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yagt: got girl's number, when to call?

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slackerinabox

Lifer
I never have the balls to go up to cute strangers but I got this cute girl's number last night in a bar. She asked me to call her TODAY (saturday) and agreed, mostly because i wanted her number but a) I have other plans b) my wingmen for the night told me to wait at least 3 days. But isn't not calling her when she asked me to rude?

Should I call her to tell her I had other plans or just not call her until Thursday, to make plans for next saturday?
 
My opinion is if the girl needs to wait the 3 day rule, shes way too uptight and proper anyway. Call her when you feel like it, especially if she told you to call today. Be sure to tell her your plans (more than just "I have plans") but set something up for another day.
 
If you are interested in seeing her again, and she told you to call today, call today. Sounds simple to me.
 
well she told you to call today. i doubt when you call her she'll say "Hahah! tricked you! you're supposed to wait three days!"

and if she does, i'll eat my socks.
 
Originally posted by: wfbberzerker
well she told you to call today. i doubt when you call her she'll say "Hahah! tricked you! you're supposed to wait three days!"

and if she does, i'll eat my socks.
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Mike: So how long do I wait to call?
Trent: A day.
Mike: Tomorrow.
Sue: Tomorrow, then a day.
Trent: Yeah.
Mike: So two days?
Trent: Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.
Sue: Definitely, two days is like industry standard.
Trent: You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?
Sue: Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.
Trent: But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...
Mike: Yeah, but you know what, mabey I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number.
Charles: Then ask her where you met her.
Mike: Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we ******. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?
Trent: You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.
Mike: Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?
Trent, Sue: Six days.
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Man, you post more YAGTs than anyone on here it seems. It's sad too, because you should go out and make these decisions for yourself and gain your own sense of understanding instead of letting ATOT continually tell you what to do whenever you are in a new situation. I'm not trying to be mean, but if you're continually doing what other people are suggesting, then you aren't really being yourself (which was what the girl was attracted to initially). Just go out, be yourself, fall on your face a few times, learn from it, get back up, go out again. The more you do something, the more comfortable you will become with it.
 
Originally posted by: waitman
call now!
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hahaha.. Thanks guys, I was pretty sure I had to call today but my buds were telling me that I'd come off as not having much better to do... I'm not calling right now - I got home at 6 and need to go back to sleep.

The full story is that i was talking to her less that 10 minutes before falling on my ass, carrying a friend of mine (or trying to - she wasn't heavy, I was drunk). my wingman yelled "bail!" to save me from being embarrassed, yet, before leaving I said my goodbye and she asked if i'd be there (the same bar) tomorrow - i said that that was doubtful but added an "i'd let you know if I had your number" so she gave it to me. so she said "call me tomorrow" in passing, not like an extreme commitment .. but i'll call her tonight anyways..
 
Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Man, you post more YAGTs than anyone on here it seems. It's sad too, because you should go out and make these decisions for yourself and gain your own sense of understanding instead of letting ATOT continually tell you what to do whenever you are in a new situation. I'm not trying to be mean, but if you're continually doing what other people are suggesting, then you aren't really being yourself (which was what the girl was attracted to initially). Just go out, be yourself, fall on your face a few times, learn from it, get back up, go out again. The more you do something, the more comfortable you will become with it.
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you're right and i'm not offended.. sheltered indian kid who wasn't let out of the house until he was 16, then at 16 dated a girl for a year then another for nearly 7 years.. never had a chance to "play" and socialize in that way, so I'm full of dumb questions.
 
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