YAGT: Friend from high school

[Saint Nick]

She says, "Oh he's just some guy I date."

dude, come on, after she said this i would have paid the bill and left it at that. seriously, don't waste your time with her. please.

 

[kogase]

Originally posted by: TallBill
I met a girl that I barely knew from high school a year after high school. Shes my wife now.

So, was that like... a year ago?

 

[wasserkool]

she want ur man seat!!!

 

[MrDudeMan]

Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
She asked me to go to dinner again last night. I said that I wasn't feeling well. I suggested that we go see a movie before she goes to work today. She said, "How about lunch?" I slipped an answer in there somewhere, I think I said yes LOL. She's been really busy lately with this online real estate broker class. She says, "How about after I catch up on the reading then let's go do something?"

She seems really attentive and stuff. She calls me when I don't reply to her txts. Oh as I am typing this, I told her let's go have dinner after she gets off work tonight instead. I gotta go get a new fridge because the one at home is broken. She's asking me if I know any places around here that stay open really late so people can just sit, eat, and chit-chat for hours. I'm not sure what she means by this. I'll just have to play it by ear, I am not going to get my heart/mind fvcked with again!

I'd like to post some pics of her but I am afraid someone on ATOT might know her then I'll screw up any chances of this situation going into the "profit" zone. I will post pics once I am in the zone and in the clear. I'll keep this updated.

Right as I am hitting "post" on this, she says that she's going to go on a mad-reading frenzy to get ahead then, "if I get enough read, can we go to the movies tonight?"

how old are you guys?

i think you are working your way into the "profit" zone and if you want a relationship out of this, you may have a chance. if it starts to get more serious, though, i would tell her you dont feel comfortable with joe-fvck-stick still in the picture.

oh, and you can post pics with a blocked out face for now. once you are in the "profit" zone, then you can post pics with her face included. everyone wins.

 

[ColdFusion718]

I'm 25 and she's 24.

 

[Nitemare]

obligatory "when in doubt whip it out" post

 

[Orsorum]

Drop her and drop her now, you're being used like an old pair of sneakers.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: Nitemare
obligatory "when in doubt whip it out" post

 

[ColdFusion718]

I don't think whipping it out will help LOL.

 

[TallBill]

Originally posted by: kogase

Originally posted by: TallBill
I met a girl that I barely knew from high school a year after high school. Shes my wife now.

So, was that like... a year ago?

Well i bumped into her when we were 19, we just got married and we turn 23 in a few days.

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
I don't think whipping it out will help LOL.

can't hurt...

 

[sonz70]

Originally posted by: necine
In other words he gets laid while you do all the bf crap. Get out of this situation as soon as possible, it will lead no where, quick.

edit: give her an ultamatum, or try to make a move, or something. Give it one shot, if it doesnt work, end communication immediately.

wow...only took two posts and we got the right answer.... congrats ATOT....we have reached a new level

 

[CarlKillerMiller]

My god, you're being played for SUCH a sucker.

The bf is probably cackling about you being such an incredible tool. You're fulfilling all of her emotional needs without getting anything back. Is she a charity?

 

[MrDudeMan]

Originally posted by: sonz70

Originally posted by: necine
In other words he gets laid while you do all the bf crap. Get out of this situation as soon as possible, it will lead no where, quick.

edit: give her an ultamatum, or try to make a move, or something. Give it one shot, if it doesnt work, end communication immediately.

wow...only took two posts and we got the right answer.... congrats ATOT....we have reached a new level

:thumbsup: i find myself agreeing with you often sonz. you seem like a cool guy.

 

[ColdFusion718]

We went and saw a movie last night (Just Like Heaven) then had a late dinner. We spent some time talking about this and that. Hmm she kept smiling at me whenever I look at her. I'll wait a few weeks when she is free then I'll take her on a real date, if the waters feel good, I'll make a move, if not I'll be done with her. I'll keep this updated.

 

[I Saw OJ]

You either have to make your move now, or not make one at all. Sounds like you are already in the friend zone a little bit, its prolly not too late though. Take her out of one of your date things, and try to plant a kiss on her, you will know right then and there if your too far into the friend zone to go back or not.


Seth

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

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