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YAGT: Friend from the past emailing me after break up

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Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.

Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.

Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

FYI: Freedomsbeat212's definition of "hooking up" is second base.

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.

Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

FYI: Freedomsbeat212's definition of "hooking up" is second base.

- M4H

haha, sorry for not being a whore - my new policy is to not sleep with anyone until i'm actually dating them. i did that a little too often last year.
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.

Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

FYI: Freedomsbeat212's definition of "hooking up" is second base.

- M4H

I dought it. I think his definition of hooking up is taking a pic with her or adding her as a friend on myspace.
 
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.

Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

FYI: Freedomsbeat212's definition of "hooking up" is second base.

- M4H

I dought it. I think his definition of hooking up is taking a pic with her or adding her as a friend on myspace.

actually, it was first base with her and it was our first date. made out in a photobooth, was quite romantic but she wasn't brave enough to go further
 
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.

Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

FYI: Freedomsbeat212's definition of "hooking up" is second base.

- M4H

I dought it. I think his definition of hooking up is taking a pic with her or adding her as a friend on myspace.

BWAHAHAAHAHHAAHHAHAAHAHHAhAH OWNED!!

I also find it funny that he says he doesnt want to sleep with a girl until he is dating them. sorry bro i wouldnt want to sleep with or date any of the girls youve posted here.

 
man, if you are going to post this many YAGTs, at least bring back the sig that had this in it:

*-=> tHe WiLd WoRlD oF fReEdOmSbEaT dAtInG <=-*

or whatever. at least that was something to look forward to.
 
Originally posted by: xospec1alk
wait, where do you get $1 pitchers?!?!

Every Wednesday, Town Tavern in NYC (with $6 cover). It's beer pong night but I tend to just drink. Also, the patriot saloon has $6 pitchers 24/7.
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

What I don't understand is, why you are proud of this? You sound like the type of guy who keeps score of how many girls he has "hit". The fact of the matter is, can you actually keep a decent, smart, and beautiful girl for more than sex? Get your mentallity out of High School, and try to attract a girl that you can actually spend more time with than just being a notch on your belt, and I think more people here would respect you and your threads.

The point is your threads tend to exploit these girls you want to get with by showing their pictures, and boasting how you groped/banged/copped a feel/made out with... That is just an asshole thing to do, and is totally about attention whoring and showing off what you think is "prowess" and what you think makes you more of a man. It doesn't. Sorry, but people who think differently will usually only end up divorced and alone and still trying to play the "game" when they are much older, or settling in a relationship that will only cause them misery. I am just laying it to you straight, dude. Take it as opinion, but if you take my advice and actually pursue a girl that you actually would consider bringing back to your parents, really spending time with, and someone you would be more than happy to treat like a real woman, I think you will be a better person for it. Good luck to you.

If you don't take this advice, that is your perogative, too, but don't act so surprised when people consider you a tool for doing this. Rationalize it all you want, but in the end these threads are more about your need for attention about the girls you can get, and not very much about an actual problem or trying to be a better person.
 
Originally posted by: mrSHEiK124
NAIL. THE OTHER. "PLATONIC FRIEND."

nah, she's like a sister to me now. She got me a job and is my workout partner, wouldn't want to mess that up and, to be blunt, I don't think I'm in her league even if I did want her. Besides, I have a date with her guest for my birthday next week - pretty girls tend to have pretty friends! I don't have to post a YAGT thread about that one because there was no confusion about the proceedings - she had a blast at my party and I asked her out for drinks, no ambiguity there (which, if you get to the heart of my YAGTs, is what all of my angst is about).
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: xospec1alk
wait, where do you get $1 pitchers?!?!

Every Wednesday, Town Tavern in NYC (with $6 cover). It's beer pong night but I tend to just drink. Also, the patriot saloon has $6 pitchers 24/7.

Town Tavern, is that an NYU hangout? looks like an interesting dive nonetheless though
 
Originally posted by: xospec1alk
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: xospec1alk
wait, where do you get $1 pitchers?!?!

Every Wednesday, Town Tavern in NYC (with $6 cover). It's beer pong night but I tend to just drink. Also, the patriot saloon has $6 pitchers 24/7.

Town Tavern, is that an NYU hangout? looks like an interesting dive nonetheless though

Yes, NYU dive. Not my favorite of places (Blue and Gold is my favorite dive) but $1 pitchers? I'll be there!
 
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

What I don't understand is, why you are proud of this? You sound like the type of guy who keeps score of how many girls he has "hit". The fact of the matter is, can you actually keep a decent, smart, and beautiful girl for more than sex? Get your mentallity out of High School, and try to attract a girl that you can actually spend more time with than just being a notch on your belt, and I think more people here would respect you and your threads.

