YAGT: game over

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so I broke up with me girl last night. We were goin thru some hard times and i thought that we both needed a little time (a month) break from each other. I asked her not to come visit me next month. She said to her, a break would be the end. I gotta call her tonight to explain all the detail as she was intoxicated throughout the course of the convo and all see remebers is that we broke up

It doesnt feel any different right now. I dont think it has set in yet
 

spidey07

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well dude, either you want to be with her or not.

break = break up

sorry man, stuff happens and we all wish we could take back what we said.

-edit- saying "break" in her mind is "break up" as well it should be.
 

SmoochyTX

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If my boyfriend told me he wanted to take a month-long break from me, I'd dump him too.

Good for your girlfriend.
 
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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
If my boyfriend told me he wanted to take a month-long break from me, I'd dump him too.

Good for your girlfriend.

actually, it was the other way around. she said if i wanted a break, that would be the end of things and i said thats what i want (a break, not necessarily a break up). so that was that
 
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Originally posted by: shortylickens
Did she find your pron?

Or was it more of a "Its not you, its me" issue?

to this day i dont have a single mb of pron of my computer

it was more of a we are getting on each other nerves issue
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: Corporate Thug
so people never take breaks from each other?

How many times have you ever heard of this actually working? I can't name a single example.
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Corporate Thug
so people never take breaks from each other?

How many times have you ever heard of this actually working? I can't name a single example.

It only works on TV, ala "Friends" and Ross.
 

SmoochyTX

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Apr 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Corporate Thug
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
If my boyfriend told me he wanted to take a month-long break from me, I'd dump him too.

Good for your girlfriend.

actually, it was the other way around. she said if i wanted a break, that would be the end of things and i said thats what i want (a break, not necessarily a break up). so that was that
That's not what you said in your original post. Regardless, a month-long 'rest from each other' equals a breakup. Mourn and then move on.
 

OdiN

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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
If my boyfriend told me he wanted to take a month-long break from me, I'd dump him too.

Good for your girlfriend.

...didn't know you were a girl
 

Skunkwourk

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damn everyone always breaks up around this time, and in the spring and summer finds someone again...
 

moshquerade

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good luck with that. it's not like she's going to sit still and pine for you while you are on this "break" you want.
 

KarenMarie

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there certainly are a lot of break ups on OT lately.

except for that one guy.. who got together with the wife of the guy his girl was cheating with.

hard time on OT.
 

pcnerd37

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Judging by your post, I would be willing to bet that the true reason for the breakup is your lack of communication skills.