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YAGT: How often is healthy to makeout/sex/etc

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Originally posted by: Turkey22
I wouldn't presume to know how healthy any ratio of sex would be, but during the first month of my last two relationships its been roughly 3 times a day when we see eachother which is probably 3-4 days a week. Once things settle in though and the relationship isnt new anymore those numbers tend to drop significantly. With my ex it was down to once a month and that didn't feel healthy 🙁
I'm down to twice a day with my current so I see it all slowing down.


That's the kind of response I was looking for.

This is day 4 for me since I've gotten any and it's been a while since it's been this long. It feels more like 4 weeks instead of 4 days.

It wouldn't be a problem if I wasn't around her a lot but since I am it's like trying to pull me off her like a magnet.

And yes, "showing affection" was wrong wording on my part
 
What does this thread have to pertain to women - shows of affection and sex don't just apply between male and female couples 😛
 
Originally posted by: rbloedow
What does this thread have to pertain to women - shows of affection and sex don't just apply between male and female couples 😛

yayayaya...
 
Originally posted by: eakers
depends how long you have been together and how much you like eachother

Let's say 8 months, but it's more like a 1+ year normal relationship because you see each other every day for practically 1/3 to 1/2 of the day ... in the summer we were together almost every second. During June/July we spent 90% of our time together, it had to be at least that much.

I need to find another female aphrodisiac other than alcohol

 
Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
Originally posted by: Turkey22
I wouldn't presume to know how healthy any ratio of sex would be, but during the first month of my last two relationships its been roughly 3 times a day when we see eachother which is probably 3-4 days a week. Once things settle in though and the relationship isnt new anymore those numbers tend to drop significantly. With my ex it was down to once a month and that didn't feel healthy 🙁
I'm down to twice a day with my current so I see it all slowing down.


That's the kind of response I was looking for.

This is day 4 for me since I've gotten any and it's been a while since it's been this long. It feels more like 4 weeks instead of 4 days.

It wouldn't be a problem if I wasn't around her a lot but since I am it's like trying to pull me off her like a magnet.

And yes, "showing affection" was wrong wording on my part

dude if you are around here in these 4 days, why haven't you gotten any? i dont comprehend.
 
Originally posted by: purbeast0
Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
Originally posted by: Turkey22
I wouldn't presume to know how healthy any ratio of sex would be, but during the first month of my last two relationships its been roughly 3 times a day when we see eachother which is probably 3-4 days a week. Once things settle in though and the relationship isnt new anymore those numbers tend to drop significantly. With my ex it was down to once a month and that didn't feel healthy 🙁
I'm down to twice a day with my current so I see it all slowing down.


That's the kind of response I was looking for.

This is day 4 for me since I've gotten any and it's been a while since it's been this long. It feels more like 4 weeks instead of 4 days.

It wouldn't be a problem if I wasn't around her a lot but since I am it's like trying to pull me off her like a magnet.

And yes, "showing affection" was wrong wording on my part

dude if you are around here in these 4 days, why haven't you gotten any? i dont comprehend.

She has classes... I have free time... so I post once and a while?
 
Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
Originally posted by: eakers
depends how long you have been together and how much you like eachother

Let's say 8 months, but it's more like a 1+ year normal relationship because you see each other every day for practically 1/3 to 1/2 of the day ... in the summer we were together almost every second. During June/July we spent 90% of our time together, it had to be at least that much.

I need to find another female aphrodisiac other than alcohol

is she on the pill? thats what kills my sex drive. its probabley the most ironic sideeffect.
 
Originally posted by: eakers
Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
Originally posted by: eakers
depends how long you have been together and how much you like eachother

Let's say 8 months, but it's more like a 1+ year normal relationship because you see each other every day for practically 1/3 to 1/2 of the day ... in the summer we were together almost every second. During June/July we spent 90% of our time together, it had to be at least that much.

I need to find another female aphrodisiac other than alcohol

is she on the pill? thats what kills my sex drive. its probabley the most ironic sideeffect.

Not yet... count that out.

You know what else is weird, is she'll call me up at work or something and say how she's in the mood, but then when we're together? Poof. Gone. It's so frustrating.

I better get some tonight or I'm going to have to kill some kittens.

 
Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
You know what else is weird, is she'll call me up at work or something and say how she's in the mood, but then when we're together? Poof. Gone. It's so frustrating.

I better get some tonight or I'm going to have to kill some kittens.


Welcome to the world of women. It doesn't get better when you get married either. They use it as a weapon. 😀
 
Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
Originally posted by: eakers
Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
Originally posted by: eakers
depends how long you have been together and how much you like eachother

Let's say 8 months, but it's more like a 1+ year normal relationship because you see each other every day for practically 1/3 to 1/2 of the day ... in the summer we were together almost every second. During June/July we spent 90% of our time together, it had to be at least that much.

I need to find another female aphrodisiac other than alcohol

is she on the pill? thats what kills my sex drive. its probabley the most ironic sideeffect.

Not yet... count that out.

You know what else is weird, is she'll call me up at work or something and say how she's in the mood, but then when we're together? Poof. Gone. It's so frustrating.

I better get some tonight or I'm going to have to kill some kittens.

When she's at work, she's in the mood? Doesn't that ring a bell? 😉
 
I show affection every day.

And this is one of the worst YAGTs ever.

Edit-Making out? How old are you? 12? I haven't "made out" in years...
 
i like how you interchange "make out", "showing affection" and "having sex" freely.
Like it is all on the same level...
 
Show me a girl that responds well to "Honey, the good people at Anandtech say we should be having sex three times as much," and I'll go out with her.
 
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