks to have someone keep you hostage in your own home, destory every means you have to contact help, be physically injured, fear for your life, and have to stab somoene. She called for help I have no other choice but to go, I would have shown up made sure she was ok, bash his face in, and called the cops. Of all people it was him in his druken state who called the cops to report her for stabbing him lol. I was worried about her especially since the cops didn't know if she was ok and were asking me if i had been able to get a hold of her since her las call which i hasn't and the ex standing there covered in blood.
I had to help i wouldn't have been able to live with myself if someone asked me for help and i just went back to bed and later found out something happened to them.

I would have dialled 911 after the first call for help, and then rolled over and gone back to sleep. You do not want this psycho girl and her ex in your life. No good can come of this.

I was going to but i don't know her address and would have had to describe how to get there. Also for all i know he just wouldn't leave so i wanted to get there to see the situation and then call the cops. I'll admit i also wanted to bash his face in his the oppertunity was taken away from me 3 months ago =\ not smart i know but still.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: DeadByDawn
Wait, so karma pays a visit and you help her clean up.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahah

I really hope you're only helping because you're a good person and won't abandon people who need help in their time of need and not because you still think you can be happy with her.

As cold-hearted as it is, what she went through is a direct result of her own actions. The smartest action was for you to cut off contact before, and this changes nothing. She's still the same untrustworthy person with bad judgement she always was, except now she has a few bumps to prove it.

You've been through the chases and the bf storming into places looking for her. Guaranteed there have been many other violent incidents which you never knew about. Yet, she continues to invite this douche into her life, even lying to you and leaving you so that she could have him. Whatever her problem is, it's not fixed yet. 50/50 that she will let him back into her life. Even if this was the wake up call she needed, she won't be ready for a real relationship till many months of being alone.

 

[shortspanishguy]

You are letting yourself get used. She knows she has you wrapped around her finger.

I guess you will learn the hard way with this one.

 

[robothouse77]

c'mon give the guy a break. i can bet that most of you would go help the damsel in distress if you get a txt w/ "HELP!!!"