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YAGT: Hmm I think I'm getting somewhere.

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i was in friends mode with a girl for 2 or 3 years. the last year or so i would say we were best friends (never did anything sexual, make out, kiss, hold hands, etc, strictly friends). I got my ass out of friend zone and was in a reltaionship with her for 4.5 years, and at one point thought she was a girl i could marry. alas, it did not work out, but think nothing of the friend zone. if its meant to be, it will happen, if not, dont sweat it, there are 3 billion more fish in the tank. 🙂 good luck!
 
don't respond to the note.
don't go to that place she mentions in the note on the next date.
hell, don't even ask her on another date.
Let her ask you out and then just take her to coffee or something.

if you do the opposite of the above, you will remain in the Zone.
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Your wheels are spinning, but you just aren't going anywhere.

You might still be able to salvage this if you go whole hog. Get a fast motorcycle and a drinking problem STAT. Bonus points if you lose your job in the process.
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:thumbsup::laugh::thumbsup:
 
Since you are one the ¨friend¨ zone , you are still around her... BUT you wont have to pay for things.. thats good... since you are not getting anything out of it(I DONT mean sexual).

If you are really serious about her and respect her... give it some time... you havent mention how many times you have asked her out, or been ¨seeing¨ each other, etc... dont sweat it...
 
Dear Pippy,

Thank you for your interest in the position of Boyfriend / FB. After careful consideration, we have concluded that your personality / appearance / dong size / cash flow does not meet the requirements for this position.

Again, we appreciate your interest in Sig and wish you all the best in your girl search. We will keep your shoulder on file, should we require a place to cry on when the candidate we do accept does something we do not appreciate.

Best Regards,

Sig
 
Originally posted by: Black88GTA
Dear Pippy,

Thank you for your interest in the position of Boyfriend / FB. After careful consideration, we have concluded that your personality / appearance / dong size / cash flow does not meet the requirements for this position.

Again, we appreciate your interest in Sig and wish you all the best in your girl search. We will keep your shoulder on file, should we require a place to cry on when the candidate we do accept does something we do not appreciate.

Best Regards,

Sig
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haha, isn't that the truth.
i've been there. well sort of, i was attracted to this one girl i went to classes with. we talked some and stuff, never went out or anything, i don't think she knew i liked her at the time. anyway, she would always complain to me about the guys she was dating, "i can't find a good guy", etc...i'm just thinking, what about me?
 
Originally posted by: Black88GTA
Dear Pippy,

Thank you for your interest in the position of Boyfriend / FB. After careful consideration, we have concluded that your personality / appearance / dong size / cash flow does not meet the requirements for this position.

Again, we appreciate your interest in Sig and wish you all the best in your girl search. We will keep your shoulder on file, should we require a place to cry on when the candidate we do accept does something we do not appreciate.

Best Regards,

Sig
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lmao
 
The be my friend thing doesn't work.

Story:
I hung out with this very cute, smart girl during summer school after my sophmore year (both mech. engs.). She said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend that summer. I decided to "just be her friend".

We've been married 7 years now. 😉


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treatment "friends" get:
-teased
-used
-your nice gestures are abused
-under appreciated
-your respect for said girl goes over looked

women are like the aliens from independance day

when they find a "friend" they use up all the "resources" until there is nothing left of value and then they move on

don't be a tool
 
Originally posted by: Paratus
The be my friend thing doesn't work.

Story:
I hung out with this very cute, smart girl during summer school after my sophmore year (both mech. engs.). She said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend that summer. I decided to "just be her friend".

We've been married 7 years now. 😉


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there are always exceptions to the rules. you just got lucky.
 
Originally posted by: BriGy86
treatment "friends" get:
-teased
-used
-your nice gestures are abused
-under appreciated
-your respect for said girl goes over looked

women are like the aliens from independance day

when they find a "friend" they use up all the "resources" until there is nothing left of value and then they move on

don't be a tool
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I speak from experience here. Don't be the friend. You get used and no dates...
 
Originally posted by: thehstrybean
Originally posted by: BriGy86
treatment "friends" get:
-teased
-used
-your nice gestures are abused
-under appreciated
-your respect for said girl goes over looked

women are like the aliens from independance day

when they find a "friend" they use up all the "resources" until there is nothing left of value and then they move on

don't be a tool
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I speak from experience here. Don't be the friend. You get used and no dates...
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i've noticed this as well, i was sick and tired of being used, so if they try to pull that now i actually become a cold heartless bastard towards them, i also feel no sympathy for most women in abusive relationships or when a guy is a dick to them, i've noticed most of the time they put themselves in those situations.
 
Make a move to kiss her/ hold her hand and see how she responds. If it is positive you can go places. If not your f0cked and will have to be patient or just be friends...

Koing
 
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