YAGT: Friend from the past emailing me after break up

[slackerinabox]

I had a friend I was sorta into a while ago - told her how I felt and she rejected me. Then she started dating someone and we just lost touch. Now, out of the blue, she emails me saying that she tried to call me but my number was disconnected. I call her and we talk and she tells me that she just broke up with her BF. I ask her what she's been up to and she says just staying at home to which I say "stop being boring, join me for $1 pitchers tonight!" She agree but I don't want to blow this out of proportion or miss a lead - approach with caution and feel things out or assume she called me for a reason? Cynical me thinks the reason is that she was bored.

Pics since everyone will ask:
on the right (blonde/blue eyes)

Me getting plastered with her, pre-emetive "shens" proof

 

[Alone]

Rebound.

 

[pontifex]

when is enough enough? fvcking christ dude, you have like 3 YAGTs a day...

how can anyone have this many women problems?

 

[xSkyDrAx]

wait so what are you expecting here? d you want it or not?

 

[thecoolnessrune]

Agreed.. Rebound.

 

[rsd]

Don't assume anything, go out and have fun. If it leads to anything then so be it.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: xSkyDrAx
wait so what are you expecting here? d you want it or not?

i don't know how this guy could possibly have any idea what he wants with all the YAGTs he posts.

just find one girl and stick with it for awhile. just because a girl talks to you doesn't mean she wants you. i'm beginning to think most of this is shens because you always have pics of these girls and always post them

 

[James Bond]

Originally posted by: Alone
Rebound.

Yep.
Don't expect much.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: thecoolnessrune
Agreed.. Rebound.

Yuppers. So go for it, but with the understanding that it's most likely a temporary thing.

 

[SirChadwick]

Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

 

[Spineshank]

So whats the question?

 

[Mackie2k]

Nah, you are the "friend" of all these girls. If you weren't, you wouldn't be on Anandtech talking about them, you'd be hooking up with them.

Permanent Friend Zone request Approved.

 

[homercles337]

Originally posted by: Tizyler

Originally posted by: Alone
Rebound.

Yep.
Don't expect much.

Dont expect much? In that situation he can expect to get laid. Thats not much?

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Mackie2k
Nah, you are the "friend" of all these girls. If you weren't, you'd be would be on Anandtech talking about them, you'd be hooking up with them.

Permanent Friend Zone request Approved.

i've hooked up with quite a few friends and dated one for 6 years. when you don't look like brad pitt you gotta go that route sometimes.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: pontifex
when is enough enough? fvcking christ dude, you have like 3 YAGTs a day...

how can anyone have this many women problems?

He is showboating. :roll: and he thinks he is a player or something. I tend to just ignore this stuff now.

 

[Riverhound777]

Treat her like a sister/cool friend, tease her, have a good time. She'll most likely go home with you. Hit it, and enjoy the ride. Don't get attached.

 

[J0hnny]

He's always posting YAGT's because he's forever stuck in the friendzone!

All women think he's a harmless guy-friend! That, or they think he's gay. Why do you think he has so many female friends?

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: J0hnny
He's always posting YAGT's because he's forever stuck in the friendzone!

All women think he's a harmless guy-friend! That, or they think he's gay. Why do you think he has so many female friends?

that's partially true, some probably think i'm gay /non-threatening.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: xSkyDrAx
wait so what are you expecting here? d you want it or not?

Depends on what "it" is. A part of me thinks rebound. Which I wouldn't turn down, she's young looking but cute in person. A part of me thinks she just wants to vent, making for a very unfun night for me.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Friendz0wned!

- M4H

 

[halik]

Originally posted by: Alone
Rebound.

seconded, I'd definitely go for that.

 

[Snakexor]

those have got to be two of the ugliest girls ive seen in my life. dont waste your breath on either of them.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Snakexor
those have got to be two of the ugliest girls ive seen in my life. dont waste your breath on either of them.

I don't know the other one. The girl on the right is cuter in person, it's more her personality than anything. But, you're right, I was into her far more when I didn't live in the neighborhood with all the cute flight attendants!

 

[bigrash]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Didn't you just post something about wanting to hook up w/ another one of your friends the other day? Get off ATOT and get laid dude! Geezz...

there are about 5 girls i'm feeling things out with. gotta play the averages game!

I guarantee you that you won't hit either of them. just cause you "feel" them doesn't mean that they feel the same way. Stop posting a thread everything you think a girl feels something for you. you're ugly and she don't like you that way.