- Feb 21, 2001
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Short story:
Me and this girl are co-workers. She knows I like her all along. I knew I had zero chances with her. We get along well, talk a lot, and have lunches together all the time.
Fast forward to the day prior to her last day. My feelings for her were eating up inside me and I just felt the need to get things out in the open. And so I did. All the things I did for her were not intentions to hit on her or try to change her mind. It simply was because I knew our time together would be short (ala her finding a new job and me not seeing her again) and just wanted to make the most of it and make her happy. That's the only thing that counted as far as I'm concerned. I never did have hopes that things would fly between us. By coming out and telling her I was fully ready to lose all communications with her, but she seemed willing for us to remain friends and so we left it at that.
I gave her a call two/three nights after trying to make things "normal" again. Making small talk and suggesting the idea we should get together one weekend and spend time together, like we used to. She said for sure, but had a friend come over and had to cut the conversation short with me. Whether that's really the case I don't know. Because of that I sent her an email. It's been a week w/o reply.
I feel that there is still a bit of tension between us and that she's feeling uncomfortable. I did get a little teary at work 'cause I miss not seeing her there every day. You know how workplace is though, words spread and may have spread to her.
We still have a few things we borrowed from each other we need to return. I miss her and would like to see her again. Is there anything I can do at this point besides wait for her to start feeling comfortable and that enough time to pass to iiniate contact with me again? Anything I can tell her at this point? Like that I'd like to see her but wait until she's fully ready and comfortable with the idea of meeting up again?
I feel that this is a crucial time and will set a tone of how things will be down the road, but I'm not sure what is the appropriate thing to do. Email? Txt msg? Call her again? All too soon and just sit and wait it out?
I did get really emotional the first two days she's away, but those feelings have slowly faded and I feel better by the day. But I have zero drive/motivation to go to work and actually do work 'cause she's not there no more.
Me and this girl are co-workers. She knows I like her all along. I knew I had zero chances with her. We get along well, talk a lot, and have lunches together all the time.
Fast forward to the day prior to her last day. My feelings for her were eating up inside me and I just felt the need to get things out in the open. And so I did. All the things I did for her were not intentions to hit on her or try to change her mind. It simply was because I knew our time together would be short (ala her finding a new job and me not seeing her again) and just wanted to make the most of it and make her happy. That's the only thing that counted as far as I'm concerned. I never did have hopes that things would fly between us. By coming out and telling her I was fully ready to lose all communications with her, but she seemed willing for us to remain friends and so we left it at that.
I gave her a call two/three nights after trying to make things "normal" again. Making small talk and suggesting the idea we should get together one weekend and spend time together, like we used to. She said for sure, but had a friend come over and had to cut the conversation short with me. Whether that's really the case I don't know. Because of that I sent her an email. It's been a week w/o reply.
I feel that there is still a bit of tension between us and that she's feeling uncomfortable. I did get a little teary at work 'cause I miss not seeing her there every day. You know how workplace is though, words spread and may have spread to her.
We still have a few things we borrowed from each other we need to return. I miss her and would like to see her again. Is there anything I can do at this point besides wait for her to start feeling comfortable and that enough time to pass to iiniate contact with me again? Anything I can tell her at this point? Like that I'd like to see her but wait until she's fully ready and comfortable with the idea of meeting up again?
I feel that this is a crucial time and will set a tone of how things will be down the road, but I'm not sure what is the appropriate thing to do. Email? Txt msg? Call her again? All too soon and just sit and wait it out?
I did get really emotional the first two days she's away, but those feelings have slowly faded and I feel better by the day. But I have zero drive/motivation to go to work and actually do work 'cause she's not there no more.