The point is your threads tend to exploit these girls you want to get with by showing their pictures, and boasting how you groped/banged/copped a feel/made out with... That is just an asshole thing to do, and is totally about attention whoring and showing off what you think is "prowess" and what you think makes you more of a man. It doesn't. Sorry, but people who think differently will usually only end up divorced and alone and still trying to play the "game" when they are much older, or settling in a relationship that will only cause them misery. I am just laying it to you straight, dude. Take it as opinion, but if you take my advice and actually pursue a girl that you actually would consider bringing back to your parents, really spending time with, and someone you would be more than happy to treat like a real woman, I think you will be a better person for it. Good luck to you.

If you don't take this advice, that is your perogative, too, but don't act so surprised when people consider you a tool for doing this. Rationalize it all you want, but in the end these threads are more about your need for attention about the girls you can get, and not very much about an actual problem or trying to be a better person.
QFT
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: bigrash
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.

Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

FYI: Freedomsbeat212's definition of "hooking up" is second base.

- M4H

haha, sorry for not being a whore - my new policy is to not sleep with anyone until i'm actually dating them. i did that a little too often last year.

so you'll never sleep with any of these girls because i don't know how you have time to date all of them when you have so many...
 
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

What I don't understand is, why you are proud of this? You sound like the type of guy who keeps score of how many girls he has "hit". The fact of the matter is, can you actually keep a decent, smart, and beautiful girl for more than sex? Get your mentallity out of High School, and try to attract a girl that you can actually spend more time with than just being a notch on your belt, and I think more people here would respect you and your threads.

The point is your threads tend to exploit these girls you want to get with by showing their pictures, and boasting how you groped/banged/copped a feel/made out with... That is just an asshole thing to do, and is totally about attention whoring and showing off what you think is "prowess" and what you think makes you more of a man. It doesn't. Sorry, but people who think differently will usually only end up divorced and alone and still trying to play the "game" when they are much older, or settling in a relationship that will only cause them misery. I am just laying it to you straight, dude. Take it as opinion, but if you take my advice and actually pursue a girl that you actually would consider bringing back to your parents, really spending time with, and someone you would be more than happy to treat like a real woman, I think you will be a better person for it. Good luck to you.

If you don't take this advice, that is your perogative, too, but don't act so surprised when people consider you a tool for doing this. Rationalize it all you want, but in the end these threads are more about your need for attention about the girls you can get, and not very much about an actual problem or trying to be a better person.

listen to DaShen. He speaks the truth. maybe if you concentrated on one girl for more than 10 minutes you could find a good one.
 
At first I was going to say "No, you're not looking into it too much. she wants to bang you.", but then I saw who posted it. so the automatic answer is yes, you're looking too much into it.
 
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Oh, name calling! How fun. Would you like to make a wager? I hooked up with a girl I posted a YAGT thread about last week and probably will hook up with one of them this weekend, thanks to some of the advice gained through here.

What I don't understand is, why you are proud of this? You sound like the type of guy who keeps score of how many girls he has "hit". The fact of the matter is, can you actually keep a decent, smart, and beautiful girl for more than sex? Get your mentallity out of High School, and try to attract a girl that you can actually spend more time with than just being a notch on your belt, and I think more people here would respect you and your threads.

The point is your threads tend to exploit these girls you want to get with by showing their pictures, and boasting how you groped/banged/copped a feel/made out with... That is just an asshole thing to do, and is totally about attention whoring and showing off what you think is "prowess" and what you think makes you more of a man. It doesn't. Sorry, but people who think differently will usually only end up divorced and alone and still trying to play the "game" when they are much older, or settling in a relationship that will only cause them misery. I am just laying it to you straight, dude. Take it as opinion, but if you take my advice and actually pursue a girl that you actually would consider bringing back to your parents, really spending time with, and someone you would be more than happy to treat like a real woman, I think you will be a better person for it. Good luck to you.

If you don't take this advice, that is your perogative, too, but don't act so surprised when people consider you a tool for doing this. Rationalize it all you want, but in the end these threads are more about your need for attention about the girls you can get, and not very much about an actual problem or trying to be a better person.

listen to DaShen. He speaks the truth. maybe if you concentrated on one girl for more than 10 minutes you could find a good one.

i never turn down good advice. I think you might have a point. After I broke up from a nearly 7 year long relationship I've been busy playing catch up, which lead to more frustration that I can deal with. One girl.. That's a novel idea. You're right, it's the mature thing to do and me trying to chase 5 or more girls at once is immature.. I accept that.
 
Originally posted by: rsd
Don't assume anything, go out and have fun. If it leads to anything then so be it.

yup, rebound. shes looking for that positive validation since she just got single. since you were there in the past to give it, youll give it again, shes hoping. once she gets it, she will still reject ya, odds are.
 
Every freedumbsbeat thread is the same. Why the hell do you keep making YAGTs when the response is the same every time? Haven't you learned anything yet?
 
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