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lol

it was a very interesting night...

she came over after i got home from work. we had some long discussions and i finally figured out why her behavior was so erratic (involves ex-bf, ex-roommates, jealousy, etc.). then she snooped on my computer and found all my pron while i was ordering food. then we had a long talk about sex, and she told me how badly she wanted me. then i explained why i didnt want to have sex immdiately and she agreed. then we ate dinner, watched a movie, kissed when the ball dropped and she went home around 1. im watching bowl games all day today, but will probably see her on sunday.
 
Hmm.

"Then she snooped and found all my pron. Then we had a long talk about sex."

Yeah. I know why she was there. You know why she was there.
 
SHENS!!! That story is too detailed to be true. And the whole part about her telling you "DO ME NOW!" and you saying "OH, BUT LET'S WAIT!!" reeks so badly of BS that it makes a pig farm smell like a scented candle.

You got stood up, admit it.
 
Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
lol

it was a very interesting night...

she came over after i got home from work. we had some long discussions and i finally figured out why her behavior was so erratic (involves ex-bf, ex-roommates, jealousy, etc.). then she snooped on my computer and found all my pron while i was ordering food. then we had a long talk about sex, and she told me how badly she wanted me. then i explained why i didnt want to have sex immdiately and she agreed. then we ate dinner, watched a movie, kissed when the ball dropped and she went home around 1. im watching bowl games all day today, but will probably see her on sunday.
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You gave up free sex?!?
 
Originally posted by: MichaelD
SHENS!!! That story is too detailed to be true. And the whole part about her telling you "DO ME NOW!" and you saying "OH, BUT LET'S WAIT!!" reeks so badly of BS that it makes a pig farm smell like a scented candle.

You got stood up, admit it.
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Yeah, it sounds like he's just brushing off the story. Usually, someone does that because it didn't go well for him, or he is too shy to share his experience. I suspect it's the former, and he cooked the story.
 
why would i make anything up? i started this post saying i had been dissed many times already, so if it happened again why would you think i wouldnt admit it? i am leaving out some details because they are personal, not because they dont exist. i did stop her from snooping once i realized what she was doing, but it doesnt require too much snooping to find the folder named "porn" in the root lvl of my hard drive 🙂
 
I would change the name of the folder to "stuff" and bury it at least one or two folders deep, possibly under my documents or something (assuming M$).
 
no one really uses my comp other than me. plus, im not ashamed of it either. if a girl is uptight about that kinda stuff, she probably isnt the right one for me anyways. i dont like the idea of anyone snooping around though, even if there is nothing to hide
 
Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
why would i make anything up? i started this post saying i had been dissed many times already, so if it happened again why would you think i wouldnt admit it? i am leaving out some details because they are personal, not because they dont exist. i did stop her from snooping once i realized what she was doing, but it doesnt require too much snooping to find the folder named "porn" in the root lvl of my hard drive 🙂
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I'll tell you a motive: So it wouldn't appear that almost everyone was resoundingly right. At first you were like, yeah, we could be right. However, you began to act defensive. You argued the negation, and put yourself in a position to prove your point ? so that's exactly why you would feel the need to lie.

Are you making up at least a portion of the story? Probably and most likely, but not necessarily.
 
Originally posted by: Zeeky Boogy Doog
so, you have a huge collection of porn, yet you passed up sex? shens
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honestly, it i collected it mostly for my ex. im more likely to search for boobies on the net then watch these full length films.

I'll tell you a motive: So it wouldn't appear that almost everyone was resoundingly right. At first you were like, yeah, we could be right. However, you began to act defensive. You argued the negation, and put yourself in a position to prove your point ? so that's exactly why you would feel the need to lie.

Are you making up at least a portion of the story? Probably and most likely, but not necessarily.
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I feel no need to lie to save face on a public forum with a bunch of strangers... I passed on the sex bc i am not certain i want to get to that level of a relationship with this girl. im not sure i really even want to get more involved than i already am.

i didnt set out to argue anyone, just to point out that while you all assumed the worst (i was last option), you know very little of the situation and the fact that she did end up with me could mean i was number 1 option, but just asked last.

michaeld was right about one thing though, which surprised me about her, she does have a lot of men in her life (another reason im not sure i want to get involved).

 
Originally posted by: DearQT
Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
why would i make anything up? i started this post saying i had been dissed many times already, so if it happened again why would you think i wouldnt admit it? i am leaving out some details because they are personal, not because they dont exist. i did stop her from snooping once i realized what she was doing, but it doesnt require too much snooping to find the folder named "porn" in the root lvl of my hard drive 🙂
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I'll tell you a motive: So it wouldn't appear that almost everyone was resoundingly right. At first you were like, yeah, we could be right. However, you began to act defensive. You argued the negation, and put yourself in a position to prove your point ? so that's exactly why you would feel the need to lie.

Are you making up at least a portion of the story? Probably and most likely, but not necessarily.
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I wouldn't worry now, but if this kind of behavior continues somewhere down the road in your relationship, call it off. Girls that are flaky generally stay that way in my experience. And you did the right thing by not having sex with her, showing her you want a real relationship and not just sex. That signals to her that your not a number guy. What you have to do to win her is show her how much of a better person you are compared to her ex-bf, and once you do that you'll have her feeding from the palm of your hand. Good luck.

P.S. are you sure your not lying about any of this?
 
I've got a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you if you believe any part of her saying how much she wanted him, and him saying "no, let's wait". LOL. If she really wanted you (if 'she' really exists), she wouldn't blow you off a hundred times, then all of a sudden come to the realization, after looking at your porn stash, that she all of a sudden wants to fvck your brains out.

I think you've been reading a little too much of Penthouse Forum.
 
I knew a woman like that a long time ago.

Do what I did:

Go find someone else as she is not worth the hassle.

Trust me, you will be better off without her.
 
Originally posted by: OulOat
Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
lol

it was a very interesting night...

she came over after i got home from work. we had some long discussions and i finally figured out why her behavior was so erratic (involves ex-bf, ex-roommates, jealousy, etc.). then she snooped on my computer and found all my pron while i was ordering food. then we had a long talk about sex, and she told me how badly she wanted me. then i explained why i didnt want to have sex immdiately and she agreed. then we ate dinner, watched a movie, kissed when the ball dropped and she went home around 1. im watching bowl games all day today, but will probably see her on sunday.
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You gave up free sex?!?
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gah! why?!


well, at least we weren't syringered...
 
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