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Triforceofcourage

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Last night I went out with a girl and I really like her. We went to dinner, played a little mini golf, then finished off the night at the beach. I kissed her goodnight, nothing crazy but still on the lips.

I'm going to ask her to come over and watch a movie for our next date. How long should I wait before I call and ask her out again. I probably want to set the date up for Saturday.
 
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Triforceofcourage

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Originally posted by: bctbct
If shes beefy she is probably going to call you today. :laugh:
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She is far from beefy, she is actually really thin. So should I make it a Monday or Tuesday call? I want to setup a date for Saturday.
 
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: bctbct
If shes beefy she is probably going to call you today. :laugh:
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She is far from beefy, she is actually really thin. So should I make it a Monday or Tuesday call? I want to setup a date for Saturday.
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I would call on Monday.
 
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Triforceofcourage

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Originally posted by: NakaNaka
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: bctbct
If shes beefy she is probably going to call you today. :laugh:
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She is far from beefy, she is actually really thin. So should I make it a Monday or Tuesday call? I want to setup a date for Saturday.
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I would call on Monday.
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Isn't that to far in advance?
 
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: KoolDrew
Originally posted by: I Saw OJ
2 to 3 days.
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So Monday or Tuesday?
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Yeah that would be a safe bet...day after is a real risk. You don't want her to think you are too available.

Give her a call, keep it brief though and let her know you'd like to see her again this week..pick a day and plan ahead of time...think of a few options in case plan A is not her cup of tea.

Last thing you want in a new relationship is "sure let's go out! What do you want to do?" "I don't know you pick." "I don't know what do you like?"...heheh

Second date should be something with interaction since you are past the kissing part on the lips. Something that you two can touch a bit and get some body language vibes from each other. Probably want to wrap it up not too late so when you take her home, the invite to come in for a drink or coffee can be presented.

 
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: bctbct
If shes beefy she is probably going to call you today. :laugh:
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She is far from beefy, she is actually really thin. So should I make it a Monday or Tuesday call? I want to setup a date for Saturday.
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If shes too thin she is probably going to call you today. :laugh:
 
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Triforceofcourage

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: KoolDrew
Originally posted by: I Saw OJ
2 to 3 days.
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So Monday or Tuesday?
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Yeah that would be a safe bet...day after is a real risk. You don't want her to think you are too available.

Give her a call, keep it brief though and let her know you'd like to see her again this week..pick a day and plan ahead of time...think of a few options in case plan A is not her cup of tea.

Last thing you want in a new relationship is "sure let's go out! What do you want to do?" "I don't know you pick." "I don't know what do you like?"...heheh

Second date should be something with interaction since you are past the kissing part on the lips. Something that you two can touch a bit and get some body language vibes from each other. Probably want to wrap it up not too late so when you take her home, the invite to come in for a drink or coffee can be presented.
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This will be our third date. The first date we went to lunch. The second date which was last night was dinner, mini golf, and beach at night. For the third date I want to invite her over to watch a movie Saturday night. It gives us some privacy and me the opportunity to get more touchy feely with her. Good idea? What do you think?
 
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3-day rule. you don't break the 3-day rule.

you wait 3 days and you call her and say that you were just thinking about how much fun you had the other night and you wanted to see her again.
 
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Last night I went out with a girl and I really like her. We went to dinner, played a little mini golf, then finished off the night at the beach. I kissed her goodnight, nothing crazy but still on the lips.

I'm going to ask her to come over and watch a movie for our next date. How long should I wait before I call and ask her out again. I probably want to set the date up for Saturday.
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immediately as you get home.

if she's not there, call often and leave lots of msgs on her answering machine

women love the fact that you're interested
 
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drum

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If she really likes you she won't care if you call "too soon"
 
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Chrono

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shut up.

call her like 4-5 days later. UNLESS she calls you up to set up another date then it's ON.
 
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fitzov

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Call her as soon as you get home, and then two minutes later to confirm, then one hour later to make sure she hasn't changed her mind.
 
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dirtboy

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Everyone is going to say 2-3 days. I contend you should have found out at the end of the date last night if she wanted to go out again. Saves the trouble of calling if she says no. To give you a counter point, in the this month's Playboy, one of the playmates who was interviewed said a guy should call her the next day if interested.
 
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