YAGT: How should I feel about this? [UPDATED!]

[CalvinHobbs]

move on man, better things are waiting for you...go out and meet people...life waits for nobody...so don't miss your bus

 

[dbk]

Drop her cold. She dumped you for another guy-face the facts. Move on.

 

[doze]

Ditch her right before the concert... let her explain it to her parents

She ditched you already

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: Stewy

Originally posted by: JS80
ugh you're so weak.

Explain?

You know, like weak sauce.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: Stewy

Originally posted by: JS80
ugh you're so weak.

Explain?

Do you like torturing yourself, or are you just doing it to entertain us?

You're weak because this girl dropped you, is boning another guy, and you're still fawning over her throughout it, when you couldn't even get her wet anymore.

Have you no self-respect?

I am telling you, I've been through the EXACT same thing you've been through. And I honestly do not know for sure what happened between her and any other guy, and I am ABSOLUTELY fine with that now!

You want closure you say? Then close the damn book and move on! You already know how it ended, do you really need an epilogue in excruciating detail?

What do you expect from her? You stopped paying attention to her...so she moved on. Now that you can't have what you thought you owned, all of a sudden its all that you want? Egos are a bitch like that.... and it is 100% an ego thing. Like you said, it has nothing to do with the breakup, it has to do with the fact that its another guy...that someone was BETTER than you. Is finding out that he really IS better than you and really CAN get her wet really going to make you feel better? Think about that for a little while...

If I could have spoken to myself right after I was in your same situation, I would have smacked myself around. Too late for that now. I'd smack you now if I could.

Stay the hell away from her, and tell your "friends" not to mention her. I don't know what kind of dick friends you have that show you pictures of your ex making out with some other dude. You don't owe her or her family anything. The only thing you owe right now is the very slightest shred of self-respect to yourself.

Breakups are like band-aids - If you rip it off and throw it away, it hurts like a bitch, but its over with and done, and you don't feel it at all before long. If you pull it off slowly, and put it back on over and over after you're halfway done pulling it off, you are in for a great deal of pain that could otherwise have been avoided. And you look like a fool in the process.

So please, for your own sake, just let it go.

 

[alfa147x]

****** no pic...

 

[Zerhyn]

Originally posted by: BD2003
Do you like torturing yourself, or are you just doing it to entertain us?

You're weak because this girl dropped you, is boning another guy, and you're still fawning over her throughout it, when you couldn't even get her wet anymore.

Have you no self-respect?

I am telling you, I've been through the EXACT same thing you've been through. And I honestly do not know for sure what happened between her and any other guy, and I am ABSOLUTELY fine with that now!

You want closure you say? Then close the damn book and move on! You already know how it ended, do you really need an epilogue in excruciating detail?

What do you expect from her? You stopped paying attention to her...so she moved on. Now that you can't have what you thought you owned, all of a sudden its all that you want? Egos are a bitch like that.... and it is 100% an ego thing. Like you said, it has nothing to do with the breakup, it has to do with the fact that its another guy...that someone was BETTER than you. Is finding out that he really IS better than you and really CAN get her wet really going to make you feel better? Think about that for a little while...

If I could have spoken to myself right after I was in your same situation, I would have smacked myself around. Too late for that now. I'd smack you now if I could.

Stay the hell away from her, and tell your "friends" not to mention her. I don't know what kind of dick friends you have that show you pictures of your ex making out with some other dude. You don't owe her or her family anything. The only thing you owe right now is the very slightest shred of self-respect to yourself.

Breakups are like band-aids - If you rip it off and throw it away, it hurts like a bitch, but its over with and done, and you don't feel it at all before long. If you pull it off slowly, and put it back on over and over after you're halfway done pulling it off, you are in for a great deal of pain that could otherwise have been avoided. And you look like a fool in the process.

So please, for your own sake, just let it go.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

 

[amicold]

Originally posted by: Stewy

Originally posted by: Reggae4k
wow, just think about it, hes probably screwing her... and shes probably loving it

Wow, thanks for that buddy!!

I realize it. Sh!t, there were a few times in our relationship that I had the chance to hook up with some really nice looking girls, including one without any gag reflexes at all.

However, I always backed out of that situation, because I did not want to take the chance of damaging our relationship. Now I'm thinking perhaps I should have just dumped her and gone after these other girls that I knew I had a excellent shot at.

What are you in middle school? Your ex and you are both stupid. As for the beloved patriot that's porking her now, all the better for him because he won't care when she leaves him. She sounds pretty easy if he's already porking her.

 

[imported_Stewy]

Originally posted by: amicold

Originally posted by: Stewy

Originally posted by: Reggae4k
wow, just think about it, hes probably screwing her... and shes probably loving it

Wow, thanks for that buddy!!

I realize it. Sh!t, there were a few times in our relationship that I had the chance to hook up with some really nice looking girls, including one without any gag reflexes at all.

However, I always backed out of that situation, because I did not want to take the chance of damaging our relationship. Now I'm thinking perhaps I should have just dumped her and gone after these other girls that I knew I had a excellent shot at.

What are you in middle school? Your ex and you are both stupid. As for the beloved patriot that's porking her now, all the better for him because he won't care when she leaves him. She sounds pretty easy if he's already porking her.

Well, first off, Spain != beloved patriot. I believe that slur is reserved for Mexicans.

Secondly, middle school? Both are stupid? Calm down with the personal attacks man, there's no need for them. In that post, which ironically you picked out of this entire thread, I was venting my fustration that while I hung on to the decaying relationships, I should have just ditched our relationship for something much better. I guess I missed the part where that equates to middle school.

The sad thing is, she was pretty easy when I hooked up with her. She had broken up with her previous boyfriend a few days before, and I hooked up with her two nights later. I guess I shouldn't be suprised that someone did the same to me, but I guess I had hoped that time had made her become a more discriminatory. Guess not.