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YAGT: Hmm I think I'm getting somewhere.

Circlenaut

Circlenaut

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Well this girl who I asked out two weeks ago in econ today gave me this "Warmest Thanks" card. hmm, judge for yourselves:

Hey (My Name)
Thank you so much for taking me to go see the Nutcracker. I loved it. I had a good time. We should definitely go hang out some other time. We'll try the place you talked about next time for dinner or something. Friends like you made this Christmas not as bad it would have been. I'm happy that we're just friends. Thanks for everything again. Oh and Happy New Year.

Your friend,

Sig
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I read it it on my lunch period today. I wasn't really optumistic, then her friend told me in class "Don't worry, she's still getting over her ex- bf (it's been 3 months...). Basicly she's just telling you to be her friend and maybe things can go from there." Hmm... make's me think, and feel a little hope. I'll ask her to lunch tommorow or friday and there I'll ask her to dinner in the city.

Updated with Pic

That's a picture on her social page. Hmm she looks better now. Oh btw, that was her ex. Ima get a picture of myself later on for comparison's sake.

Update!

Haha, check this:

Hey,

I'm actually going to look over the test myself when I have a chance to and
if I sitll need help I'll ask you. Was it, bout lunch. Wanna just wait off
on that until after Midterms? I just realized I have to start studying now
cuz it's two weeks away. And we'll take it as a celebration kinda thing?
We'll get some other people to go to, so it will be fun? See you tomorrow
in class. btw if u chat online, i use aol. so my sn is <her sn> if u wanna
just talk to me online instead.

byebye,
<her name>
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To which I replied:

Haha, celebration! I'm telling you there's going to be another 2 week snow storm and then we're going to be celebrating not take them rather then celebrating finishing them, ha! Sure I'll talk to you online, but Aim, Msn, Yahoo and all those other chat programs are blocked by Soveriegn's firewall so I can only use google talk. " http://www.google.com/talk/" For some reason, that works. I'm under my e-mail as "<My handle>". Use that if you want to talk. As for aim, I'll add you anyways, I might feel like talking in the weekend.

Peace

Felipe
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Woot! There's no freaken doubt 'bout it. At least this, oddly provides me with some closure. This girl is simply not worth the effort of "building". She's young ("16 and a half" according to her) I'm 18, and she's kinda of too perky for me... And usually I can handle perky, other people can't stand her. And apperently she has a crap load of friends, so I don't feel like being another one of her many friends or part of the "ladder". She's simply not worth it.

/YAGT thread
 
if you didn't make out with her after the nutcracker you're already in the friend zone. worse, you're in the cuddle-bitch friend zone.
 
No kiss on the first "date" and a note that says she adores you for being "just a friend".
Two huge whammies.


 
Originally posted by: ElFenix
if you didn't make out with her after the nutcracker you're already in the friend zone. worse, you're in the cuddle-bitch friend zone.
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Woa? Cuddle-bitch friend zone? Is that like freebee hugs? To be honest I'm just looking for someone I can be REAL close with... Frankly I'm not worried about intimacy yet. So I actually like the idea of being really close "friends". I think it might go somewhere. I think she's lost a little trust in men... Her friend told me she cried for a week after her bf broke up with her. Meh, I'm patient enough.
 
Originally posted by: Pippy
Well this girl who I asked out two weeks ago in econ today gave me this "Warmest Thanks" card. hmm, judge for yourselves:

Hey (My Name)
Thank you so much for taking me to go see the Nutcracker. I loved it. I had a good time. We should definitely go hang out some other time. We'll try the place you talked about next time for dinner or something. Friends like you made this Christmas not as bad it would have been. I'm happy that we're just friends. Thanks for everything again. Oh and Happy New Year.

Your friend,

Sig
Click to expand...

I read it it on my lunch period today. I wasn't really optumistic, then her friend told me in class "Don't worry, she's still getting over her ex- bf (it's been 3 months...). Basicly she's just telling you to be her friend and maybe things can go from there." Hmm... make's me think, and feel a little hope. I'll ask her to lunch tommorow or friday and there I'll ask her to dinner in the city.
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i was going to say you're looking good until i got to the highlighted part.
i think that speaks for itself.

 
edit...posted about the exact same thing as pontifex...down to the bolded friends in the quotes.

You are just friends man, but good luck at going for more than that.
 
Originally posted by: pontifex
so OP, can you tell us what exactly in that letter makes you think you're getting somewhere?
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By just reading the letter I don't. It was her friend that gave me some hope though I'm not looking to get anywhere fast. Right now I'm just looking for a stable smart dedicated girl in H.S. which, unfortunitly are few. Right now I'll take her to a couple of dinners, lunchs, study sessions and get to know her, hopefully she'll get to kne me. From there things will move on. If it doesn't work out at least I'll have a great friend. Tis only company I'm looking for really. Having a bunch of dumbass, unrealiable "friends" really makes me lonely...
 
Your wheels are spinning, but you just aren't going anywhere.

You might still be able to salvage this if you go whole hog. Get a fast motorcycle and a drinking problem STAT. Bonus points if you lose your job in the process.
 
I'm happy that we're just friends. This sentence does not sound too good if you're trying to be with her. I'd be a little bit more aggressive next time.
 
Originally posted by: Pippy
Originally posted by: pontifex
so OP, can you tell us what exactly in that letter makes you think you're getting somewhere?
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By just reading the letter I don't. It was her friend that gave me some hope though I'm not looking to get anywhere fast. Right now I'm just looking for a stable smart dedicated girl in H.S. which, unfortunitly are few. Right now I'll take her to a couple of dinners, lunchs, study sessions and get to know her, hopefully she'll get to kne me. From there things will move on. If it doesn't work out at least I'll have a great friend. Tis only company I'm looking for really. Having a bunch of dumbass, unrealiable "friends" really makes me lonely...
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true. i guess if you don't mind, just keep doign what you're doing and maybe she'll come around. who knows?
well, unless there are other girls you are after.
 
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